PPP105: The Blessing of Routine




Piano Parent Podcast show

Summary: <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> The Blessing of Routine <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> We all know what a routine is. We follow a routine, whether good or bad, every day. Get up at a certain time, get ready for work or school, the route we drive to get to those locations.<a href="https://www.miraclemorning.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Miracle Morning</a> and <a href="http://www.flylady.net/c/lp.php" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The FlyLady</a> are two well-known websites geared to help establish good routines. Have you used these?<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Summer - a blessing and a curse <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> I love the free time with a loose schedule, staying up too late, sleeping in. However, the reality of summer is that I get less accomplished. If I don’t “have” to do it now, I tell myself I will do it later but really it doesn’t get done.The beauty of a routine or schedule is that things get finished, not pushed back.<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> School = Schedule <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> When school starts in a few short weeks, we will get back on a more predictable schedule. We know what will be happening Monday through Friday and what needs to happen after school.There is no room for procrastination. Homework must be done each night or it will compound and be even more overwhelming.<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Supernanny - too many bosses <br> <br> <br> <br> I watched <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klnuFuDSeLQ" target="_blank" rel="noopener">this episode of Supernanny on YouTube</a> the other day. The parents of these five children were well-intentioned but they were distracted by their own interests and lazy when it came to instructing their children.They had plenty of help with a grandmother and nanny on their team. Instead of helping, this added to the problem. There were too many bosses but no one was really in charge.Supernanny’s outside perspective helped them set things in order. She reminded the parents of their responsibilities and helped them learn to set up routines and delegate responsibilities and clear expectations to the other adults on their team.This resulted in less chaos, less stress and more order. Everyone was happier; especially the children who now spent quality (and quantity) time with their parents.<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Decide NOW <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Now is the perfect time to sit down as a family and determine what your fall routine will be.