Summary: TVC079 Goal Setting Sabotage<br> 5 Reasons You May Be Roadblocking Your Own Goals<br> Why Goal Setting Isn’t Working – the quick tips you can do to overcome leaving your goals on paper and turn them into results<br> I know I work with some wonderfully inspirational high achievers, however the commitment through my content is to provide as many people as possible real, accessible and tangible tools to help all of you design the business and personal life you really love and can sustain. <br> So let’s get started…on today’s hot topic of why your goal setting may not getting may not be working out… <br> <br> <br> <br> There’s so much out in the world at the moment about <br> <br> * how to set goals<br> * what to do for your focus<br> * how to define what you want<br> * finding your why (really knowing it)…… .all very valid and crucial anchors for success and ones I also use in my programs – however the issue is, we’re not creating the actions, and we’re not achieving results. We set goals but nothing is happening when life gets in the way.<br> <br> Here are five core reasons why people don’t achieve their goals and how you can actually turn that around very quickly.<br> <br> * It doesn’t resonate<br> * It isn’t relevant & It’s not real time<br> * You’re Not Facing Your Fears<br> * Distraction<br> * Self Discipline (or lack of the integrated approach for getting things done)<br> <br> 1) RESONATE: Is it REALLY YOUR why?<br> The first reason that most people don’t achieve their goals is they don’t know their why, or they got inspired by someone else and forgot to really check in with their own anchor.<br> Quite simply, if you don’t want to fight for a goal, if you don’t believe in something enough, if you’re not gonna actually stand by that with conviction and clarity, then obviously it doesn’t mean enough for you to move heaven and earth and to start working on it.<br> Your why could be as simple as:<br> <br> * just showing yourself self-discipline, or doing something because you want to set a role model example for your kids,<br> * or because you finally want to look after the body that you have,<br> * or it could be that you’re starting a business and you need to get more information around how to be a better business person commercially as well as sales and marketing.<br> <br> <br> Your why is what is motivating you to set this goal.<br> <br> So, is your goal resonating with you? Is it really relevant to you?<br> <br> 2) RELEVANCE <br> Once you start talking about goal setting its figuring out is that goal relevant to you. You can be inspired by other people, but you have to have a goal that’s relevant to you and your situation. <br> <br> * Why is this goal important to you? <br> * What’s the truth, and I had a great little chat with Lane Beachley, about this about the comfort with discomfort . We’re so afraid of our own truth. <br> <br> It’s not the truth that other people give us, it’s just owning your stuff. Owning where you’re at, owning what you really, really want. <br> Find people around you where you can be completely transparent. <br> The real honesty around this is its very, very few people that you can actually earn your truth with, and number one is that many of us can’t earn our truth with ourselves. So it takes time to reflect on that. <br> You can’t have an understanding and transparency around what you really want if you don’t take time out to sit down and listen to your gut, because remember on the future episodes, before I talk about the fact<a href="http://thevitalitycoach.com.au/your-ego-is-not-your-amigo/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"> your ego is not your amigo</a>
