Episode 062: Overcoming Porn and Sex Addiction | Tray and Melody Lovvorn




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Summary: Summary:<br> Is it possible for a couple to come back from divorce, along with porn and sex addiction to thrive in their marriage?  Tray and Melody Lovvorn have a miracle story because of the hard work they did with God to bring them back together.  It isn’t all pretty, but it was all true. This week we’re having a conversation with couple, turned authors, speakers and podcasters about how they:<br> <br> * Lived the lie of church leaders, hiding a secret addiction<br> * Divorced and lived separate lives for 6 years<br> * Came back together on a redemptive, healing journey<br> <br> <br> <br> About Tray and Melody Lovvorn:<br> Tray and Melody had been married for 11 years when Tray’s secret struggle with pornography and sexual sin ripped their family apart. After 6 years of divorce, God brought about a miraculous restoration and they reconciled and have been remarried for almost 9 years. Discovering that true healing is found on the other side of pain, Tray and Melody have a passion to help men, women, and families experience God’s grace in brokenness and to learn to connect deeply with others in authentic community.<br> Tray and Melody are sought after speakers and teachers on the subjects of marriage, parenting, sexual addiction, and betrayal trauma, and God’s wonderfully scandalous grace. Through Undone Redone, their Birmingham-based non-profit and weekly podcast, Tray and Melody provide life and marriage coaching, recovery intensives, parenting solutions, and help churches establish Christ-centered recovery groups.<br> They live in Birmingham, AL with their four children and ferocious Peekapoo, Toto.<br> Where you can find Tray and Melody Lovvorn online:<br> <a href="https://undoneredone.com/">UndoneRedone Website</a><br> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/UndoneRedone">Facebook</a><br> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/UndoneRedone">YouTube</a><br> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/UndoneRedone">UndoneRedone Podcast</a><br> <a href="http://twitter.com/UndoneRedone">Twitter</a><br> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/undone-redone">LinkedIn</a><br> <a href="http://www.instagram.com/undoneredone">Instagram</a><br> In This Episode:<br> <br> * Calling men to become more than helpless, hormone-ruled beasts<br> * The shame of constantly living a lie is like trying to keep a beach ball under water<br> * Doing the ugly, hard work to heal for Melody and Tray<br> * The question on every man’s heart – “do I have what it takes?”<br> * How white-knuckling never worked<br> * How to fight together to get to the root issues<br> <br> Resources:<br> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/legendarymarriages/">Join the Marriage Masterclass</a><br> <a href="http://www.legendarymarriage.com/community">Continue the Conversation on FB</a><br> <a href="https://undoneredone.com/blog-4/">UndoneRedone Blog</a><br> The Challenge:<br> Have a conversation with your spouse about the role porn plays in your marriage and family.<br> Listen Now:<br>