Myth: I don’t need to talk about finances before getting married.




Breaking Money Silence show

Summary: <p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;"><strong>Julie Lawrence, CFP®, Lawrence Financial Planning, LLC</strong></span></p><br> <p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;"><strong>Myth:</strong> <em>I don’t need to talk about finances before getting married.</em></span></p><br> <p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt;">Not talking about money is the number two reason couples divorce according to Marriage.com. But couples who discuss money matters regularly act as a team and report greater levels of satisfaction with their partners. In today’s episode, Kathleen and Julie Lawrence, CFP®, examine the myth that couples don’t need to talk about finances before getting married. Listen in and learn some tips for talking about money with your honey!</span><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt;"> </span></span></p><br> <p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt;">Key Take Aways:</span><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt;"> </span></span>  </p><br> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;">Julie shares how she facilitates the telling of each partner’s money biography (consisting of a list of open-ended questions) and how this strategy helps the couple she works with discover their respective money mindsets.</span></li> <br> <li><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;">Communicating honestly about your saving and spending behaviors can be challenging. But doing so can really help partners understand each other. You may not change your money behaviors, but together you can commit and work toward shared couple goals.</span></li> <br> <li> <span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;">Different strategies work for different money personalities. For example, if you are a spender, setting up an automatic savings withdrawal each month makes sense. If you don’t see the money, you won’t spend it!</span> </li> <br> </ul><p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt;">Julie Lawrence, CFP® opened <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a style="color: #000000; text-decoration: underline;" href="http://lawrencefinancialplanning.com/">Lawrence Financial Planning</a></span> in 2009. She has more than 28 years of experience in finance and management and holds a B.A. in Management from National Louis University.</span><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt;"> </span></span></p><br> <p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt;">Julie has been quoted in <em>Financial Planning</em> magazine, <em>Investment News</em>, <em>NAPFA Advisor</em> magazine, the Saint Petersburg Times, MSNMoney.com, the Chicago Tribune and FinancialPlanning.com. She serves as a mentor for new ACP financial planners and is an active member of NAPFA.</span><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt;"> </span></span></p><br> <p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;">Julie has lived in Florida since 1977. She has three children. In her spare time she practices yoga, walks, and goes kayaking.</span></p><br> <p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;"> </span></p>