Ep 014 // A Stress-Free Approach to Getting What You Want with Chase Reeves




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Summary: As we prepare to kick off Season 2 of these podcast (YAY!), I was having a conversation with my teammate and friend, Chase Reeves.  He asked me one important question: "How do you want Courage & Clarity to feel?"  The question gave me pause for a few different reasons. First of all, it was refreshing. Questions like, "What should our goal be for this podcast?" often leave me scratching my head -- uhh, 1,000 people listen to it? A million people? Having Oprah on the show??  But how I want it to feel? That's a question I can actually answer.  This conversation isn't about shirking results. Results are big time important mile markers -- I'm starting to see them as the guard rails that help ensure a project is on track. But I see them less and less as a guiding light.  You see, "results" or "goals" as we traditionally define them are burdened with energy-draining traps laid by ego, comparison and doubt. Those goals want to keep us on the hamster wheel, chasing "success" without ever really feeling great. You have to start with how you want it to feel, not just when it's over, but while you're creating.  Here's how Chase put it: "If you want some outcome, spend time practicing how you want that outcome to feel."  I know it might feel like a stretch, but all the things you want to feel -- joy, competence, excitement, security, safety -- you don't have to wait to feel them. You can feel those things right now, before you reach "success" (