Summary: Relationships are tricky (major understatement).<br> I think today’s podcast with my pastor’s wife, Vela Tomba, will give us words & imagery to help alleviate some of the trickiness.<br> Vela has been married to Neil for 30 years, is the mom to three grown girls and grandmother to one adorable granddaughter. She served with Campus Crusade for Christ (Cru) before staying home full-time.<br> <a href="http://godcenteredmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/velatombaep28.jpg"></a><br> Last summer Vela guest posted a 3-part series on the concept of “Hula Hoop-o-logy” (read the series <a title="Hula Hoop-o-logy {part 1: stay in your hoop}" href="http://godcenteredmom.com/2013/08/05/hula-hoop-o-logy-part-1-stay-in-your-hoop/">here</a>)<br> Honestly? Her thoughts on this topic have helped all (absolutely all) my relationships.<br> In this episode we discuss:<br> <br> * What it means to stay in your “hula hoop”<br> * Why we need to stay out of others’ hoops<br> * How to transition our children from our hoop (birth) to their own (jr. high-college)<br> * Physical hoop issues vs emotional hoop issues<br> * Whether or not it is a mom’s job to make her kids happy<br> * Interacting with husband in light of “hula hoop-o-logy”–reflective listening<br> * Handling a variety of relationships with this mindset–>adult children & their spouses; grandchildren; extended family<br> * Difference between hula-hoops and “Boundaries”<br> * A Christian’s responsibility to non-believers in relation to hoops<br> <br> Show Notes:<br> <br> * <a title="cru" href="http://www.cru.org/" target="_blank">Campus Crusade for Christ (Cru)</a><br> * “Boundaries” by Henry Cloud & John Townsend<br> * “<a title="father of the bride" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0101862/?ref_=ttqt_qt_tt" target="_blank">Father of the Bride” </a><br> <br> Do you struggle with staying out of others’ hoops? Which relationship challenges you the most?<br> <br> **How to listen to the podcast:**<br> 1.Listen on the blog. Click through to <a style="color: #cbda76;" title="gcm" href="http://godcenteredmom.com/" target="_blank">GodCenteredMom.com</a> and click the play button at the beginning of this post.<br> 2. Listen on your smartphone, iPad or iPod Touch – There are a lot of great podcasting apps. Apple has a<a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/podcasts/id525463029?mt=8" target="_blank"> free one</a> (that I mentioned) in the app store, there is also one called <a style="color: #cbda76;" href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/downcast/id393858566?mt=8" target="_blank">Downcast</a>. It allows you to search for shows, subscribe to them and even speed up the audio. If you don’t have an iDevice, you can listen via <a style="color: #cbda76;" title="stitcher" href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=48293&refid=stpr" target="_blank">Stitcher</a>.<br> 3. Subscribe to the Podcast – access the podcast in iTunes (<a style="color: #cbda76;" title="podcast" href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/godcenteredmoms-podcast/id741742885" target="_blank">Click here</a> to access via iTunes). You can also search for it on your smartphone app (like the ones listed above) and subscribe.<br> *If you missed past episodes, you can listen via iTunes or click on <a style="color: #cbda76;" title="The Podcast" href="http://godcenteredmom.com/portfolio/the-podcast/" target="_blank">this page</a> of the GodCenteredMom site to find a listing of all the episodes.<br>
