Summary: Romance, Attraction, and desire can be a funny thing – especially if we don't understand how God created it to work. After examining different scriptures we'll learn how to stoke up the fire for those already married; and, for singles, how to start a divinely stoked up fire in the first place! Matt. 6:21. Key Words: Marriage, Dating, Attraction, Romance Key Ques: How do I keep romance stoked up? Can you 'fall out of love'? What do I do if my marriage is fading? What type of person should I be looking to date? How do I stay in love? Technical Desc: Desire follows attention. NFL story.