Summary: Whether your community is big or small, it’s impossible to be everyone’s friend. I have seen it tried to be done and those people get quickly burnt out. We simply cannot please everyone. Jesus picked four disciples out of the twelve to be his closest and most trusted friends. And while he had the four, he still lived only for the approval of God. Any motivation other than God’s approval will only lead us to disappointment. The Bible says in the book of Proverbs, “Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is kept safe.” If we are constantly seeking others people’s approval, we are living in the fear of rejection. Let’s together release any desire for all people to like us. If we value God’s approval over all else, we will feel more joy and be able to go out and boldly reach our world. There is a personal reward for remaining faithful in the face of rejection. God has a plan and he plans to use us mightily to reach others with His Good News. Accept it!
