Relationship Status Podcast

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Dear Nique On today’s episode of RSP, the crew responds to a Dear Nique letter from a writer who asks the team what they should do dating a separated man who has moved back in with his wife.  Nique advises the writer that she should not date someone who left someone for them. Yusuf talks about the pitfalls of dating during a separation. And C.L. says that “There is no such thing as a connection.” The crew essentially advises the writer to leave the situationship and the listeners chime in and give their advice.  The crew will gladly pass on your advice and suggestions to their writer, so you’re encouraged to leave your comments and feedback on their social media platforms. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/   Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Attachment Styles On today’s episode of RSP, the crew discusses Attachment styles and how they affect familial, romantic, and platonic relationships. They begin by discussing the background to the attachment theory. The crew breaks down and reacts to the 4 different attachment styles: 1. Fearful Avoidant: People who both desperately crave affection and want to avoid it at all costs. 2. Anxious Preoccupied: People who tend to be very insecure about their relationships, often worrying that their partner will leave them, and thus are always hungry for validation. 3. Dismissive Avoidant: People who have trouble getting close to others or trusting others in relationships. 4. Secure: A person that can trust others and be trusted, love, and accept love, and get close to others with relative ease. The crew discusses some past relationships with people who fall somewhere on the spectrum of the attachment Styles list. Finally, the crew reveals the results of their attachment style quizzes. The team looks forward to your feedback, so be sure to share your thoughts via email or on their social media platforms. What's your attachment style? Click this link and find out: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/   Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/ 

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: 2020 Reflection On today’s episode of RSP, the crew looks back over 2020 and reflects on the year. They answer the question, “What personal growth, accomplishments or epiphanies about yourself have you achieved or realized in 2020?” Each member takes the time to focus on the good that 2020 has brought him/her, rather than focusing on the unfortunate events that have defined this year. Milestones, new adventures, businesses, health journeys, career moves, personal projects, self-care, and self-work are some of the amazing things team members share with their listeners. To find out specifically what each person has experienced, you’ll want to listen to this episode in it’s entirety. Maybe their stories can inspire the rest of us to focus on the beauty that 2020 has brought. If you feel inspired to reflect on the good as well, be sure to email the team to share your glow up testimony, or share it directly on one of their social media platforms. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/   Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Non-Verbal Communication On today’s episode of RSP, the crew discusses nonverbal communication and how it affects relationships. They begin by discussing the positives: eye contact, flirting, smiling, responding in agreement and providing the right touch at the right moment. The crew agrees that verbal communication should be the primary way two people interact with each other, while the nonverbal cues should be supplementary. When the conversation shifts to negative nonverbal communication, Professor Tee discusses how being the recipient of it can make a person feel dismissed. C.L. explains that some people who choose to not communicate verbally tend to make excuses for why they don’t. The team also shares personal experiences with nonverbal communication and how it hurt the relationship. Both Nique and Yusuf discuss instances where they have struggled to communicate effectively in a relationship and how it impacted them. The team looks forward to your feedback, so be sure to share your thoughts via email or on their social media platforms. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/ 

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Dear Nique Letter  On today’s episode of RSP, the crew responds to a Dear Nique letter from a writer who tells the team, “I’m trying to be for these streets,” as he dismisses the idea of being in a relationship right now.  He wants advice from the team, asking, How can I have what I want, especially if these ladies are trying to take me off the market? The crew advises him to ensure his behavior matches what he says he wants, as this is more important than simply telling the women what he doesn’t want. The team members warn against demonstrating boyfriend behavior if being a boyfriend is not something he is ready for. They encourage him to consider how and where he meets these women. Ultimately, the crew mentions this man’s need to settle down and take time to heal himself before he does damage to himself and others, but since he’s determined to be for these streets, the current advice is to always be honest about his intentions. The crew will gladly pass on your advice and suggestions to their writer, so you’re encouraged to leave your comments and feedback on their social media platforms. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/   Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Happy & Healthy Relationships The RSP crew comes together during the holiday season to bring their listeners an episode on the benefits of being in a happy relationship. They discuss the social, emotional, health, and personal advantages people experience when in a loving, mutually exclusive relationship. “In a social setting, people are drawn to couples that give off good energy,” Professor Tee states, and this often leads to networking and other important connections. C.L. agrees and speaks about how he and his girlfriend often witness this admiration from others. Nique discusses the peace that comes with having someone to talk to daily and how that person’s perspective helps you see things you would otherwise miss. The team discusses the joy of wanting to be home with the one you love, and Yusuf recalls a time when he abhorred going home when he was in a toxic relationship. Listen to this episode to also hear the crew discuss how a person’s overall medical health is impacted and improved when in a great relationship. As always, remember to email and/or leave feedback on any of RSP’s social media platforms.   Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/ 

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Dear Nique Letter  On today’s lunch date episode of RSP, the team responds to a Dear Nique letter from a woman who asks, “What do the lonely do for Christmas?” She and her husband are newly separated, and this year will be her first holiday alone. The writer is considering hiring a professional hugger to combat the loneliness. Nique suggests that she look for other ways to spend her time this holiday season, to include volunteering at homeless shelters or food banks. Yusuf suggests that she host her own party or get-together with friends. Professor Tee suggests that she try to connect with other single people who are away from family for the holidays as well. C.L. advises that she “grow up and put her big girl panties on.” The listeners’ comments reveal empathy and concern for the writer, and most of them encourage her to try the hugger, if that’s what she wants to do. The crew looks forward to hearing your feedback as well, so be sure to chime in on their social media platforms, or email them with a response. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/   Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Manipulation On today’s episode of RSP, the team is joined by guest blogger, K. Antoinette, and they discuss different forms of manipulation in relationships. Is “manipulation” always negative? The team discusses the denotative and connotative meanings of the word, and they determine that it depends on motive. If a person is using malice to manipulate, then it’s a form of emotional abuse. They discuss passive-aggressive behavior and how the silent treatment leads to gaslighting. These behaviors are not limited to romantic relationships. K. Antoinette says she confronts supervisors who use passive aggression in their leadership style. Yusuf says that he recognizes that his response to situations can be seen as gaslighting even though he doesn’t want to hurt anyone with his approach. Professor Tee discusses how language such as “Here we go again,” and “What did I do now,” interrupts the possibility of resolution. Tune in to this episode to dissect the topic of manipulation, and be sure to leave your thoughts and comments on the RSP Facebook or Instagram page. Follow our guest K Antoinette The Blogger on IG @kantoinette_theblogger Listen to her podcast LBF by clicking here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lbf-podcast/id1489114690   Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/ 

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Dear Nique Letter  On today’s episode of RSP, the crew reads a Dear Nique letter from a gentleman who wants to know if he should confront his woman about showing more attention and affection to one of her daughters. C.L. begins by saying he shouldn’t address it directly, and he should take action instead by spending time with the daughter who gets less attention. Professor Tee challenges that suggestion by asking, “Why can’t he include both girls?” The next 30 minutes of the conversation is a debate; however, the team eventually lands here: there is no wrong way to handle the situation. The listeners’ comments reveal advice that  supports both approaches. As always, the team encourages listeners to chime in, whether via email or on their social media platforms. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow K.Antoinette the Blogger on IG @kantoinette_theblogger Check out The LBF Podcast  Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/   Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Knowing When to Leave On today’s episode of RSP, each cohost shares a condition that alerts us when it’s time to exit the relationship. “You can hurt your kids more by staying in an unhealthy relationship,” Yusuf shares, as he discusses his perception about leaving. Nique’s contribution highlights the lack of balance that’s created when one person is working much harder than the other at resolving relationship issues. C.L. discusses the damage that can result when one partner is constantly standing in line to withdraw but hardly shows up when its time to deposit. Professor Tee warns that a person who begins to suppress who he/she is for the sake of being in a relationship also begins to trade in one’s identity. Listen to the entire episode to hear the depth behind these conditions, and position yourselves to learn more about a time when Yusuf felt inferior in a previous relationship, and Professor Tee dated a man who asked her to scale back on her public speaking. After listening, be sure to chime in on the discussion on their social media platforms. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/ 

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Dear Nique Letter  On today’s lunch date episode, the crew is joined by guest blogger, K. Antoinette, and they read and analyze a Dear Nique letter. The writer is mourning the loss of a year and a half long toxic relationship. He admits to blocking her, and he also recognizes that leaving the relationship is better for him; unfortunately, he is struggling to cope with them no longer being together. He misses her, and he wants them to be on good terms. The team unanimously agree that the writer should work on his personal issues and deal with the root of why he wants to remain in a toxic relationship. C.L. seeks clarification: “Wait. A man wrote this,” he asks. Yusuf advises the writer to erase her as a contact and unfollow her on social media. Nique plays devil’s advocate and questions whether he was toxic in the relationship as well. Professor Tee challenges the writer to take time to write a list of all the things she’s done to make their relationship toxic. K. Antoinette interjects the point that some people only understand one love language, which may include yelling, arguing and other toxic forms of communicating. Be sure to chime in and share your analysis and advice on any one of RSP’s social media platforms. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow K.Antoinette the Blogger on IG @kantoinette_theblogger Check out The LBF Podcast  Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/   Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Friendship On today’s episode of RSP, the Black Golden Girls return for a second visit. The RSP crew asks the ladies questions about their 20-year friendship, and they each share how their communication styles aid them in remaining honest and transparent with each other. They even discuss their first Black Golden Girls episode and how they worked through a friendship issue right on the show. The ladies also discuss the importance of holding each other accountable. Which friend is least likely to take her friends’ advice, even when she’s outnumbered, and which friend is the sensitive one? Who is most likely to bring the girls together when it’s time to address situations the group should confront? Tune in to listen to the ladies share their friendship stories and to discover how their advice about long-lasting friendships. To follow along with the crew as they walk down this friendship lane, tune in to the episode, and join in on the conversation on social media. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/ 

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Dear Nique Letter  On today’s lunch date episode of RSP, before the crew gets into the Dear Nique letter, they briefly engage in a convo about Yusuf’s cooked crack, Nique’s next educational pursuit, Professor Tee’s disdain for buffets, and C.L.’s re-enactment of the “big-faced girl” comment. The Dear Nique writer shares that her 10-year cheating boyfriend is actually angry with her for finally leaving the relationship and their apartment. Nique gives the writer a wake-up call as she analyzes why the writer kept forgiving her cheating lover. Professor Tee encourages her to push her energy away from worrying about his feelings about focusing on her own journey. C.L. wants her to realize that she truly wasn’t in a 10-year relationship at all, and the time she spent was time wasted. Yusuf suggests that women who keep taking these men back should stop wearing that kind of ride or die banner like it’s a badge of honor. Be sure to listen to the comments from social media, and feel free to comment or email your own feedback as well. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637   Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/   Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Marriage & Dating Advice On today’s episode of Relationship Status Podcast, the crew is joined by Destiny, Brittany, Paige, and Yana, the cohosts of The Black Golden Girls Podcast, where they discuss relationship advice. Guest podcaster, Brittany, suggests that a person should get to know him/herself, and Paige says one should not bring prior problems in a new relationship. Yusuf says people should take their time, and Destiny challenges that premise by saying, “What if a person knows what he/she wants.” The team breaks down Nique’s advice, which leads to an in-depth conversation about expectations during the dating stage. Professor Tee’s advice is based on her personal growth experience, and C.L. wraps things up by advising women to relax with the “WHY” questions. Tune in, listen, comment, and engage in dialogue on RSP’s social media platforms Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637 Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/ Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/ 

Hosts: Nique Crews, C.L. Butler, Nateisha & Yusuf Topic: Dear Nique Letter  On today’s lunch date episode, the crew discusses a Dear Nique letter from a lady who is seeking advice about whether or not she should ask her boyfriend for a 2-month break from their relationship. The writer claims she fears they’d both regret not having more partners prior to their marriage. C.L. explains that a woman who truly loves the man she’s with certainly doesn’t want to share him with other women. Yusuf says the man would never see the woman the same after she makes a request like this. Nique thinks the writer just doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore and is using this ploy as a way to ease out of their romance. Professor Tee plays devil’s advocate and poses the question, “What if the guy agrees, and the two of them are able to make it work?” The crew shares some of the readers’ comments, revealing that most viewers find the girlfriend’s request repulsive and risky. Tune in to the full episode, and join in on the conversation. Contact us via email: Relstatpodcast@gmail.com or call us on our hotline 843-310-8637   Follow us on all social media platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/relstatpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipstatuscast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/relstatpodcast/   Nique Crews: https://www.instagram.com/niquecrews/ Yusuf: https://www.instagram.com/yoshinthebuilding/  Cl Butler: https://www.instagram.com/cl2butler/  Professor Tee: https://www.instagram.com/professortee_/