Love Over Addiction

When you love someone that’s suffering from addiction, your life can feel completely out of control and chaotic. That’s part of the disease, and it’s completely normal. So how does cleaning relate to all this? Well, it’s more than meets the eye. Learn how cleaning can bring back some control, peace, and even joy into your life today. Find more helpful tips here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-cleaning-and-addiction-are-related/

St. Patty's Day is coming up, and no matter the type of addiction your loved one struggles with, small holidays like this can be their perfect excuse for "extra". Extra alcohol, drugs, porn, gambling, or whatever it may be. Today we have 5 tips you can implement right now + a question from the community + advise from our sisters. If you’re ready to make changes, find new ways to cope, and be encouraged, this is for you: https://loveoveraddiction.com/practical-tips-for-stpatricks-day/

Every woman in this community knows what it’s like to love a good person that drinks too much or suffers from addiction. The voice of addiction is ugly. It’s full of lies and deceit. It’s not fair. You did nothing to deserve this. If you're struggling today, please listen to these words on the podcast and let these words be the louder voice in your head. Find more: https://loveoveraddiction.com/celebration-of-women/

Our community is full of women all bonded by the fact that we love someone suffering from addiction. The type of addiction doesn’t matter: alcohol, illegal (or legal) drugs, prescription pills, gambling, pornography, or sex... the list goes on. I hear from women in their 60s, 70s, 80s+, all the time, asking if it’s too late to get a new start. Today, I’ll let our dear sister Eva answer that question. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-to-gain-self-confidence-at-any-age/

Here's the honest truth: it's never too late to make changes. Finding confidence and discovering your true self can happen at any age. Today I get to connect with one of our Love Over Addiction Sisters who decided to make changes at the age of 70. She found her confidence and discovered her true self. Her life is different now. It's better. She's happy. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-to-gain-self-confidence-at-any-age/

When we love someone that drinks too much or suffers from addiction, it’s easy to go down the rabbit hole of researching their issues and offering them a label or diagnosis. And frankly, why wouldn’t we? We know they have a problem, and we love them. We’re trying to help. Right? Well, I have a different idea - There's something else you can be doing, that will truly impact your situation... Listen to the episode here:https://loveoveraddiction.com/do-labels-make-a-difference/

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. When you have a partner that suffers from addiction, you may be left feeling alone and neglected on this day that’s supposed to be all about love. We have a loving suggestion for you: Be your own Valentine. Prepare for the day, dress up, exercise, plant flowers, whatever is “your thing”, girl do your thang. Hear tips from our Love Over Addiction sisters for Valentine's Day: https://loveoveraddiction.com/valentines-day-with-loa-sisters/

We all love someone that suffers from addiction. It could be alcohol, illegal (or legal) drugs, prescription pills, gambling, pornography, or sex among other things. Have you ever wondered what it's like in a relationship with addiction involved? Could you trust again? Will you be too damaged? Is there hope? Today I talk with my husband Brian about our life, our relationship, and our kids. Find show notes and more details here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/ask-me-anything-3

Super Bowl is a huge drinking weekend. Everyone seems to have an excuse to drink or smoke a little extra with the celebratory (or defeatist) vibes in the air on this particular weekend.   We can be prepared together. We’re a sisterhood, and we’re ready to support you every step of the way in this judgement free zone. We do have it harder than most women. That’s not your fault. You’ve found the right place, sister. Welcome. Find notes here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/super-bowl-game-day/

Our community is filled with women that love a good person that drinks too much or suffers from addiction. The strength and resilience of the women in our community to handle some very difficult situations are truly inspiring. Listen to our podcast or read the blog for a special interview with Desiree, a brave and strong woman that we admire. She’ll discuss relationships, kids, boundaries, and much more. Find the full episode here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/safe-in-your-home/

We’re back with another Ask Me Anything episode - all about my ex-husband. I was married to a good man that drinks too much and suffers from substance abuse disorder for 10 years. It’s a real conversation filled with tough questions, real answers, and hopefully some new insights for you. Listen here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/ask-me-anything-2/ We also have a free guide, just for you: https://loveoveraddiction.com/122/

Today on the podcast I review one of my favorite books that has everything and nothing to do with addiction. I was married to a good man that drank too much and suffered from addiction for 10+ years. After reading this book, I walked away with new insights from our relationship, and how it truly was an opportunity for me.  Read the blog or listen to the podcast to learn all about it. And we’re doing a free book giveaway. Listen for details: https://loveoveraddiction.com/favorite-books/

When you love someone that drinks too much or suffers from addiction it's easy to be wrapped up in their disease, actions, and situations.  We can develop unrealistic expectations (yes, that means too high of expectations) for yourself and those around. These unrealistic expectations you can steal your joy and make it hard enjoy anything.   Find out how to get rid of the expectations that may be holding you back: https://loveoveraddiction.com/dropping-expectations/

Holidays can be filled with baking, shopping, and sipping hot cocoa while watching your favorite movies. But when you love someone suffering from addiction, the holiday season can be tough. We reached out to the women in our community to share how they make the holidays enjoyable and less stressful. Listen to the podcast or read the blog for their insights: https://loveoveraddiction.com/12-holiday-tips-from-your-sisters/ You'll feel inspired and encouraged by their ideas.

Creating a safe space when you love someone suffering from addiction is a must. Truly, it's non-negotiable. When I was married to a good man that drank too much and suffered from addiction, my safe space was my island. It was my sanctuary. I'll tell you what it is, how I created it, and tips for creating your own today.  Read the blog or listen to the podcast and we’ll talk all about it: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-to-create-a-safe-space/