Love Over Addiction

We’ve talked about how to handle your anger before, but what about theirs? Do you know how to respond when they’re getting nasty and mean after they've been drinking or using? Are you sure they’re actually angry, or are they using this as a tactic to manipulate you? Find more: https://loveoveraddiction.com/what-to-do-when-your-partner-is-mad-at-you/ Connect personally: https://www.instagram.com/love_over_addiction/

Let's get right to it: Leaving out critical details is a form of lying. And lying comes in many different forms. When we love someone suffering from any kind of addiction, we must learn how to handle being lied to. Learn how to stop tolerating these lies and what to do instead. Find more details here:https://loveoveraddiction.com/stop-tolerating-lies/ Find something fun and personal here: https://www.instagram.com/love_over_addiction/

We must remember that although we love good people, they do suffer from a disease. And the disease of addiction is not nice. It’s mean. Here’s the loving truth: if they don’t seek recovery, it gets worse over time. Today we dive deep into manipulation and a different tactic they may use, and of course, tips and tools for you to deal with it all. More details: https://loveoveraddiction.com/are-you-being-manipulated-by-addiction/ Connect here: https://www.instagram.com/love_over_addiction/

When we love someone suffering from addiction, the truth is that only we know how bad things really are. And when we start to seek a team of professionals, be it therapists, mediators, lawyers, or whomever, we must find the right fit. I fired my first lawyer. She didn’t get it. She wasn’t respectful, and she didn’t listen. Find more: https://loveoveraddiction.com/when-experts-dont-have-personal-experience/ Connect with me personally: https://www.instagram.com/love_over_addiction/

Let me ask you this: Does your partner ever play dumb? Forget things that have happened? Dispute fine details? Act oblivious? All of the above? Sing it sister. Because I hear you. I totally understand. My ex-husband used to do the same crap. And many women in our community experience it as well. It makes us feel crazy. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-to-react-when-theyre-playing-innocent/ Find some fun here: https://www.instagram.com/love_over_addiction/

Because we love a good person suffering from addiction, we just don’t have the luxury of a “normal” relationship. Addiction is sneaky, and will do whatever it has to do to thrive. Today you’ll find the knowledge and tools that you need to know when you can trust, and when you shouldn’t. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/when-passive-aggression-is-really-covert-aggression/ Go behind the scenes of LOA + Michelle’s personal life: https://www.instagram.com/love_over_addiction

This week we’re re-releasing the very first ever episode. It’s an oldie, but a goodie. And here’s the truth: when you love someone suffering from addiction, these tips are always helpful, no matter how ‘new’ or ‘old’ they are. In this episode Michelle shares helpful tips about loving them, why you're staying, advice from other people, and more. Find more details here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/why-you-love-an-alcoholic-or-substance-abuser/

When we love someone suffering from addiction, arguments and fights are part of our normal life, much more so than a relationship without addiction. But here’s the truth: most all of us want to avoid that argument or fight. There are ways to avoid arguments, and one true ‘secret’ you can apply to every conversation with your loved one. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/avoid-an-argument/

In this community, we believe in being honest. So let’s say it: loving someone suffering from addiction is hard. Your life may feel completely chaotic and out of control at times, but other times, you get a glimpse of your dreams when your partner is sober. It may feel like a crazy roller coaster ride. Addiction came into your life for a reason. You chose your partner for a reason. You can read more details here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/addiction-can-be-your-greatest-opportunity/

As mothers, we all try to do the very best for our children. But our ‘job’ as mothers changes significantly when we love someone suffering from addiction, especially if that someone is the child’s parent. Knowing how to protect your children in this situation is imperative to raising healthy children who are mentally and emotionally stable. Learn these tools and more from today’s episode: https://loveoveraddiction.com/child-psychologist-expert-interview

When we love someone suffering from addiction of any kind (alcohol, drugs, pills, gambling, porn, or sex among other things), life can feel completely out of control. So, if we can find simple little reminders of calm, peace, organization, and quiet, they can be just what we need to make it through. Those little things can be just enough for us to take a deep breath and move forward. Find more details and free resources here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/reminder-of-calm/

Addiction is a progressive disease, which means that it gets worse over time. The rate of progression really depends on each individual person and their specific circumstances. Today we hear from a sister whose husband's disease changed fast, but because she had the tools, knowledge, and power that she did, she knew what to do. She handles this disease which such grace and she’s so strong and steady. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/when-addiction-progresses-quickly/

When you love someone suffering from addiction, it can be hard to see clearly in that situation. Especially if they develop their addiction habits after you meet them. Today we have a story from our sister. Find more resources and info here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-to-deal-with-denial/ And, if you’re up for it, it’d mean so much to us if you rate and review our podcast on iTunes. The more ratings and reviews we have, the easier it is for other women in need to find us. Thank you.

We’re a strong community bonded together by loving someone suffering from addiction. The type of addiction or substance doesn’t matter, the results are all the same. Today we hear from a brave sister named Laura who wanted to share her story with you, in hopes you can find something helpful for your own relationship. She’s been married nearly 25 years, and is committed to staying in her relationship. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/how-to-give-up-control/

Every woman that loves someone suffering from addiction is looking for hope. Is it possible to live a life with your partner, staying in your own lane, and living in your own happiness whether they get sober or not? Let me lovingly remind you, staying is not for everyone. And we never do judgment. Today I talk to my friend Dana. She’s married to a good man that suffers from addiction. Find more here: https://loveoveraddiction.com/staying-suffering-from-alcoholism/