The Dark Side

A terrible sounding Dark Angel (sick) and KnotNice are joined by Master C's boy Iain, who shares his life experience as a gay leather boy. Iain gives a little insight on how he found and the gal leather Community, and how it has shaped his life over the years. Iain also gives us perspective on the variations between the Pan-sexual and the gay leather Communities. Sponsor : NKS NEWS #1 : DIY Castration PODCAST SHOUT-OUT - Erotic Awakening Podcast EVENT - Lupricalia LINK: Iain's Leather Space Blog

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week Dark Angel and KnotNice explore the interesting topic of Sex and BDSM. Sex and BDSM, a Threadcast; Numerous listeners postings on this topic were read and discussed. Dark Angel and KnotNice talk of their own experiences with sex and BDSM, sex and D/s, sex and Service, sex and M/s - and how they mix; sharing their own views and experiences. Sponsor : TEASE 2011 NEWS #1 : Idaho doctor's idea: Colonoscopy reminders in tax notices NEWS #2 : Italian couple's marriage annulled after wife thought about having affair PODCAST SHOUT-OUT - Dungeon Voice EVENT - Toronto Sexapalooza The Dark Side hopes everyone had a safe and enjoyable holiday season, and wish all a happy new year. Be well, Dark Angel

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week Dark Angel and KnotNice explore the interesting topic of poly, but since poly is such a HUGE topic, we are only looking at D/s styled poly relationships (we do plan a later poly lifestyle interview in the new year). Dark Angel and KnotNice give their views and experiences on D/s poly, as well as some basic poly issues and landmines. What is poly; Various types of D/s poly structures, as well as complex issues such as - communication, scheduling, finding a third, primaries vs equal, open and closed poly, as well as the huge scary monster - jealousy and dealing with it. Sponsor : Franklin the Fet Jeweller NEWS #1 : Researchers report possible HIV infection cure; others cite dangers PODCAST SHOUT-OUT - Darts Domain EVENT - Eastern Canada LeatherSIR / Leatherboy SHOW REMINDER: There will be NO Podcast for the week of Dec 29th - DA and KnotNice will probably be drunk and performing immoral acts (but not on each other) ! Be well, Dark Angel

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week Dark Angel and KnotNice explore the scary "what if" question many of us parent's try to avoid; what if your adult children end up being kinky too. Would you divvy up events and not attend the same ones? Would you hide your lifestyle up to even withdrawing from the Community so they dont find out? Would you discourage them from going further? Would you come out to them and welcome them to your Community? Has this happened to you, and if so how did you handle it? Do you think how you handled it worked for you, or what would you suggest to others to do differently? Would it matter to you if their choice was to be a Dominant or a submissive? If so why? The boys read some responses from listeners and discuss the listeners input as well as their own thoughts/concerns. Sponsor : Shibari Niagara http://shibariniagara.webs.com NEWS #1 : Man accused of indecency during Harry Potter NEWS #2 : Statue made of panda dung sold for 45,000 dollars in China PODCAST SHOUT-OUT - Kinky and the Geek EVENT - Judelicious 2nd annual toy drive this month at the Newmarket Munch LINK - VOTE FOR THE DARK SIDE PODCAST - daily till Dec Be well, Dark Angel

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week Dark Angel and KnotNice start off by reading about a fictitious (and sarcastic) new Workshop - to teach Predators how to scoop up all the fresh newbie meat. Dark Angel gives a bit of a rant, based on a discussion he had with a newbie the night before in chat. The newbie tells him how a well respected and experienced couple in the Community are meeting her for the first time; they invited her to their home - for her FIRST meeting ever. Dark Angel illustrates that this sets a poor example for a newbie. Dark Angel and KnotNice discuss common predator behavior, as well as red flags which should warn a newbie or an experienced person, before meeting. The boys talk about how predators use common real-life community positions to manipulate their victims, such as offering to be someone's mentor or protector after having just met online two days previously. Even though such positions are honorable and have good merits in the community, the boys illustrate how predators manipulate the system and us how something should set off red flags. Based on their mutual experience, DA and KN illustrate how a newbie is the number one person responsible for their own safety, and how the community is and should be a support. Newbies are adults who are responsible for their own actions, but experienced members of our community do have an obligation to be supportive and at the very least to be a good example. Sponsor : Shibari Niagara NEWS #1 : Sex toy drive-thru PODCAST SHOUT-OUT - The Dark Side EVENT - Hamilton Sexapalooza- March 11 ~ 13, 2011. LINK - Preying on Newbies Workshop (SARCASM) - by SimplyMichael Be well, Dark Angel

This week Dark Angel and KnotNice are joined by Paul of the AIDS Committee of London (Ontario Canada) - for a discussion on what the ACOL does, as well as an in-depth discussion on HIV and AIDS. What does the ACOL do for SW Ontario. What is HIV. How/where to get tested, and what does testing involve. How is HIV transmitted. What are the risky activities. What are low risk activities (dispelling some myths). How to protect yourself against infection. What is "fluid bonding" and the process to go thru. What do you do if there is an "oops" (broken rubber etc). What are the symptoms of HIV Infection. Sponsor : ACOL NEWS #1 : French Fight AIDS With 120-Foot Flying Condom NEWS #2 : Clement seeking more sex stories? PODCAST SHOUT-OUT - Swingercast EVENT - World AIDS Day - Stratford Vigil - December 1, Worldwide. LINK - The SHAG Be well, Dark Angel

The Dark Side Educational BDSM Podcast This week Dark Angel and KnotNice read and discuss some thread responses about 24/7 Relationships. What is a 24/7 relationship, how to find one, the effect that sub/Dom frenzy can have, as well as how to prepare yourself - so that the relationship you find has the best chance of long term survival. SPONSOR: Niagara TNG Munch - e-mail Matt at -- matt@theohteam.com NEWS #1 - Goat theft on the rise NEWS #2 - Fake doctor jailed for giving breast exams in bars PODCAST SHOUT-OUT - DungeonPlace Podcast EVENT - Rubbout # 20 - April 8 - 10, 2011 Vancouver, BC LINK - the new Fetlife DarkSide Group

The Dark Side Educational BDSM Podcast - http://www.get-teased.ca/darkside.html This week Dark Angel and KnotNice read and discuss some thread responses about Long Distant Relationships. The guys also remind all about the first ever - DarkSide Listener's Contest. The HUGE listener contest to win a FULL REGISTRATION to TEASE 2011. Listeners are asked to write or record 5 to 10 minutes of a personal story; The funniest kinky thing that happened to you, OR The hottest kinky thing that happened to you, OR The wildest kinky thing that happened to you, OR The scariest kinky thing that happened to you. Story Submissions are accepted until December 1st - e-mail to darkside@get-teased.ca - and we will read or play the top stories for the December 8th show - for our listeners to vote on; voting will occur until Dec20th. We will reveal the winner on the Dec 22nd podcast, and the winner (who will also be informed thru e-mail) will have until December 31, 2010 to go online to the [TEASE WEBSITE](http://www.get-teased.ca) and register. The prize is fully transferable (but they still have to register by Dec 31). The prize is the $170 value of a full registration (no cash in value), and does not include any extras like transportation, food, camping equipment, extra days, etc. All submissions give us the full rights to use your story. Sponsor: Dark Angel's Lair (DAL) - www.darkangellair.com News: Spanish women are the most flirtatious - http://www.vancouversun.com/Spanish+women+most+flirtatious+online/3770831/story.htm Event: Nov 20 - Transgendered day of Remembrance (TDOR). http://fetlife.com/events/30684 THREADCAST - LDR's - can they work: http://fetlife.com/groups/8259/group_posts/676860 Be well, Dark Angel

The Dark Side Educational BDSM Podcast - http://www.get-teased.ca/darkside.html This week Dark Angel and KnotNice are joined by Bernie Roehl, who is one of the longest active BDSM Community Organizer and Educators in Canada. The guys also reveal the first ever - DarkSide Listener's Contest. Bernie is the Organizer of the Ontario Canada EHBC BDSM Social Group - www.ehbc.ca , on the website you can find information on the KW EHBC Munch that Bernie Hosts, the EHBC Play Party (called KNaNO) he runs, as well as a large amount of great information for people interested in the Ontario Real Life Community. Periodically Bernie also organizes Educational BDSM Workshops, and is also the Workshop Coordinator for TEASE - http://www.get-teased.ca The guys talk to Bernie about his past, the things he is doing now, as well as some of the changes that have occurred in his life. Also this podcast is the HUGE listener contest to win a FULL REGISTRATION to TEASE 2011. Listeners are asked to write or record 5 to 10 minutes of a personal story; The funniest kinky thing that happened to you, OR The hottest kinky thing that happened to you, OR The wildest kinky thing that happened to you, OR The scariest kinky thing that happened to you. Story Submissions are accepted until December 1st - e-mail to darkside@get-teased.ca - and we will read or play the top stories for the December 8th show - for our listeners to vote on; voting will occur until Dec20th. We will reveal the winner on the Dec 22nd podcast, and the winner (who will also be informed thru e-mail) will have until December 31, 2010 to go online to the [TEASE WEBSITE](http://www.get-teased.ca) and register. The prize is fully transferable (but they still have to register by Dec 31). The prize is the $170 value of a full registration (no cash in value), and does not include any extras like transportation, food, camping equipment, extra days, etc. All submissions give us the full rights to use your story. Sponsor: EHBC - www.ehbc.ca News - The Snuggie Sutra book - http://www.aolnews.com/weird-news/article/snuggie-sutra-brings-blanket-with-sleeves-into-bedroom/19676140 -Be well, Dark Angel

The Dark Side Educational BDSM Podcast; http://www.get-teased.ca/darkside.html This week Dark Angel and KnotNice complete a two part Threadcast on "Service - and what it means to you". They will read a few people's posts then give their own views and experiences on the topic. The guys continue and expand on Service with the input from listeners who have spoken on the topic. Sponsor: Chateau Sauble BDSM BB - http://www.chateausauble.ca Event: Hamilton ETTDWSS -http://hamilton.everythingtodowithsex.com Podcast Shout-Out - Lady Joan - http://www.askladyjoan.com/ Link: Fet Life - Service thread - http://fetlife.com/groups/12/group_posts/630614

The Dark Side Educational BDSM Podcast; http://www.get-teased.ca/darkside.html This week Dark Angel and KnotNice begin a two part Threadcast on "Service - and what it means to you". They will read a few people's posts then give their own views and experiences on the topic. In the news: Spanish prostitutes are made to wear a safety reflective vest - http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/spain/8086050/Spanish-prostitutes-ordered-to-wear-reflective-vests-for-their-own-safety.html Sponsor: BDSM London Munch - http://www.darkangellair.com/london.html Event: DAL Annual Xploratorium - http://www.darkangellair.com Podcast Shout-Out - Dan Savage's Savage Love Cast - available from I-Tunes Link: Fet Life - Service thread - http://fetlife.com/groups/12/group_posts/630614

This week Dark Angel and KnotNice delve deep into several listeners questions, and provide "their" answers (your opinions may, and should vary). Opinions are like assholes; everyone has one, and they all smell different - LOL. The guys answer questions on relationships, play, recovering from scenes gone bad, as well as DA's personal opinion on "the gift of submission". Not a show you will want to miss! In the news: a Duke female Student's sexual assessment of several fellow male Duke students - goes viral - http://jezebel.com/5652114/college-girls-power-point-fuck-list-goes-viral-gallery Sponsor: NKS - Niagara Kink Social - http://shibariniagara.webs.com/nks.htm Event: Annual Judelicious Memorial Children's Christmas Toy Drive - http://chateausauble.ca/judy.html Podcast Shout-Out - Graydancer's Ropecast - http://www.ropecast.net

This week Dark Angel and KnotNice delve deep into the dark realm of "Mind Fucks". What is a Mind Fuck, What constitutes a Mind Fuck, and the considerations to take to help make your Mind Fuck safe'er to accomplish. Psychological, fear, humiliation, limits, trust, and the unexpected - are all interesting elements of the edgy play that is commonly called Mind Fuckery. Based on their experience and some input from a few others - from basic to elaborate examples of Mind Fucks are shared - to help listeners to begin planning a few interesting surprises of their own. In the news: Christian College Teaches Dorm 'Sex Etiquette' During Freshmen Orientation; http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/oct/10100808.html Sponsor: Nov 20 - London Ontario: Dark Angel's Lair - http://www.darkangellair.com Event: Nov 5 ~ 7 : Everything to do with Sex Show Hamilton - http://hamilton.everythingtodowithsex.com Podcast Shout-Out: Erotic Awakening - http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast/

This week Dark Angel KnotNice discuss how the various paths individuals have had at their disposal - to find their local Community - have evolved and expanded over the years. The podcast starts with a new short segment of news; - a new popular event for SW Ontario called Club Edge (Stony Creak, Ontario). -  www.fetlife.com/groups/19434 - a shout out to a fellow podcast / Internet Radio show "The Oh Team" - www.theohteam.com - a Toronto venue (subspace Dungeon Studio) slotted to close has been saved due to Community support. -  www.fetlife.com/groups/20318/about - a request for listeners to send in questions for DA KN to answer on an upcoming QA show - to - darkangel@get-teased.ca Discussion on the various paths that have evolved over the years goes from word of mouth up to and including the recent and highly controversial "Sex Show Community Dungeons". Dark Angel also unleashes a 2 minute rant regarding www.fetlife.com being sullied by a very cheap and badly done - carbon copy rival. The entire show is flavoured with Dark Angel being sleep deprived and KnotNice on pain killers for muscle spasms - not one to miss! Sponsor: Fet Life - www.fetlife.com Event:    ForPlay - http://fetlife.com/events/26120

This week Dark Angel and KnotNice are joined by Kirsten - for a very serious and educational discussion on gender re-assignment. Kirsten is emotionally a female but physically a male, and has been so for most of her 30+ years. Kirsten shared with us how her life has evolved and how she has evolved as a person and her history up until this point. Kirsten has recently decided to start the process of gender re-assignment surgery, and walks us thru the multi year process with focus on how and why she is on this new journey. What are the risks, what are the benefits, what have been the scary hurdles, as well as what she expects in the coming days and months. This is the beginning of Kirsten's amazing journey, and we are so happy that she has promised to come back repeatedly, to update and educate us on how the journey progresses. Join us in 6 to 9 months for the next installment in this amazing story. Sponsor: TEASE 2011 - http://www.get-teased.ca Links: Lupercalia 2011 - http://www.lupercalia-edmonton.com Kirsten on Fet Life - http://fetlife.com/users/78094