The Dark Side

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice discuss the topic of perversion and how seriously sick and twisted KnotNice's mind really is. The History of perversion, current definitions usage, slang, the process of perverting; perverting Things, People Situations. Sponsor : Shibari Niagara Links: NEWS #1 : Woman gone wild upsets bar customers NEWS #2 : Transgendered New Yorkers sue over birth certificates Dark Angel NEWS: DA's new book is out - check it out HERE

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice pull out and answer an assortment of odd questions; no rime nor reason, just a nice bunch that develops some good discussion. KnotNice and Dark Angel dont agree on everything, but happily they did not come to fisticuffs for this recording (LOL). Sponsor : TEASE 2011 Links: NEWS #1 : High school worker also a porn star NEWS #2 : Boy who outed porn star threatened with charges Dark Angel NEWS: DA's new book is out KnotNice NEWS: KN is Hosting his NKS 1 year Anniversary, meet both KN and DA there - April 7th EVENT,,, and he also has finished the new Shibari Niagara website

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice start with a little listener feedback, then the news - followed by discuss negotiations; both casual as well as for a relationship. KnotNice and I were talking, as we tend to do; and this topic came up from a follow-up from a listeners question that we answered on a previous episode - so we want to do another podcast on it (go figure - LOL). We got a little from an older Threadcast about soft limits, but most came from our sick and twisted minds - so be warned - LOL. Sponsor : Kinky Artisans Fair Links: FETLIFE DAL TEASE NEWS #1 : Facebook wedding photos result in polygamy arrest Threadcast - Negotiations Be well, Dark Angel

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice discuss an interesting question, with input from our listeners. Has BDSM Gone too mainstream? KnotNice and I were talking, as we tend to do; and this topic came up - so we want to do a podcast on it (go figure - LOL). When I threw up a last minute Post on this question on Fet Life; we were swamped with immediate answers by listeners who also had their view on the topic. Has BDSM Gone too mainstream? Is this a good, bad, or no change thing - in YOUR opinion? How has our Community evolved as a result? Has more people found our lifestyle as a result? and is this a Good or Bad thing? Sponsor : Sudbury Sandbox Threadcast Link #1: The Dark Side Group Threadcast Link #2: BDSM Ontario Links: FETLIFE NEWS #1 : SM builder guilty of strangling girlfriend during sex Be well, Dark Angel

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice are joined by Nic. Nic talks about her life with her 24/7 Daddy and her kink of Age Play. The discussion covers the Age Play Lifestyle, about little girls/boys, teenagers, Daddys and Mommys, Uncles and Aunties, Adult Babies, and the various relationships between them. Nic discusses what she gets out of her kink and how it has made her life better. We also discuss how Age Play is viewed by those who practice other kinks, as well as the unfair and totally unfounded connection to pedophiles. Sponsor : EHBC Links: People who love ageplay Daddy~Girl Relationships AB/DL (Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers) NEWS #1 : County's strip club restrictions upheld by judge as unconstitutional - brought to us by our very own DarkSide News Hound - Misterpj Event Shout-out :  NELIcon 201

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice are joined by a self labeled edge play junkie trixie-in-pink. Trixie ads her experience to the Threadcast about what squicks people and why. With input from our listeners on - What Squicks you? And Why? - did it always squick you? - what is the result of having that squick? - do you like or dislike the fact that it squicks you? - have you ever tried to do something to change the situation? Sponsor : TEASE 2011 Threadcast Link #1: The Dark Side Group Threadcast Link #2: BDSM Ontario FETLIFE NEWS #1 : A Crappy News Story - brought to us by our very own DarkSide News Hound - Misterpj PODCAST SHOUT-OUT :  The Oh Team! Be well, Dark Ange

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice discuss KnotNice's passion - Bondage. Getting deeper than "just" Bondage, the guys discuss both ropespace as well as how Bondage can be a fulfilling passion for a Rope Top. It almost *Innocent Smile* seems like Dark Angel is Interviewing KnotNice,,, till the heat is turned up and KnotNice's passion shows thru on this topic, oh so close to his heart - and Dark Angel ends up being just as fascinated and even learns a thing or two. Sponsor : NKS NEWS #1 : City officials not keen on Harry Baals NEWS #2 : How a spot of morning passion can make you glow all day long PODCAST SHOUT-OUT :  Bend Over and Take It

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice interview wayward_woman - the presenter of a Rape Play Workshop. The discussion is about taking some of the darker fantasies and making them real -  Rape Play, Take Down scenes, as well as Gang Rape Play; how to prepare, how to fulfill, and how to succeed. The difference between real rape and rape play is HUGE, starting and ending with consent. Rape play is a common fantasy, and wayward_woman steps up thru ways to put one together, and what her own progression has been, including how her own  sexual assault effected her original fantasy. We also get into a new group in the Toronto Ontario area for people who wish to enjoy group sex called the Fuck Club - who also do gang rape play for select members. Sponsor : EHBC NEWS #1 : Immokalee man, outraged by men in drag, arrested on weapon and disturbance charges NEWS #2 : The Dark Origins Of Valentine's Day PODCAST SHOUT-OUT :  2 Homo

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week DA and KnotNice interview one of the TEASE 2011 Headliners - Master C; a  Canadian patriarch of a 21 member poly male gay leather family. At 50 Master-C AKA MSDDTC  (Master, Sir, Daddy, Dog Trainer Chuck) is a well-respected and active member of the Sudbury, North Bay, and Toronto gay and pansexual Kink communities.  Master Chuck first entered the gay leather scene in 1986 when he met his primary partner of 22 years, Rocco, who is into gangster sex, 1920s mob hits and kidnappings. In May 2009, was honored at a Masters’ dinner and received his Master’s Cover in the presence of one of Toronto’s most prominent and well-respected Masters, several Sirs and 5 of his subs. His affinity for leather came from his love for horseback riding, and horse training. Later in life he became know to many in the Gay leather community as Cowboy Chuck. Being a ”brown” Leatherman made him stand out in the gay leather world attracting attention from several cubs and subs, through his use of western style bondage. He holds himself to a high standard of integrity, manifesting itself in the basic traditional Old Guard principles of Honor, Trust, and Respect. He was trained in a traditional old guard way as a boy for 3 years to a Dom from Truro, Nova Scotia. He firmly believes that submission is a precious gift, that Doms should accept with humility, then use BDSM as a tool to reach the sub’s inner core and become one with his subs. Currently living his life 24/7 as the patriarch of a 21 member poly leather family, Master Chuck by nature is 98% Dom, 2% sub +-2% and is 95% sadist, 5% masochist. He strongly believes that learning is never over and regularly seeks training opportunities from other well respected Doms and subs, and through attendance at educational seminars. Being a strong believer in learning from the bottom whenever possible, he will not dish out what he has not endured. Tastes include mild to heavy CBT TT, electro, wax, sounding, percussives, rough fucks, stomping, boots, uniforms, elaborate mind fucks, bondage, abductions, interrogations, sensory deprivation/manipulation, piss play, flogging, whipping, objectification, dog play, undercover play, pavlovian response seeding, blue collar, grease (not the musical), garages and barns. His "soft skills” are in risk management, interpersonal relations, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, First AID, CPR, fall arrest, emergency preparedness, fire suppression and electrical safety to name a few, which he believes are all essential skills that can be imported from a work environment into his BDSM tool box. Being a proud Leatherman, he is passionate about creating a legacy for future generations, through the work that he and his family does in educating, training, supporting and helping others to find their paths. TEASE Workshops being taught by Master C; - Principals of Pavlovian response training - Risk management theory It's not only for the workplace - Master C's Polly Leather Families of choice Part 1 - Polly Leather Families Part 2 Making it work Sponsor : Dominant submissive Retreat (DSR) NEWS #1 : Police sued over piercing removal NEWS #2 : Nude guys irk some in Castro, but not tourists PODCAST SHOUT-OUT #1 :  Darts Domain PODCAST SHOUT-OUT #2 :  Polyamory Weekl

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST A listener sends in a great e-mail with 4 very interesting and thought provoking questions. 1) How does one approach another for potential casual play? How does one like to be approached for casual play? How exactly do you go about negotiating in a casual manner rather than presenting a list of limits- soft/hard? Do you negotiate for yourself or do you have someone with you while negotiating or negotiate on your behalf? (For example- negotiations go through a mentor, protector, your current partner (Master/Sir/Daddy)) 2) How do you handle an unexpected reaction in a scene? From both the Top/Dominant/Master and the Bottom/submissive/slave perspective? For example- crying when not expected, having a sexual reaction with a casual play partner in a public setting, no reaction, very emotional and or vocal, feelings of anger or aggression, boredom, hitting a wall or triggering an emotional past occurrence? 3) How do you deal with feelings of inadequacy? What steps do you take to rectify them? For example feeling as if you or your actions are not pleasing enough; you are not submissive enough; you feel as if somewhere inside you, there is a better slave/submissive waiting to be tapped but you don’t know how to get there; feeling as if you are not living up to either your dominants or your own self imposed expectations. From a different vantage point- how do you deal with having a submissive that has more experience than you? How do you deal with types of play that your submissive wishes to explore but really do not strike your fancy? How do you deal with feelings that you are not mentally pushing your submissive as far as she can go, or not satisfying their need to submit? 4) Apart from chemistry, let’s say not a sexual relationship- How does one go about selecting/picking /choosing a Dom/Master/Sir or submissive/slave/bottom in either on line or real life? In other words how to pick a play partner? Specifically individuals experiences on how they do it, tips and tricks that they have learned about themselves through time and lessons learned- what do they now avoid based upon experience and knowledge of themselves. Lastly; an update about Dark Angel's upcoming book "The Forbidden Fruit", and his recent interview on the Erotic Awakening Podcast. Sponsor : BDSM London Munch NEWS #1 : Guinea pig harem says 'hello Sooty' NEWS #2 : Does a clean kitchen lead to more sex? PODCAST SHOUT-OUT : Misinformation Be well, Dark Ange

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST This week Dark Angel and KnotNice are joined by the gorgeous lil'heather of Toronto Ontario. lil'heather is one of the Hosts of the Toronto TNG, as well as one of the Hosts of the Toronto TsDG. lil'heather is also well known as a very stylish and imaginative fetish fashion diva - but her focus has always been on putting together an economical outfit that still rocks. 2nd hand stores, perverting vanilla clothing, online sales, kinky clothing swaps, and hand-me-downs are just some of the ideas she will be sharing. Specific upcoming events shared by lil'heather are: - Leather Swap; Feb 20th; 3pm - 7pm  Location:  The Black Eagle, Toronto, ON, Hosted By McG - Leather Care Workshop; Feb 19th; 3pm - 7pm, Cost: donation, Location:  The Black Eagle, Toronto, ON, Hosted By McG Sponsor : TORONTO TNG NEWS #1 : Woman, 44, suffers a stroke and partial paralysis after amorous partner gives her a love bite PODCAST SHOUT-OUT : Power In Practice Be well, Dark Ange

A much better sounding Dark Angel  and KnotNice discuss the intense and deep topic of subspace; based on the Threadcast topic as was posted in the BDSM Ontario Group on www.fetlife.com The topic and discussion being so intricate; we have split it up into 2 podcasts, this is Part #2. - What does subspace mean to you? - How often do you get to subspace? - What types of play or activity can get you there? - What can interfere with you getting there or staying? - Does getting there mean you need more/less/different aftercare? Sponsor : a href="http://www.chateausauble.ca/"Chateau Sauble BDSM BB/a NEWS #1 : a href="http://www.myfoxchicago.com/dpps/news/offbeat/police-stop-leather-clad-man-as-he-strolls-through-german-town-dpgonc-20110104-fc_11299871"Police Stop Leather-Clad Man as He Strolls Through German Town/a NEWS #1 : a href="http://www.ntnews.com.au/article/2011/01/02/204581_ntnews.html"Teen's cliff sex ends in plunge/a PODCAST SHOUT-OUT : a href="http://alovemovement.libsyn.com/"A Love Movement Podcast/a THREADCAST : a href="http://fetlife.com/groups/12/group_posts/828522"Subspace - the final frontier/a Be well, Dark Ange

A much better sounding Dark Angel  and KnotNice discuss the intense and deep topic of subspace; based on the Threadcast topic as was posted in the BDSM Ontario Group on www.fetlife.com The topic and discussion being so intricate; we have split it up into 2 podcasts, this is Part #1. - What does subspace mean to you? - How often do you get to subspace? - What types of play or activity can get you there? - What can interfere with you getting there or staying? - Does getting there mean you need more/less/different aftercare? Sponsor : a href="http://www.chateausauble.ca/"Chateau Sauble BDSM BB/a NEWS #1 : a href="http://www.myfoxchicago.com/dpps/news/offbeat/police-stop-leather-clad-man-as-he-strolls-through-german-town-dpgonc-20110104-fc_11299871"Police Stop Leather-Clad Man as He Strolls Through German Town/a NEWS #1 : a href="http://www.ntnews.com.au/article/2011/01/02/204581_ntnews.html"Teen's cliff sex ends in plunge/a PODCAST SHOUT-OUT : a href="http://alovemovement.libsyn.com/"A Love Movement Podcast/a THREADCAST : a href="http://fetlife.com/groups/12/group_posts/828522"Subspace - the final frontier/a Be well, Dark Ange

A promo for the Dark Side Podcast - for those who wish to give us a Shout Out on their own podcasts. The Dark Side We do Podcasts Shout-outs at the end of each Podcast, for those who wish to reciprocate - please feel free to insert this Promo during your show, as well please send an e-mail to let us know you have. For other BDSM Podcasts who wish a shout out on our show, please feel free to send us your own promo, as well as a brief description. Be well, Dark Angel KnotNice; the Dark Side. darkside@get-teased.ca The Dark Side Homepage

A terrible sounding Dark Angel (sick) and KnotNice are joined by Master C's boy Iain, who shares his experience in a large Poly kinky Leather Family. Iain gives a little insight on how he found and joined his Poly Family, and how it has shaped his life over the years. Iain also gives us perspective on the variations issues for a Poly Family, and how they were dealt with. It is quite amazing how large, diverse, supportive, and long lasting Iain's Family has survived - we get a hint why from Iain's own words. Sponsor : FetLife NEWS #1 : Naked Chicks and Scooters PODCAST SHOUT-OUT : The Sadist Online EVENT : Lupricalia LINK: Iain's Leather Space Blog Be well, Dark Angel