Summary: <p>"The German Professor"</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>WARNING:</strong> This conversation contains details that some listeners may find triggering due to the descriptive nature of this tale.</p> <p>Welcome to the How To Die Happy Podcast, where we explore the art of living and all things related to happiness, fulfilment, well-being, and life on earth. In this Chinwag episode, host Martin O'Toole speaks with Chris Siracuse about the experience of defending oneself against forceful or violent sexual advances. Using Martin's personal story of an amorous German gent who crossed a line, they discuss the topic with sensitivity, humour, and empathy.</p> <p>While the tone of this episode may be light-hearted, the discussion is rooted in a serious issue. Unwanted sexual advances, whether homosexual or heterosexual, are unfortunately not uncommon. In fact, a survey conducted by the CDC found that 1 in 8 men reported experiencing sexual violence, including rape, in their lifetime. Of those men, approximately 1 in 6 reported that their first experience of sexual violence occurred before the age of 18.</p> <p>The phenomenon of unwanted homosexual advances on heterosexual men is often overlooked or dismissed, but it is a reality that many men have experienced. A study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that 12% of men reported experiencing unwanted sexual contact with another man at some point in their lives. While this may seem like a small percentage, it is essential to note that sexual violence and harassment are often underreported, so the true number may be higher.</p> <p>The conversation between Martin and Chris sheds light on the importance of having open and honest discussions about sexual violence, no matter the circumstances. It's a reminder that sexual assault and harassment can happen to anyone, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or any other factor. By sharing their own experiences, they hope to encourage others to speak out and seek support if they ever find themselves in a similar situation.</p> <p><strong>Note:</strong> While the story in this episode is delivered with humour and empathy, we want to make it clear that we do not condone or excuse any form of sexual violence or harassment. It is never acceptable, and we stand with survivors and those who have experienced such trauma.</p> --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/howtodiehappy/message
