Spouses vs side pieces: Whats the point of a confrontation?




Grown Soul and Real Talk show

Summary: GSRT Wednesday Night Live If your spouse cheated on you and then left you, would you be compelled to confront the side piece? Do you confront the you spouse? Whats the point? Member statement To my husband’s side piece: I know who you and you now know who I am. Now my soon to be ex-husband has moved you in, so I attempted to talk like two grown women, but that seems to be beyond your abilities. Now I understand that you are angry, upset and feel that I have ruined your new love by taking what I feel I deserve after 13 yrs. of marriage. You are young and silly so you don’t know what you’ve taken on, but let me tell you: All of those weekend trips you went on when I thought he was at work? I hope you enjoyed those, because with alimony, child support and paying the mortgage on what is now MY house, he can’t afford to take you to Burger King, let alone a romantic getaway somewhere—no wonder you’re mad. And since my kids are at his house every other weekend, and some weeknights, I guess those romantic nights out dinner and dancing have probably slowed down too. Also, don’t forget that since his back surgery he takes a few medications, as well as some for high blood pressure – that’s why sometimes he can’t perform the way he used to. But I was married to him for years, so I understand this. And while he spent money on you while you were his new, fun thing, he is pretty tight w/his money and I’m betting the lingerie, flowers, etc. have stopped coming your way. He travels for work a lot of the time, so you’ll be on your own unless he takes you with him which I understand he doesn’t any longer. He doesn’t cook, but now that you live with him, you found that out. The Ex Wife