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Looking to find God’s will for your life? I think most of us would admit that we are a little confused when it comes to finding God’s will for our lives, especially when it comes to finding  Mr. Right or Ms Right. The following podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com examines, the roadblocks that keep Christian singles from discovering God’s will in our lives as both single people and married people. Hope for the Future Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Sites Home

Christian dating and idol worship. I know what some of you are thinking: What in the world does my dating life have to do with idol worship?  Maybe nothing. But maybe everything. Idol Worship Definition An idol can be can be ANYTHING  in your life that you put before God. That includes your dating life with your boyfriend or girlfriend. It’s something that takes the glory that God alone deserves, including your time, attention, and money, and transfers it to the object of your affection.  Christian Dating and Idol Worship I ask  again. Does your Christian dating relationship amount to idol worship? Are you a Christian dater who has turned your relationship into an idol? The Bible says: You must not have any other god  before my face. You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind or an image of anything in the heavens or on the earth or in the sea. 5 You must not bow down to them or worship them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God who will not tolerate your affection for any other gods.  Exodus 20:4,5a Idol Worship Test for Christian Singles Besides listening to the below podcast on Idol worship, here are three questions to consideras you ponder whether or not you are idolizing your Christian dating relationship. Where do you run for comfort? What do you fear losing the most? What do you make the biggest sacrifices for? Christian Singles Podcasts Christian Dating Sites

Today we’re going to deal with bitterness as a Christian single. Many of us today are hiding a bitter spirit. Maybe some of us feel bitter because we are still single. If you came here today feeling bitter because you are still single, you’re in good company. People are bitter about many things. The good news is that whatever junk is in your hearts Jesus can change all that if you really want Him to. How to Deal With Bitterness as the ROOT Cause of All Sin   I believe the root cause of all evil  is bitter heart. I believe you could trace all sin, we’re going to see in scripture today  that right from the  the big very beginning bitterness was there. What destroys relationships if not bitterness. It’s also bitterness that  causes people to walk into a synagogue or a church or a movie theater and shoot up a joint it’s not anything else but bitterness in the heart. Bitterness causes divorce and adultery. Why you can trace a root of bitterness to absolutely ever sin under creation. Dealing With Bitterness and Your Past A bitter person has a difficult time dealing with the past. I hear bitter people say things like this all the time: “Lord why did this person leave me?” “I can’t believe how my “ex” treated me. Now he’s found someone new, and I’m just stuck reliving  what went wrong. It’s not fair!” “Why did I get such a raw deal?!” How many of us have a hard time letting go over a past hurts, rejections and relationship issues? We are tortured by past hurts, and it makes us bitter. Why I still remember what that sixth grade kid did to me. The Different Types of Bitterness Singles Face Just as there are many types of fruit, there are types of manifestations of  bitterness,. With that let me just say this: You can’t help what happens in your life, but you CAN help how you react. The Characteristics of Bitterness “Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord:  looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled…” In our podcast that’s from Hebrews 12:14-15 we will see that: A BITTER PERSON IS A DECEIVED PERSON A BITTER PERSON IS A DEFILED PERSON A BITTER PERSON DUPLICATES HIS BITTERNESS TO OTHERS But how do these processes occur? Bitterness is Deceptive. It’s deceptive on so many different levels. First of all, it’s hard to spot. We may be bitter and not even know it. Or others may be bitter against us, but we will not be able to spot it. Why? Because as the Scripture states, it’s a “ROOT of Bitterness that we must be careful to avoid. We can’t always see everything that meets the eye, even when it comes to our own heart. A bitter person ultimately is a person who holds a grudge against God. This was actually the devil’s first sin. He was self deceived. A bitter person feels he or she deserves better that what God is offering to them. That somehow God is holding back His best from them.  This is deception, and it’s exactly the form of deception the devil used on Eve in Genesis. Bitterness is Defiling.  If we refuse to deal with bitterness that has taken root deep in our souls, and perpetuated by a grudge holding, unforgiving spirit, we can ruin any hope for a joyful life and future successful relationships, romantic or platonic. Bitterness is really a form a pride, and that is why it’s so destructive. In fact, if you think carefully about it, it’s the same root of bitterness Satan had that caused him to challenge God. Bitterness is Duplicating. What do we mean by that? People who can’t deal with bitterness by rooting it out from their hearts,

It’s a shame but true. Many Christian singles, married and divorced people have addictions and strongholds in their lives that hold them in bondage. Although dealing with addiction is essential if we are to enjoy our relationship experiences and life to the fullest, many are in a pickle over how to exactly conquer this. Dealing with Addiction Podcast If you are in this situation, or you know of a Christian woman or man who struggles with addiction, the following Christian podcast with Pastor Dave Butler  may help. Masturbation: Singles who Masturbate Glee Podcast Week 6 Christian Dating Service

Making the most of changes and managing transitions in our lives is often a difficult thing to do, but essential if one is to prosper in this life. How do you manage transitions in your life? Life’s transitions and changes can be a great opportunity, but also a threat. Managing Transitions as Singles If you are having a rough go managing transition and making the most of change, you are not alone. The fact is singles go through more life changes and transitions than married folks in the areas that cause the most stress units in a person’s life: relationships, job changes, parenting adjustments and moving residences. We all know the pressure involved in living alone as Christian singles, but what makes managing transitions and making the most of changes is that sometimes the change is not by our choice. It’s much easier to deal with change and transitions if the choice was ours. But how do we manage involuntary transitions like a relationship breakup, debt issues or termination in such a way that we make the most of the changes in our lives? Hope for Managing Transitions and Making the Most of Life’s Changes In our church podcast of the week, Pastor Joseph Velarde, of the Journey Church located in Jersey City, NJ, discusses how to biblically manage transitions while making the most of changes going on all around you. Sounds good? Do you have something to share about managing transitions and making the most of changes in your life? Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

As a single person, have you discovered the key to living alone without being lonely? If loneliness is a daily struggle, know that many others are going thought he same thing. In fact, according to our ongoing singles survey, one of the worst things Christian singles find about single life are the lonely feelings that go with the territory. Dealing with Living Alone After scouring the web for a church podcast that addresses the subject of being lonely, we came upon “One is the Loneliest Loneliest number, a message from Pastor Nelson Searcy. You’ll definitely be blessed by it. Enjoy! Related Articles: Contentment Living a Christian Single Life Fear of Being Along as Single Christians Fears That Keep Men and Women Single Single Again Tips for the Recently Single Man and Woman Single Dads Dealing With Loss and Grief Where Christian Singles Meet Other Singles Love Shy Singles-How to Overcome Shyness Sickness and Being Single Lonely Women Who Are Single Single Gals and God’s Grace Christian Singles Podcasts  Christian Dating Service

Our Christian dating church pod-cast of the week takes us to Bloomington, Minnesota (MN). Here pastor Chris Reinertson, of the River Church at Mall of America, speaks about the journey of Christian dating. If you are a Christian single presenting in a Christian dating relationship, or simply interested in dating, this message covers it all. If your church, Christian singles group or college ministry has a singles related message they would like pod-casted to thousands of singles for free, please contact us, and we’ll be glad to put it on the web with a link back to your site. Are you a single Christian with a comment about Christian dating? Related Christian Dating Articles for this Message: How not to Attract a Single Guy Contentment Living a Christian Single Life Good Christian Dating Relationship Signs Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Need information on single parenting hood?  Many single parents are seeking information on how to balance their Christian dating lives with raising their kids properly.   There is a lot of information on single parenting hood  on the web. However, not all that info is good for Christian single parents. Information on Single Parenting  Hood Tips Raising kids in a single parenting hood environment is very difficult. However, if you are even thinking of dating as a single parent we recommend u check out this of single parenting hood dating info. Additionally, this week’s following podcast  at Oasis on how to discipline  kids will be very useful as well. Oasis-Church-NJ.com, a New Jersey contemporary church, is a sponsor of this singles blog, and meets sundays at 11am at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside. If you have additional information on single parenting hood, you can share it below. Single Hood and Discouragement Podcast Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Sex tips and tricks for Christians? Well, okay, maybe the words in the title “Sex Tips and Tricks” is a little bit over the top, but but I happen to know Christian singles are desperately looking for some straight talk on how they can balance the fact that God created them to be both sexual and holy beings. Best Sex Tips  Christian Podcast Without a doubt our Christian podcast of the week from Pastor Tim of Liquid Church is the most straight talkin’ Biblical message on sex and dating that you will ever hear. If you are a single Christian who is a little confused about where to “draw the line” when it comes to your feelings and behavior regarding sex and living godly in this world, the following sex tip and trick will help. If real talk about sex and living out the Christian life is too much information for you to bear, you may want to change the station. Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Many Christians and non-Christian, single or married,  suffer from what we call fear of intimacy in relationships.  Wearing a mask is not God’s idea of being transparent and vulnerable. Fear of Intimacy in Relationships for Christians Unfortunately, many of us walk around not “being” the person God has called us to be because we fear other people getting close enough to see the real us. When we do this, we not only cheat ourselves out the fulfilling relationships Jesus wants to have with others, but we also impede our relationship with God Himself. The good news is today’s message at Oasis-Church-NJ.com by David Butler addresses how to overcome the fear of intimacy in relationships Overcoming Loneliness in Relationships Insecurity in Relationships-Christian Dating Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Love, Sex and the Bible. These are topics nearly all Christian singles find most interesting. Well, we have good news, This week Dave Butler, the  founder and pastor of Oasis Singles, brings us  our Christian dating podcast featuring the message, “Love, Sex and the Bible”. Today we will be in the Song of Songs, which has a whole lot to say about courtship, love and sex.  While some scholars feel this scripture (it was really a song) is allegorical, most feel it is describing a real life love relationship. This ,message took place at Rutgers.Church. church church filled with college aged Christian singles. Love, Sex and the Bible: Christian Singles Dating Podcast! By the way, each week Christian Dating Service PLUS AKA Oasis Singles will be featuring a different podcast/MP3 with Christian singles messages, music or video from churches and Christian singles groups from all over the world. “Love, Sex and the Bible is just one of many that I invite you to listen to. Every week we reach thousands of Christian singles, so if you want your church’s or Christian singles group’s message, song or video podcasted on our site, please get in touch. Are you a single person with something to share about the Christian dating podcast, Love, Sex and the Bible? Related Articles: Marriage Builder Tips for Healthy Relationships Christian Singles, Singleness and Marriage Christian Podcasts  Christian Dating Service

Do you ever get the “I feel lonely’ blues? Although surrounded by people I still feel lonely at certain times. The fact is there are many lonely hearts out in the world: Lonely single moms, lonely men, lonely teens. As singles loneliness and feeling lonely are all part of the territory. Worse yet, as we approach Christmas, dealing with the holiday blues as singles often means fighting that “I feel lonely” and empty feeling. How to Deal with Loneliness the I Feel Lonely Thinking I have to say that this Christian podcast on loneliness from Matt Chandler of the Village Church is a great start toward fighting those I feel lonely blues. How do you deal with the I feel lonely feelings? Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Looking for Purposeful living? Whether single or married, most all people desire to find purpose, to discover where they “fit in” to this thing we call life. It’s so sad that there are so many people out there who are not living with purpose, and have no reason to get up each morning. Would you fall into this category? Purposeful Living  and Finding Your Shape The great news today is that God created each of us for a mission in this world. He has given each of us a unique SHAPE. What we mean by this is that He has given each of us special gifts and talents that He wants us to use for Him and others. Guess what? When we find our SHAPE and live by it, we find that elusive purpose and joy we v’e been yearning for our entire lives. Purposeful Living Podcast Oasis Singles  is proud to bring you today’s Christian podcast from Pastor Nelson Nelson Searcy the Journey Church on the subject of finding your SHAPE for a purposeful life. I guarantee you’ll get alot out of it. Looking for a new church in New Jersey where you can use your gifts and talents? Why not check out Oasis Church NJ, a new and upcoming contemporary Christian Church serving Union, Morris, Essex and Somerset Counties. Go to our site for times and directions. Riots and Christian Singles How God Restores People Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Sites

Are you in a codependent  dating relationship? Whether you are a Christian single or not,  codependent relationships can happen to anyone. What qualifies for a codependent relationship?  If you are in a codependent relationship you will feel like  that famous 60’s song line: ” Can’t live, if living is without you…” In addition to those feelings, another sign of a codependent relationship in dating is that the one or both daters will be seeking constant approval from the other, and feel worthless if they don’t receive it.  Having a codependent relationship means that you feel you cannot live without this person and seek constant approval towards you actions. Avoiding Codependent Relationships If you are a single Christian interested in avoiding codependent relationships, try the following: * Allow for time away from your date in order to develop your own self worth and value.  If you have to spend every waking hour with the other person, you are in a codependent relationship. * Never stay in a dating relationship out of fear of being alone * Never stay in a relationship with someone who has struck you…even once. People stay in abusive dating relationships due to codependency. * Allow your closest friends and family members to objectively examine whether you are with the other person because you “want to” or because you “need to”. If you are in a dating relationship with that other Christian single person because of the latter, this is a codependent dating relationship, and needs to be terminated if you wish to avoid future pain. Overall, codependent relationship are always  unhealthy, and impede personal and interpersonal growth. However, if you practice the above points, you will go a long way toward avoiding a painful codependent relationships. Christian Dating Advice Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Don’t you just love that title? I do. Christian dating without losing your brain. Now there’s a novel thought. How many Christian dating singles have acted irrationally in pursuit of their perfect date? From Christian single girls who date bad guys, to dating mistakes by both guys and girls, it seems many need a little help in this area. And it’s especially the case with internet dating. Well. here’s some good news: in our Christian dating podcast of the month, Pastor Bob Gibson, of the Vineyard Church in Ithaca, NY, delivers a message entitled, you guess it, Christian Dating Without Losing Your Brain. Enjoy! Oh yeah, this Christian dating message has a musical intro of 40 seconds, so be patient.