Second Shot with Heath Oakes and Jenny Anchondo

We've all read a passive-aggressive email before. "Not sure if you saw my last email" or "per our conversation" or "please advise." This week on Second Shot, we've got a list of the top 10 most annoying email phrases, and the reason some folks are using them may surprise you. Also, (former) Buffalo Bills cornerback Vontae Davis retires from the NFL halfway through a game with hardly an explanation and Heath's got hot sports opinions about it! Throw up your hands, cut out early, and tune in to a new episode of Second Shot!

It's expected if you go to a wedding to bring a gift. But what about a cover charge? Do you think wedding guests should be expected to help foot the bill for the ceremony? One bride did, and let's just say things didn't go the way she dreamed. Also, how many of you were raised to say "sir" and "ma'am"? One boy learned the hard way that manners are not always appreciated. Be polite and check out this new episode of Second Shot!

What does it mean to take risks? Can you get anywhere in life by being comfortable? In light of the new Nike ad, the great Aaron Hendra joins us to talk about risk-taking and why it's important to have to struggle along the way. Many parents want to clear the field for their children, but would it be better to step back and let your son or daughter struggle and fail? You won't be sacrificing anything if you listen to this week's episode of Second Shot!

There are things that people do that just get under your skin. The little daily annoyances that add up to you despising that person. Have you ever stepped back and thought, "Does this really affect me?" You might find some of those "annoying" things are none of your business after all. And what would you do if your boss placed your entire future on the heath of a plant? Would you work tirelessly to care for it? Would you find shortcuts? Would you be honest if it turns out you just don't have a green thumb? We promise not to irritate you in this latest episode of Second Shot!

Complaining can feel good, can't it? Getting all those negative thoughts out and spreading them to others. Almost like a drug? Science says that's more true than you think, and if you're not careful you can get addicted. So do you surround yourself with complainers or people that raise you up? How many of your friends are bringing nothing to the table? What could you achieve if you focused only on the people that are there to support you? Support us, and check out this new episode of Second Shot!

It always helps to be honest and up front, be that in your personal life or business. But if you were running a business, how open would you be? Would you go so far as to print your wages on the front door? What kind of employee do you think you'd get? What if you were also offering a 25-hour work week? The 40-hour week is ingrained in American culture, but some people say you just don't need it anymore. Take a half-hour lunch, and check out this new episode of Second Shot!

Gossip can be a lot of fun. Unload all the juicy news you heard (or think you heard) about a coworker or family members. It feels good, doesn't it? But what does it really get you? Can it lose you points with your boss? And what should you do when anyone who could gossip about you has long forgotten, but you still carry the guilt of something you did? One waitress is likely sleeping better tonight after making amends for something that no one knew about. Spread the word...it's a new episode of Second Shot!

Can you really train someone to not get divorced? The Army seems to think so. We'll talk about how it's wise to keep from falling for the first thing that comes your way. Also, it's wise to keep your head when the pressure is on. How do you make sure that you're able to consistently give your best when it's all on the line? Be a champion, and start by listening to Second Shot!

How do you catch people's attention? What's your hook? Do you even have one? We talk about the importance of being you, both in public and in private. In today's age, you never know when private will become public. Are you ready to have your pictures shared with the world? You certainly don't have to be afraid to share with your friends and family this new episode of Second Shot!

You've heard about him on Second Shot more than anything else...now Bob Burg - author, speaker, and wonderful person - drops in to talk about his path to writing, where his ideas come from, and why you should know the different between persuasion and manipulation. Learn more about Bob at https://burg.com/

Do you have regrets? Do you expect to be nearing the end of your life and think, "I wish I would have..."? Many people do, and you'll want to hear the one thing most people say they wish would have been different. Also, most of us feel like we're good people. We would give the shirt off our back to the people that we hold dear. But do you have what it takes to go the extra mile and possibly lay down your life for a stranger? It was on display this week half a world away, and it made us think a lot about what it means to be truly selfless. Is there something you could learn from this episode of Second Shot?

There are no stupid questions, but you should always know when and who to ask. And if you suspect your drugs are bad, the police are not the people to ask. Sometimes, silence can be the best answer. Whether you're quiet or responsive, be ready to be accountable for your actions. No one can force you to take responsibility for yourself. And even though we can't force you to listen, we would sure love it if you shared this episode of Second Shot!

If it hasn't already, the time will likely come when you're working for someone younger than you. More and more millennials are promoted to management roles. How do you deal with your boss if you're much older than them, and why shouldn't it matter? Also, there are things you can control and things you can't. One of those things you can't control is traffic. Next time you find yourself stuck in traffic, think about how great a hot chicken biscuit would sound. Special thanks to our guest Laila Muhammad from Morning Dose! https://cw33.com/author/laila-muhammad/

Everyone knows they should carefully consider what they say and how they say it. But how often do you think about what you're saying when you're saying nothing? What is your body language telling those around you? What do you do when you have a split second to react? In those moments, your true nature can be revealed. And what does this all have to do with youth baseball? Sit up straight, put on a smile, and enjoy this episode of Second Shot!

The linchpin...the meal ticket...the influencer. What are you doing to be a leader to those around you and drive them to bigger and better things? It's not just about getting people to bend to your will - it's about making them believe they can achieve great things. Also, what do you do when the honeymoon is over? Some people give up at "the dip," others push through. When are the down times temporary, and when is it time to move on? Let this episode of Second Shot help you through that dip!