Hot Mess Express

HME 3 –There Is No 'Right Time', There Is Only Now Point #1 – Quit Waiting For The Right Time There is no ‘right time’, there is only now. Eternal preparation is imaginary momentum. Learn to find humor in the neverending emotional drama of life. Point #2 – Quit Making Excuses Using family or finances as excuses is weak sauce. Making excuses leads to resentment. Point #3 – Do What You Love And Do It Now Give yourself an hour a day, a few times a week, to do what you love. You will be teaching your children that their purpose, their calling, is too important to put off until someday. Questions What is really stopping you from doing what you love? Challenge Spend an hour a day doing something that excites you at least 3 days a week. Quote [Tweet "Every moment waited is a moment wasted."]

Point #1 – You’re Going To Suck Hitting a home run the first time out is as rare as finding a unicorn Just because you suck doesn’t mean you should quit Point #2 – The Four Phases Of Competence Unconsciously Incompetent – You don’t know you suck. Consciously Incompetent – You know you suck Consciously Competent – Ok, you’re developing some skill Unconsciously Competent – It’s second nature Point #3 – Practice Breeds Competence There is no failure, only feedback. Learn from your mistakes, correct your course, and keep moving forward. Questions What ‘new thing’ have you been wanting to try but haven’t because you’re afraid to look foolish? Challenge Be willing to look foolish. The only way you can grow is to step out of your comfort zone and try new things. Quote [Tweet "Nobody sees how much the great ones sucked when they started - Christian Salafia"]

    On Today's Hot Mess Express – All Aboard The Hot Mess Express Point #1 – The Key To Getting What You Want Is Confidence Being a hot mess is being confident in who you are, mess and all. Be unapologetically you – warts and all Point #2 – You Will Have Critics Jealousy is a bitch. Most critics are those who are jealous of you. People like you the way they know you and you changing scares them. Point #3 – Develop A Thick Skin Other people’s opinions are none of your business. Don’t let other people’s shots wound you or dull your shine. Questions Do you find yourself putting on different masks and personalities depending on who you’re around? Do you have people that make you feel like you can’t be yourself when you’re around them? Challenge Stop muting yourself simply because of the people around you. If they’re meant to be in your life they will appreciate your confidence and honesty. Quote [Tweet "If your life is going to be a mess, it might as well be a hot mess, right? – Mindy Kaling"]