Pandora's Box with Kaleah

The title, “The Empath and the Narcissist” may sound a bit like a fairytale of two opposites and a relationship between an Empath and a Narcissist may very well begin like a fairytale; but it often ends more like a nightmare.  Why is one who is highly empathic so frequently attracted to one so lacking in empathy? In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah will talk about the Empath, his/her draw to the narcissist and how he/she can reconcile the ending of a painful relationship with someone who cares nothing for her feelings.

Why are so many women attracted to the bad boy or narcissist and why are so many men attracted to the borderline, high maintenance vixen?  This is a common question that is often difficult to find an easy answer to.  In this episode of Pandora's Box we will look deeper into the powerful draw to the narcissist and how we can understand our own attraction factor, change it and move on to a much more sane and healthy relationship.

So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah talks about how the empathic, codependent, enabler is a perfect match for a narcissist.  How can you recognize your own co-dependent nature and heal yourself so that you are no longer drawn to the role of enabler.

So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah talks about the importance of "no contact" or "no energy" in order to get your power back.

Tuesday August 5th, 2013 4pm PT:  Understanding Narcissistic Abuse So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah brings new insight and awareness to the topic of NPD.

To wrap up the four stages of metamorphosis Kaleah talks about living the authentic life.  It is the new life as a butterfly; as your true self where you now make your own needs a priority and live a life designed by YOU.  Does this mean you are always happy, joyful and fulfilled?  NO!  it means you are REAL and have real feelings, real relationships and real, honest communication.  No more wishing that someone else will come in and rescue you from pain.  You have learned to accept pain as part of your life experience and have become your own rescuer.  Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

This is the final stage of metamorphosis where the new body of the butterfly is formed and it has sufficient strength to break out of the cocoon and take flight into its new life. This is the stage of rebirth where everything begins to emerge much like the bursting forth of springtime. This is where you may truly feel inspired by life again; you begin to come back out and be more social. It may be a time where you move to a new place, launch a new business, get a new job, work out and get into great shape, change your diet, start expressing yourself artistically in a new way and even finding new love. In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah talks about the rebirth and how you can recognize that point where you stop dying and start being born. Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

In the process of metamorphosis the old resistant cells are being consumed by the rapidly growing imaginal cells. The old cells are the body of the caterpillar surrendering its form to become the butterfly. But how is the butterfly formed? From the new, non resistant imaginal cells. As we let go of the old we use our own imaginal cells or imagination to create the new life that is emerging. In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah talks about the emptiness most people find themselves in during a personal metamorphosis and how to use your imagination to create what you really want in life. Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

Being in the womb of transformation is being in the cocoon. One has dissolved into nothingness and a major inward retreat is in process. This is not a time to be social or “out there” in the world. It is a time for personal retreat, solitude and introspection. It is a time to face the dragon; the shadow; our own dark side. In this place we confront our deepest fears and insecurities; we cry all our uncried tears; grieve what has outgrown its form or no longer a part of our lives and we learn to surrender to the process of being “in the womb of transformation.” Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

In the first stage of metamorphosis we enter the chrysalis and dissolve our old form. This is a time of dismantling and coming apart where we have a tendency to resist the process, hold on to what was and invest an incredible amount of energy trying to keep the old form intact. We have not yet learned to surrender. The process can be deeply frightening and uncertain. It is in this stage we must realize that our life as a caterpillar is over and the only option available to us is to surrender to the process, let go and let God. It helps to know we are becoming something much greater than what we were, but it doesn’t feel great at all. It feels like a death! It is a death! Before there can be rebirth there must be death. In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks about the process of dying to what has outgrown its form.

Kaleah is back on the air after a writing Sabatical to complete her new book Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the soul. This Episode is dedicated to talking about the topic of this new book. Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul is a guide for those who find themselves in the darkest, most painful time of their life due to major loss, divorce, illness, or a relationship with a narcissist, borderline or sociopath. If you feel the rug has been pulled out from under your feet; the bottom has dropped out and you don’t know where to turn, this book will not only help give you tools to navigate through the darkness but will also give you hope. Through every death is a rebirth.  You may be entering the greatest metamorphosis of your life.  The journey through darkness can be compared to the journey into the cocoon where a powerful transformation takes place.  Kaleah will take you by the hand and help you to navigate through the dark and painful emotions that keep you feeling lost, stuck and hopeless.  When Pandora’s Box is opened all your unfelt emotions come flooding to the surface, yet the last remaining piece is hope.  This book will inspire you and help you to see that you are not dying but rather you are being born.

Kaleah and Anah Maa join together to discuss the topic of personal empowerment.  What does it really mean to be empowered?  How do you become empowered and what results can you expect to see in your life as a result?  The personal growth industry is a multi million dollar industry with hundreds of thousands of people seeking answers on how to live a more empowered life, be more authentic, have better personal relationships and more abundance.  But with all those flocking to the personal growth industry for answers only three percent ever truly have results.  Why is that?  How can you see true results in your own life and live the life you have only dreamed of?  Tune in and see what Kaleah and Anah have to say. Callers are welcome to call into the live show at  347-826-9626.

Kaleah interviews Dr. Tony Smith of Northern Idaho who assisted her in the healing of her Lyme Disease using a special kind of treatment that is producing results for Lyme Sufferers.  In 2010 Kaleah was struck with severe symptoms which resulted in eighty percent loss of range of motion in both arms.  She suffered incredible pain and muscle spasms as well as loss of sleep due to pain.   She tried all kinds of alternative treatments, still the disabling affects of Lyme took its toll on her. After meeting with a doctor who did kinesiology by phone she was diagnosed with Lyme Disease and a host of other issues.  When Kaleah was referred to the same doctor in Northern Idaho two days in a row she picked up the phone and scheduled an appointment with Dr. Tony Smith who confirmed her diagnosis of Lyme Disease.  After a series of five treatments in a two week period Kaleah's symptoms began to subside with the only lasting symptom being the loss of range of motion.  Through positive intention and diligent effort Kaleah worked to recover full range of motion in both arms within a nine month period.  Kaleah will be talking to Dr. Tony Smith about Lyme Disease and how he tests and treats it.  You can find out more about Dr. Tony Smith at: http://www.lymestop.com

Why is it that the hostages of the Stockholm Bank Robbery defended the Robbers even after continual threats of death and abuse?  Why did two of these women hostages get engaged to their captors?  The Stockholm Syndrome is an example of trauma bonding that is also prevalent with victims of narcissistic and other pathological abuse.  In this episode we will talk about the trauma bond and how it keeps you connected to the abuser long after he/she is gone.  Callers are welcome to call into the live show at  347-826-9626  .

Have you suffered a heartbreak? Are you trying to figure out how to heal from the most painful situation of your life? In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah talks about how to approach the process of healing from heartache and heartbreak as well as understanding soul rape and the trauma bond beneath it. Kaleah also addresses the self blame and destruction that happens after this kind of trauma and also helps you to understand why this is indeed a trauma. Understanding what really happened on a soul level is important to healing and moving forward in ones life. Callers are welcome to call into the live show at  347-826-9626  .