S4E5 - How to Heal and Find Your Confidence Again with Beth Fischer

Summary: Once you've decided enough is enough, and it's time for a new life, it's just a matter of finding the path to recovery. That path starts today with our guest, Beth Fischer, back for round 2! Beth is a betrayal trauma specialist and the new head of our Powerful Partners Program. She has authored an ebook, has online self-guided courses, and coaches betrayed wives in group and individual settings. In this episode, we're going to dive deeper into what women can do to uncover betrayal and how to start healing.<br><br>Whether you are a woman looking for help or a man seeking support, you need to tune into Beth's story to understand how porn affects your family. <br><br>[00:01 - 03:33] How to Do Confrontation Right<br><br>Confrontation is the only option for women to find the truth<br>Confront in a public place - ideally in front of a specialist/counselor <br>Anger and denial is the first red flag <br><br>[03:34 - 12:24] How to Heal and Find Your Confidence Again<br><br>Beth shares more of her story of uncovering betrayal<br>Stepping out of detective mode and shifting into recovery mode <br>Building your own self-esteem up again - healing yourself first<br>Couples usually want to save their marriage but don't know how<br>The significant other needs to be ready - it takes everything you have<br>The woman needs to put boundaries in place <br>Goals vs. outcomes - You need to tie your healing to a strong "why" <br><br>[12:25 - 23:50] How to Learn How to Save Your Marriage<br><br>Decide you want a new life - resources for support below <br>Going from powerless to powerful <br>"You are designed for accomplishment…" <br>You can't do it alone but with help, you CAN do it<br>Attaching outcomes to your goals<br><br>[23:51 - 26:07] That's a Wrap!<br><br>Beth's last words to wives - get to a place of peace<br>Wives, it's not your fault<br>How to reach out to Beth - links below<br>"You were designed for accomplishment, engineered for success, and endowed with the seeds of greatness." - Zig Ziglar<br><br><br>Powerful Quotes:<br><br>"Once you get onto the other side of the fears, you become confident." - Beth Fischer <br><br>"Most couples want to save their marriages, they just don't know how… If they're willing to do whatever it takes, then there is healing." - Beth Fischer <br><br>"Once you decide that you want a new life then it's just a matter of finding the path." - Beth Fischer<br><br>Resources Mentioned:<br><br>Book a call with Beth <a href="https://appointment.yourfamilyneedsyou.com/booking-page761614961828862051" rel="noopener">https://appointment.yourfamilyneedsyou.com/booking-page761614961828862051</a> <br>Pain to Power Program - <a href="https://app.mastermind.com/masterminds/28330" rel="noopener">https://app.mastermind.com/masterminds/28330</a> <br>Free Guide to Faster Healing - <a href="https://bkascheres.mastermind.com/masterminds/23017" rel="noopener">https://bkascheres.mastermind.com/masterminds/23017</a> <br><br>Connect with the Powerful Partners Program at <a href="https://yourfamilyneedsyou.com/" rel="noopener">https://yourfamilyneedsyou.com/</a> - healing done together.<br><br>If you're looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to <a href="https://solo.to/powerfuleric" rel="noopener">https://solo.to/powerfuleric</a> and let's keep the conversation going! <br><br>Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at <a href="mailto:eric@powerfuleric.com">eric@powerfuleric.com</a>. <br> <br>Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.