S4E4 - Understanding How Porn is Affecting Your Family with Beth Fischer

Summary: Believe it or not, porn infiltrates the intimacy of marriage and opens the door to betrayal. That’s where Beth comes in! Beth Fischer is a betrayal trauma specialist with a Master's degree in counseling. She is certified in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and is a practitioner at the PBT Institute. She has authored an ebook, has online self-guided courses, and coaches betrayed wives in group and individual settings. With her professional background and her journey through betrayal, she is a highly sought-after betrayal trauma coach.<br><br>Whether you are a woman looking for help or a man seeking support, you need to tune into Beth’s story to understand how porn is affecting your family. <br><br>[00:01 - 06:30] How Porn Opens the Door to Betrayal<br>I introduce today’s returning guest, Beth Fischer<br>Today’s topic - Betrayal recovery <br>Beth takes some time to explain her own story of betrayal <br>Identifying the red flags<br><br>[06:31 - 15:45] Understanding How Porn is Affecting Your Family <br>Removing the myth that there are healthy uses to porn <br>Porn is the gateway drug to infidelity <br>Too many women fall for the trap of thinking it’s normal <br>You need to set up boundaries <br>The reality of the male brain - we are getting hijacked <br><br>[15:46 - 26:00] D-Day and the Journey to Recovery<br>Beth talks about finding out about the betrayal<br>Seeing the red flags <br>What happens during D-Day, Discovery Day <br>The journey to uncovering the truth <br>The journey to recovery <br><br>[26:01 - 32:07] That’s a Wrap!<br>Beth’s words to people who are thinking of or are cheating <br>Beth’s empowerment to the women dealing with betrayal<br>Understanding the chemical cocktail of dealing with addiction<br>The road to recovery is therapy, support, and education<br>How to reach out to beth - links below<br>“The reason for living is for having great relationships, to have people you love and respect and who love and respect you.” - Brian Tracey<br><br><br>Key Quotes:<br><br>“If there’s something you’re not comfortable with as a wife… you’ve got a right to put a boundary in place to say, ‘No, I don’t want this in my world.’” - Beth Fischer<br><br>“My big mistake was, there’s no way that I was going to fix him. That’s what kept me stuck until we got to the point where I figured out he has to fix himself.”- Beth Fischer<br><br>“The cheating husband; he’s going to have to work through it. He’s going to have to detox just like he would with any other drug.” - Beth Fischer <br><br>Resources Mentioned:<br><a href="https://appointment.yourfamilyneedsyou.com/booking-page761614961828862051" rel="noopener">https://appointment.yourfamilyneedsyou.com/booking-page761614961828862051</a> <br>Book a call with Beth<br><br>Connect with Beth’s work over on <a href="https://yourfamilyneedsyou.com/" rel="noopener">https://yourfamilyneedsyou.com/</a> - healing done together.<br><br>If you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to <a href="https://solo.to/powerfuleric" rel="noopener">https://solo.to/powerfuleric</a> and let’s keep the conversation going! <br><br>Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at <a href="mailto:eric@powerfuleric.com">eric@powerfuleric.com</a>. <br> <br>Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.