Summary: Nobody like to be lectured to. So when it comes to Public Speaking make it conversational. TRANSCRIPT: What do you prefer - someone having chat with you or someone giving you a lecture? There’s no question It’s easier to listen to somebody when they’re speaking in a conversational manner than if they are addressing you very formally . If conversation works in a one on one situation the same holds true if you’re presenting to a small or large group. So when you’re presenting, use a natural conversational style. But how do you achieve that. Always be talking to someone – you may think it’s obvious, but how many presenters have you seen that are talking to the PowerPoint screen, to their notes or to the back of the room. Make sure you Talk to one person at a time – spend a few moments with this person.Don’t make it too long or they might feel uncomfortable but just long enough that they do feel as if you have been talking to them. This will normally be the length of a phrase, or a short sentence. Imagine that you’re having a one-on-one conversation with that person. In that moment Let the other people in the room disappear from your consciousness. Look for the persons reaction to what you’re saying before you carry on. Most people will nod or smile. Then move on to another person. Asking rhetorical questions is also a way of keeping it conversational It’s a great way to get people to think about your topic, and especially how it applies to their own situation. A q like “If you could attract higher-value clients, how might that change your approach to your business?” Then pause and give them time to consider. Also telling stories That stirs your audiences imaginations – and puts your topic into a real-world setting. Remember you need to see you presentation as a two way exchange not an oration and be aware of how they are responding to you talk. A final tip on being conversational - “Speak like you talk.” record your address then listen back to it. Then ask is that something I’d say in real life? If not, go back and try again - Remember a great public speaking performance doesn’t come without a lot of hard work.
