When Kids Call the Shots: A Conversation with Author and Therapist Sean Grover




Mom Enough: A Parenting Podcast show

Summary: <a href="http://www.seangrover.com/kids-call-shots/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"></a>Have you shaken your head in disbelief when kids call the shots and parents allow their children to defy them, berate them or even bully them? Or have you been that parent yourself, allowing your child (tot or teen) to have that authority?<br> <br>  <br> <br> <a href="http://www.seangrover.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Therapist</a> <a href="http://www.seangrover.com/about-sean-grover/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Sean Grover</a> has seen the consequences of this unfortunate parenting approach and, in his practice, has helped many parents reclaim their power, with healthy results for both children and parents. He has pulled together what he has learned in his <a href="http://www.seangrover.com/kids-call-shots/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">book</a>, When Kids Call the Shots: How to Seize Control from your Darling Bully and Enjoy Parenting Again. With compassion and clarity, Sean identifies the underlying issues of guilt, anxiety and over-involvement that often lead parents to give up their authority. And he offers practical steps for restoring a healthy balance of power in family relations. Don’t miss Sean’s important and helpful discussion with Marti &amp; Erin!<br> <br>  <br> <br> What did Sean identify as common reasons shared by parents for when kids call the shots? How have you experienced those issues of guilt, anxiety or a desire to make things easy for your child? How could it harm a child in the long run to be allowed to bully parents or to always have their way?<br> <br>  <br> <br> Related resources:<br> <br> <a href="http://www.seangrover.com/articles/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Articles</a> by Sean Grover<br> <br> <a href="http://momenough.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Effective-Communication-with-Your-Adolescent-Child.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Effective Communication with Your Adolescent Child</a> tip sheet by Marti Erickson<br> <br> <a href="http://momenough.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Defiance-Growing-Concerns-Column.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Defiance</a> article by Marti Erickson<br> <br> <a href="http://momenough.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Dads-a-Softie.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Dad’s a Softie</a> article by Marti Erickson<br> <br> <a href="http://momenough.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Demanding-2-yr-old-Growing-Concerns-Column.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Demanding 2-year-old</a> article by Marti Erickson