Attracting higher quality partners - Feeling sorry for those that abuse you - Try, try again or do or do not

Summary: 1. Do you attract the worst partners? What does it take to find a normal person to date? There is a path to attracting quality partners but it may involve facing your fear of loss. 2. If you feel bad for your emotional abuser, you are more likely to stay in the relationship and take abuse. I'll tell you what you need to focus on so the abuse stops. 3. When did trying things turn into a bad choice? Ever since Star Wars, it seems we've adopted do or do not… but is that the best course of action?