Summary: <br> jQLeadBrite("#leadplayer_video_element_59CE931A20447").leadplayer(false, "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");<br> Do you want to know the secrets to meeting men? <a title="How to Meet Men" href="http://www.singleinstilettos.com/sis/where-to-meet-men-how-to-meet-men-ebook/">Find out here…</a><br> <a href="http://www.singleinstilettos.com/sis/where-to-meet-men-how-to-meet-men-ebook/"></a> <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/single-in-stilettos-podcast/id656998509" target="_blank"></a><a title="What Attracts a Man & What Keeps a Man Podcast" href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/single-in-stilettos-podcast/id656998509" target="_blank">Show is Available as iTunes Podcast – Subscribe</a><br> Sponsored By: <a href="http://www.cupidspulse.com" target="_blank"></a><br> Show #202: My guest on the show is Dr. Jed Diamond, Author of several books, but most recently <a href="http://www.menalive.com" target="_blank">“The Enlightened Marriage”</a><br> The 5 Most Terrifying Words to a Man<br> This week, I welcome back Dr. Jed Diamond, the author of The Enlightened Marriage. Working as a psychotherapist for many years, Jed made it his mission to learn from the struggles of his past marriages to teach others to make stronger connections through a focus on male issues within relationships.<br> All too often, women get caught up thinking about the things they say and do around men. On this week’s show, Jed offers <a href="http://www.singleinstilettos.com/how-to-make-a-relationship-work">relationship advice for women</a> who are worrying about whether or not they’re saying the right things as we discuss the five most terrifying words to a man.<br> “Honey, We Need to Talk.”<br> Ladies, think twice before saying to your man, “Honey, we need to talk.” This phrase can mean a desire for a stronger, deeper connection for a women. As a woman, you feel that inherent desire to fix the problems that are burdening the connection – it feels natural to want to discuss the issue in an effort to resolve it. To a man, however, those words are like nails on a chalkboard. He feels as though he’s about to get reprimanded and criticized for his actions – he doesn’t feel as though he’s being approached to strengthen the relationship and work together to fix problems that have arose.<br> A man deeply desires to please the woman that he’s with, so when you feel the urge to “talk” to your man, approach him in a way that doesn’t suggest criticism. Take into the account the ways in which men best communicate, and use that knowledge to get your point across and encourage him to open up about his own thoughts and feelings.<br> According to Jed,
