Summary: In episode 33, Natalie talks about the importance of distinguishing between personality and character, why some of us are over-responsible' and how we can start to address it, and why we don't need to keep trying to make somebody see something from our perspective or keep trying to make them explain or apologise. This week's listener question is about what to do when a one-night stand followed by some fun dates peters out but you've developed feelings, plus Natalie shares what she's learned this week. LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW The post about personality vs character http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/character-matters About charming tends to be a precursor to code red problems http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/charming What's the baggage behind it? from episode 2 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/2 Episode 31 where I talk about when an estranged parent becomes ill http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/31 Full show notes: www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/33
