109| The Non-Violent Communication Toolkit and The New Culture Sexual Freedom Movement - Kelly Bryson
Summary: In this episode Kelly Bryson gives advice on: <br>- Kelly's views of the relationship area that may differ from other relationship writers (04:25) <br>- Kelly's relationships and how they function (10:24) <br>- Whether Kelly feels he is in a particular relationship category (13:50) <br>- New Culture (free love): love free of fear, possessiveness, control, manipulation (14:30) <br>- The establishment of social and cultural values / principles in communities and whether this is viewed negatively (15:45) <br>- The number of people involved in New Culture and their dating practices (18:40) <br>- Examples of violent communication that most people do not consider violent (22:10) <br>- Explaining nonviolent communication (NVC) to someone who is unknown to it so they understand it: the empathy approach (24:50) <br>- Examples of empathy and how to get into it (27:06) <br>- Does NVC always work? (28:10) <br>- NVC's impact on relationships (29:30) <br>- Whether NVC is effective in short term encounters and casual hookups (31:15) <br>- What Kelly communicates beyond nonviolent communication in his book "Don't Be Nice, Be Real" (31:57) <br>- Polarization of the masculine and feminine is mostly due to patriarchal society (32:50) <br>- Do most women and men in the New Culture take on a nurturing behavior towards each other? (36:06) <br>- The idea of men maintaining their masculinity in a New Culture environment (38:05) <br>- The type of person that fits into New Culture (39:50) <br>- How to get involved in New Culture (40:20) <br>- Kelly's involvement in New Culture and its environment (41:40) <br>- Nonviolent communication as the best communication tool (45:20) <br>- Is there a tendency to drift from previous communities as people become more involved in the New Culture community? (45:51) <br>- The first steps to learning nonviolent communication (48:31) <br>- Being self-aware of your moods, emotions, judgments, and energy through NVC (51:09) <br>- OFNR - Observation, Feeling, Need, Request (54:12) <br>- Advice Kelly offers to men an<br><br>GET MORE: <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-109-non-violent-communication-toolkit-kelly-bryson/">Show Notes & Resources</a>, <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-109-non-violent-communication-toolkit-kelly-bryson/#transcript">Interview Transcript</a> and <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-109-non-violent-communication-toolkit-kelly-bryson/#comments">Comments</a>. <p> HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! </p><p> Think this episode was Kick-Ass?<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">An iTunes review would be SO appreciated!</a> This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you.<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">Click here to review the show</a>. </p><p> FEEDBACK </p><p> Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. </p><p> • Email: <a href="mailto:angel@datingskillsreview.com">angel@datingskillsreview.com</a><br> • Get my newsletter: <a href="http://datingskillsreview.com/newsletter/">Click here to get my Newsletter</a><br> • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 </p><p> MORE FREE STUFF:<br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/fasttrack/">Get the Fast Track Dating System</a><br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/gettop13/">Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time</a><br> </p>
