045: Motivational Words – How To Bounce Back from Failure Leading to Success - The Prepper Podcast




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Summary: You have never heard the “how to bounce back from failure” speech like this.  With fairly motivational words, I discuss that failure leads to success, in life, AND IN PREPPING.<a href="http://theprepperpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/i-failed-my-way-to-success.jpg"></a><br> <br> Don’t be afraid to fail<br> Show Notes: theprepperpodcast.com/045, theprepperpodcast.com/failure<br> How do people define failure?<br> Merriam-Webster: Omission of occurrence or performance or Lack of success or falling short<br> Redefine Failure<br> Instead of lack of success or non-performance, we can define it as just part of the process on the path to success<br> Instead of something done wrong or messed up, we can redefine it as innovation lessons or character building exercises<br> Failure is a learning opportunity.<br> Failure is success if we learn from it<br> Reasons to fail now instead of later:<br> <br> * Availability of income streams<br> * You aren’t getting younger<br> * Current situations are more forgiving that those you are preparing for<br> * You aren’t emotional<br> * You can make it a learning opportunity because you are rational<br> * Compounding Results<br> * It is a skill and knowledge investment.<br> * Accidental Success<br> <br> Fear failure and Reduce Failure:<br> <br> * Don’t fear it to the point of inaction, just enough to understand the risks, how to mitigate them, your escape strategy.<br> <br> <br> How to use failure:<br> Feel it:<br> Don’t move on too soon.  You need to allow yourself to understand that you had a failure.  Allow some time for it to sink in and for you to process the emotions. Don’t get attached to them.<br> Reflect on it<br> In your pause, reflect and decide what went wrong.  Was it careless, was it a trial and error?<br> Claim Responsibility<br> If it is your fault, don’t blame others<br> If it is outside your control, don’t blame yourself.<br> If your involvement was cause of the failure, accept it so you can learn from it.<br> Admit it<br> Acknowledge your misstep, and move on so you can refocus going forward.<br> If you can’t admit it, you can’t fix it.<br> Take Action<br> Create an action plan with steps you will take.  At this point, you don’t try.<br> You learned, came up with a plan, now take action.<br> If your actions fail, you are back into the steps for using failure.<br> <br> What not to do:<br> Move on too quickly<br> Don’t dismiss the failure as small or trivial.  You won’t learn from something that you see as a minor issue.<br> Blame or make excuses<br> If you don’t take ownership, you can’t learn and correct the mistake.<br> Only work on what you can control.<br> You can’t control the outcome if you don’t take some ownership.<br> Deny or Cover Up<br> If you deny your part in the mistake, you are doomed to repeat the past<br> Give Up Easily<br> Don’t give up because of fear or “not wanting to deal with it”.<br> Giving up is a real action that may be taken, but If it is out of fear, you will harbor regret.<br> The road to success is paved in failure.<br> Don’t be too afraid to screw up, or you may not ever begin.<br> Now isn’t a good time, Well, It’s never a good time.<br> I want you to begin your projects, fail at them, learn from the failures, and ultimately pick yourself back up, dust yourself off, and start over.<br> Eventually you will find yourself prepared, successful, and enjoying life, and your projects<br>