|DSP 25| It's Unexciting Fundamental Skills Not Flashy Techniques that Work with Women - DJ Fuji

Summary: In this interview with DJ Fuji we talk about how "flashy" techniques may look exciting, but often don't deliver results. For anyone struggling with the "learning process" this is a great interview to reset your ideas of what you should be focusing on learning. What are the 'fundamental social skills' you need to attract and date the women you are interested in. (1:20). How to know what you need to study first is - basic fundamentals or more specific techniques? (3:48). Men take between 6 months and 3 years to become successful with women. How to take the 6 month shortcut (5:00). Most men who start studying this drop out. How much drive does it require to become the 'succesful guy' with women? (7:30). Why the fact that most men drop out is actually the best possible situation for you and how to judge your 'drive' based on your fitness and career life (8:30). Have you hit bottom? Have you gone through enough pain to get the drive to become the best? Anecdotal evidence about the men who get most successful studying dating and social skills (9:30). The value of pain - how avoiding pain can sabotage your success and the ideal way to study "getting better with women" (11:10). Are you a pain or pleasure responder? What will keep you on the ball to get your dating life fixed permanently? (13:10). The importance of accountability and how to 'hack your life' to reinforce accountability (15:20). A fatal mistake - losing sight of the 'right goal' or not setting the right goal. Men who succeed focus on... (17:00). The very first basic skills you should focus on mastering first (18:20). You can't fool women - you have to BE attractive. But how? (19:00). "Gym Talk". What really can make a difference to the women you attract from improving your health and fitness (22:00). A "Building Resources" perspective on how to attract more women and live a better life (22:00). Talking about "Self Discipline". Is it essential to getting results? How to use it? Do you have to be militant with yourself? (25:00). The three big things DJ Fuji recommends you start with to get results quickly (28:30).