SILY Episode 14-You Do Not Have Because You Do Not Ask




Stuff I Learned Yesterday show

Summary: I could make today’s episode of Stuff I Learned Yesterday really short and sweet.  If you don’t ask, you won’t receive.  I mean, that’s not the way it works 100% of the time, but it’s a pretty solid statement.  I would say that the vast majority of the time, if you don’t ask, you won’t get what you seek.  Let me share an example that drastically impacted my life.<br> <br> This story begins in the fall of 2012.  During that time of my life I was very discontent with my job at the bookstore and focused on building a career in new media.  Things were progressing, but not quickly enough for my satisfaction.  I was really struggling.  I it was either late October or early November.  I had no desire to go through another Christmas season in retail, but at that point there was no way to avoid it.  There was one morning in particular that I was getting ready for work and it was the last place I wanted to be.  My heart wasn’t there.  My passion for  that career had gone.  <br> The truth is, nearly every morning had been that way for a while, and as the Christmas season grew nearer, my discontent grew stronger.  Each morning before going to work I would spend time in prayer.  I would ask God to help me deal with the situation.  That he would give me patience and wisdom.  I wanted to ask him to give me an opportunity to follow my passion of new media, but I just couldn’t.  <br> <br> I couldn’t ask God for another opportunity because I felt like doing so would be selfish.  The truth is, my job was great.  It was a steady paycheck and a comfortable salary with a company that had values and a mission that I believed in.  Yes, there were a few people there that I thought were bad apples, but the majority of the people there were great.  The people in my department were awesome.  Most people would want the type of job that I had.  To ask for something else would be out of line. Read More...