We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast show

We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast

Summary: We are a long-time married couple deepening our relationship through the swinging lifestyle . We intend for our podcast to resonate with those having similar life experience and values who are either in or potentially entering the lifestyle. Not a "how to" resource but more of a "what if" resource that generates authentic conversation between couples to help them find their place in the lifestyle. Care to join us?

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  • Artist: Mr & Mrs Jones's Swinging Adventures
  • Copyright: Copyright WGT 2019

Podcasts:

 Episode 80: Finding True Friends in the Lifestyle | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:21:09

We talk a lot about all the special friendships we've made in the lifestyle and many of you express frustration over finding the type of connections we describe. In this episode we offer tips on what it takes to be successful finding and building special relationships with those who will become true friends! 

 Episode 79: Can We Afford the Lifestyle? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:09:08

It's not a secret that engaging in the lifestyle can be expensive! In this episode we discuss budgeting tips for your lifestyle adventures and why we prioritize spending money on us as an investment in our relationship.

 Episode 78: How Do I Know She is Interested in Me? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:36:23

Men are programmed through all aspects of life to avoid showing interest in other women. But now we are in this lifestyle where other women expect us to show some interest. This is so confusing! How are us guys supposed to know when you ladies are interested in getting to know us better? Get out your notepads for this episode as Mrs Jones sets us all straight in the matter...

 Episode 77: I Never Imagined I Would Ever... | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:34:57

Before entering the lifestyle or becoming experienced in the lifestyle we never imagined doing some of the things we've actually done and things we've learned about the lifestyle. We share how our perspectives change over time and also share what some of our listeners have to say about their own experiences!

 Episode 76: Be Authentic- Acknowledging All Facets of You | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:05:59

As we are mired in the current pandemic many of us are being pulled back away from our social and sexual mindsets. When we are concerned about our jobs, our children, our families and our health we need to be deliberate to ensure our relationships and our sexuality is a priority! We discuss the difficulty of resolving the tension between who we are wired to be as humans and who we are trained to be by society.

 Episode 75: Confronting Men's Performance Issues | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:34:55

Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety are often misunderstood by many in the lifestyle. Numerous couples experience this issue but don't take the time to acknowledge, openly discuss, research and confront the issue head on. Normally us guys would rather get a prescription for a performance enhancing medicine but never understand and treat the underlying health and psychological issues. Mr Night returns to give us his professional opinion and we share our views as an experienced lifestyle couple.

 Episode 74: Health, Wellness, Hormones and the Lifestyle | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:38:35

"Mr Night" is a certified Family Nurse Practitioner of 20 years and is also a certified Bio-identical Hormone Replacement Specialist. He and his wife "Mrs Night" are also in the lifestyle and join us to discuss how diet, exercise, hormones and supplements can be used to proactively manage our health as we age.

 Episode 73: Opposites Attract? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:29:06

We've all heard the term 'opposites attract' when talking about relationships. Does the same hold true when finding connections in the lifestyle? Do we search for people just like our partners or do we find ourselves attracted to those who are the opposite? Listen in as we discuss our preferences and what we're still learning about ourselves and each other as we continue to navigate this lifestyle.

 Episode 72: Voices Inside My Head-Don't Be Your Own C***Blocker | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:37:24

We are all guilty of creating false narratives and making up those stories in our heads as we consider approaching another couple in the lifestyle. We convince ourselves that they are out of our league, or they won't find us attractive, or they will probably just reject us. We talk with our friends Andi and Dave from the lifestyle dating site Double Date Nation about how we can all recognize when we begin telling our own story and how to intervene to help create the true story!

 Episode 71: The Kiss and Tell Dilemma | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:29:05

In this episode we discuss the issue of 'Kissing and Telling' in the lifestyle. How do you feel about couples sharing personal details about a private play experience? Do you share details with others to include the names of your play partners? Is there ever a good reason to Kiss and Tell? Listen in as we discuss our opinions in the matter!

 Episode 70: Desire 2019- Reflections by the Ladies | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:35:19

Listen in our conversation with a resort full of imperfect but beautiful ladies! The ladies of Desire discuss what they've had to realize and overcome in order to enjoy and grow into the lifestyle. Along the way the are discovering real transformation both in themselves and in relationships with their partners.

 Episode 69: Consent- More Than Words | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:31:35

We all agree consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent.  We'll talk about using our words but will also consider two additional dimensions: non-verbal consent (body language) and giving yourself consent.

 Episode 68: The 'Social Sexy' Lifestyle | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:35:43

Some people are either put off by the term "swinger" or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We've decided to use the term 'Social Sexy' to describe how we view and engage with others in the world of ethical non-monogamy.

 Episode 67: Eyes Wide Open- Lifestyle Red Flags | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:26:49

We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to you becoming a red flag to other couples. Listen in as we work through one of our own red flags!

 Episode 66: Discovering Your Lifestyle Tribe | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:32:38

Episode 66: Discovering Your Lifestyle Tribe

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