Summary: We are Tori and Soul, a passionately married same-sex female bisexual couple. We've been together for over a decade yet just recently married. Join us as we explore the sexually social and adventurous swinging lifestyle as lovers, and navigate it as parents as well. This podcast is for couples who are deeply in love with each other and want to explore how ethical non-monogamy can enhance their relationship. Regardless of whether you're curiously considering it or completely comfortable, listen in and enjoy how what we do, whether mind-blowing or minor mishap, has still served us well, made us better people, and a couple that's even better together. Hey! It's either a good time or it's a good story. And if done just right, it's both! Join us and be inspired to open up even more to your own torrid soul.
This episode is a super playful, candid, boobs-on-the-table REMIX with the feisty Priory Society. Following the events of our EP19: "Thank You, Next", hear how Eros and Isis try to SQUEEZE US in new ways! And for more of us chatting with others, find Normalizing Non-Monogamy EP49, Uncomfortable EP20, Two or More to Tango EP24, and EP31:Ladies of the Lifestyle PT1, Average Swingers EP108, and EP115:LOL PT2, Swinger Diaries EP78:LOL PT3, and Just Keep Swinging EP25. Each one has a different twist!
Boobies! In this episode we talk all about augmenting them! Some want bigger, others want what they once had. If you've ever considered breast augmentation and wondered what it's like, this episode is for you! Join us as we talk candidly and share the whole process with you. From the thoughts and feelings before surgery, to after surgery, when things have settled in. Find out about choosing the right type of augmentation for you, implant size and placement and even the helpful hands-on research too!
The perfect follow-up to our last episode. In this episode, we recap the spontaneous and super satisfying multi-orgasmic playtime we had at a private birthday party in a Victorian Mansion in Toronto. Join us in bed as we recap the successes, the morning after. What we didn't know then was that we were describing what we now know as our sexual wiring. Hear why the whole experience was such a total turn-on for Tori (an Energetic) and how Soul (a Sensual & Sexual) enjoyed one mind-blowing orgasm after another.
Wanna have even better sex? Wanna get what you really, really want? YES? Listeners already know that we are pretty clear about finding (and getting) what we want in the lifestyle so join us and find out how. With a quick and easy test, discover just how you are wired, and learn how to feed this pattern, and your partner's too. We recorded this in front of a live audience at Valentine's in Niagara. VIN2020. Listen in and get yourself some muy sexy results.
Warning: This is a feel-good-filled-with-an-insanely-sexy-amount-of-fun episode. It's our 1st anniversary episode. The 1st anniversary of our podcast, and our 1st wedding anniversary too! In this episode we're at Temptation Cancun Resort and have our 1st spontaneous repeat-worthy experience. We spend 3, of the last 4 nights, with the same guy! (Yes, he was that good!) It's the morning after session #3. We're fuck-drunk, and still in bed, talking about our spicy and adventurous Temptation Experience!
We're in San Diego. We've made plans to meet up with a hot, single guy. Great profile on Kasidie. We text back and forth. Excitement builds. We set the day, time, and place to meet. Drinks it is! We're getting ready. The phone dings. It's him! (30 minutes before we are to meet) "Sorry, I made other plans."...WTF! We just got dumped! Who does this? Why? No one enjoys rejection and Tori is hit hard by this. This time it's Soul to the emotional rescue. Find out how we still rise from the ashes of rejection.
Toronto, with its 5 lifestyle clubs, is the sex club capital of North America. In this episode we chose The O Zone. The perfect place to go to dance the night away or be sexy (or both). We explore a few "firsts". It was our debut of taking a date to a club - checking in as a trio - and a few other sexy firsts. We tour through our favourite Toronto area nightclub-style lifestyle club, and share our adventures with our repeat-worthy playfriend, Batman! Buckle up, as we share more sexy details than normal.
You've discovered the lifestyle. Yaaa! Someone in the relationship is curious (and brave enough) to want to explore sexuality in a new way. The tricky part is that we each have desires that are as unique as we are. How do you support your partner with something that is on the top of their list when it isn't even on your list? This Car Talk episode explores how partners can support one another in what truly pleases them. Discover how this crazy love can bring you closer.
In this episode, we share what it's really like from the perspective of a bi guy, a bi gal and as a bi couple. We're in Austin Texas, and we meet up with Jamal, from The Everything Sexy Show and The 2nd Cuming Show, for our 1st-ever interview. Jamal is a rarity - an openly bisexual man in the lifestyle. He tells us what's so amazing (and challenging) about being a bi guy. We also talk DP, DVP, consent, and what else to do when you can't get it up,...and find out just what a bi gal would have as a fantasy.
Like life, the Lifestyle has different vibes and tribes. Some people you jive with, and just as often, you will encounter those who don't. Some are strictly interested in having as much sex as possible. Some will take time to get to know you before getting to sex. Regardless, being approached by those who don't match your vibe can be discouraging. In this episode we discuss the importance of knowing that, even here, feeling successful at finding others to play with is all about resonating.
Many women don't want the tacky label of "cougar", yet some women are attracted to the energy of a playful younger guy who can go all night, and some younger men get a sexual high from a confident hottie. In this episode we try an organized event that pays tribute to the beauty and sex appeal of women, and the younger men who enjoy this dynamic. It's Cougars & Cubs night at Oasis. WARNING: Avoid operating machinery while listening to this episode due to a potential safety hazard of excessive laughter.
Valentines In Niagara: A hotel takeover with 100s of sexy couples wanting to explore the naughty side of their sexuality. A weekend of workshops, themed dances and pool parties. We record live, in our hotel room, with Swinger Diaries, Monogamish Marriage, and a few lucky listeners. We talk podcasting, squirting, the benefits (and surprises) of the lifestyle; You will never see Niagara Falls the same way again. Also get an update on what happened when we, as a couple, were denied entrance to Desire Resorts.
We're at it again... in the car! In this episode we go long and deep! We tell you all the sexy details of VIN Couples Convention, the largest lifestyle event of it's kind in Canada. A complete hotel takeover featuring a non-stop weekend of seminars, workshops, themed dances, pool parties and hundreds of like-minded couples exploring the naughty side of their sexuality. Consider this episode as the foreplay to our next episode - the conversational orgy recorded live during Valentines in Niagara.
Toronto, with 5 lifestyle clubs, is the sex club capital of North America. In this episode we go to Oasis AquaLounge. A perfect place to chill out and get sexy. We had a specific mission that night. Soul had finally decided on surgery so this was to be an homage to the tatas. An ending, and a new beginning. Then, a goodbye became a surprising hello when a playfriend, who had been MIA for almost a year, walks in. He said he was out of the game (serious with his girlfriend). Find out why he was at a sex club!
Truth be told this episode was a challenge for us - to record and to edit. Disappointment is not a happy topic. It's never easy. In this episode Soul interviews Tori in the usual raw, unscripted and candid Torrid Souls way. Hear what dark emotions come up after our first majorly disappointing escapade. We chat about assumptions and intimacy and the importance of having a voice, speaking up when things aren't going as planned. And we talk about the lesson in all of this... ultimately, to be better together.