Moral Development in Children : Practical Guidance on Promoting Morality and Character

Summary: Being a moral person – a person of character – sometimes is defined as “doing the right thing even when no one is watching.” As babies, we all are ego-centric (self-centered), focused on our own immediate needs and feelings. Gradually, we develop the ability to recognize the feelings of others and discover the impact of our own actions on them, laying the foundation for the earliest stage of moral development, when we behave in a certain way to please our parents and other caregivers. So, what do parents and other caring adults need to do to help children move through higher stages of moral development, learn to discern right from wrong and discover the value for self and others in being a person of morality or character?<br> <br>  <br> <br> This week’s Mom Enough guest, therapist John Driggs, brings a humble, reflective perspective to this important topic in human development, offering much-needed encouragement and hope for our children’s future.<br> <br>  <br> <br> What did you hear in this conversation that prompted you to reflect on how you are supporting your children’s moral development? What factors in today’s world make it hard to teach your children right from wrong? What have you found to be most effective with your children?<br> <br>  <br> <br> Related resources:<br> <br> <a href="https://www.thomaslickona.com/">Character Matters: How to Help Our Children Develop Good Judgment, Integrity and Other Essential Virtues</a>, book by Thomas Lickona<br> <br> <a href="https://momenough.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Discussing-emotions-with-children-ICD.pdf">Discussing emotions with children</a> tip sheet from the University of Minnesota<br> <br> <a href="https://momenough.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/Fostering-Compassionate-Children-tip-sheet.pdf">Fostering Compassionate Children</a> tips from St. David's Center<br> <br> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Parents-Mean-Well-Intentioned-Undermine-Development/dp/0547248032">The Parents We Mean To Be: How Well-Intentioned Adults Undermine Children's Emotional and Moral Development</a>, book by Richard Weissbourd<br> <br>