64| Hacking Tinder to Get More Dates - Chris Harders

DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast) show

Summary: In this episode Chris Harders gives advice on: <br>- Chris' background and what he did before starting to give dating advice (04:58) <br>- How Chris ended up being a virgin until the age of 23 (06:00) <br>- Chris talks about living in a project house for date coaching and mentoring, and the highlights (10:40) <br>- Transitioning from consulting to promoter, to getting involved with the Tinder app (17:05) <br>- How the demographics of Tinder have broadened (21:00) <br>- Is Tinder more of a casual dating app or for something more serious? (21:56) <br>- Looking at the context of the girls, the situations, and why and how they are using Tinder (23:40) <br>- How Tinder is different from other standard online dating platforms (27:45) <br>- What kind of response rates come from a first message (30:23) <br>- Getting started on Tinder: Keep it fun and tell a story (32:15) <br>- There is no playing it cool on Tinder (36:15) <br>- What the main objective of your first message should be (39:00) <br>- The number of Tinder messages involved in getting a girl's number and establishing a date (39:20) <br>- Moving towards having a phone conversation before meeting up with a girl (41:00) <br>- Playing the game in order to get to point of having a date (44:00) <br>- Other reasons for getting a girl's phone number on Tinder (45:45) <br>- The stigma girls feel of being on Tinder (47:00) <br>- The types of Tinder dates Chris has experienced (48:10) <br>- Girls are more adventurous on Tinder (51:55) <br>- Chris' favorite Tinder grammatical rules (54:55) <br>- Recommendations for advice and insights in dating, sex, and relationships (58:00) <br>- Top three recommendations to help men get better results with women as fast as possible (58:28) <br><br><br>GET MORE: <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-64-hacking-tinder-get-more-dates-chris-harders/">Show Notes &amp; Resources</a>, <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-64-hacking-tinder-get-more-dates-chris-harders/#transcript">Interview Transcript</a> and <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-64-hacking-tinder-get-more-dates-chris-harders/#comments">Comments</a>. <p> HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! </p><p> Think this episode was Kick-Ass?<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">An iTunes review would be SO appreciated!</a> This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you.<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">Click here to review the show</a>. </p><p> FEEDBACK </p><p> Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. </p><p> • Email: <a href="mailto:angel@datingskillsreview.com">angel@datingskillsreview.com</a><br> • Get my newsletter: <a href="http://datingskillsreview.com/newsletter/">Click here to get my Newsletter</a><br> • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 </p><p> MORE FREE STUFF:<br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/fasttrack/">Get the Fast Track Dating System</a><br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/gettop13/">Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time</a><br> </p>