72| Casual Hookups vs. Committed Relationships - Justin Lehmiller

DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast) show

Summary: In this episode Justin Lehmiller gives advice on: <br>- Justin's scientific background (03:05) <br>- Self report surveys in social studies used to assess people's sexual interests and their reliability in affecting the quality of sex research (08:05) <br>- Verifying external sex related data to validate research (11:55) <br>- Justin's confidence in his research results and how research studies are perceived (14:05) <br>- Repressing aspects of your sexuality through self-control and how it affects your sexual decisions and actions in other ways related to, for example, online sexual searching, pornography, and physical intimacy (18:30) <br>- Sexual fantasies and how much they evolve due to repression or a certain type of lifestyle (22:45) <br>- What Justin has and is looking into in the area of sexual fantasies (24:27) <br>- Interesting findings in types of relationships (e.g. friends with benefits) (27:20) <br>- Secret romantic relationships: those who do it, why, the implications for the quality of the relationship, and for your own personal health and well-being (33:30) <br>- Things that have stood out over the course of Justin's research discoveries; regarding the use of smart phone applications for matching and hooking up (38:09) <br>- Indicators of commitment when getting into a relationship (45:30) <br>- Mate poaching research: stealing someone else's partner (48:20) <br>- A view on porn as a desensitizing addiction (51:03) <br>- Recommendations for high quality advice in the casual sex area of dating, sex, and relationships (52:45) <br>- Top recommendations to help men get results as fast as possible with women (53:27) <br><br><br>GET MORE: <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-72-casual-hookups-committed-relationships-justin-lehmiller-phd/">Show Notes &amp; Resources</a>, <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-72-casual-hookups-committed-relationships-justin-lehmiller-phd/#transcript">Interview Transcript</a> and <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-72-casual-hookups-committed-relationships-justin-lehmiller-phd/#comments">Comments</a>. <p> HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! </p><p> Think this episode was Kick-Ass?<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">An iTunes review would be SO appreciated!</a> This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you.<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">Click here to review the show</a>. </p><p> FEEDBACK </p><p> Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. </p><p> • Email: <a href="mailto:angel@datingskillsreview.com">angel@datingskillsreview.com</a><br> • Get my newsletter: <a href="http://datingskillsreview.com/newsletter/">Click here to get my Newsletter</a><br> • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 </p><p> MORE FREE STUFF:<br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/fasttrack/">Get the Fast Track Dating System</a><br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/gettop13/">Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time</a><br> </p>