91| Practical Rules to Navigate the Path of Love and Commitment - Duana Welch

DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast) show

Summary: In this episode Duana Welch gives advice on: <br>- What love and commitment could mean to people? (03:46) <br>- Duana's background and relationship lifestyle (07:25) <br>- Why Duana is passionate about her topic, why it's important today, and why she wrote her book (08:47) <br>- What gets in our way of looking for love and commitment? (09:56) <br>- Marriage as a more stable lifestyle and the behavioral differences between cohabiting and marriage (16:08) <br>- Dependency: an explanation of the co-dependency model/frame (18:10) <br>- Attachment styles, how those styles can get in the way in terms of dependency, and determining your attachment style (21:50) <br>- Practical tips for dealing with and/or changing your particular attachment style (40:13) <br>- What makes a relationship satisfactory and healthy (50:58) <br>- Selecting a partner based on what you need as opposed to what society tells you, and revealing the past to determine if someone is right for you (52:14) <br>- Finding someone that matches your attachment style; someone who desires the same things or standards in a relationship (1:01:53) <br>- Discussing the book: All the Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right (Ellen Fein), and whether Duana sees aspects of it that are beneficial (1:10:00) <br>- Discussing the book: Evolution of Desire (David M. Buss), and how men and women have different mating psychologies (1:11:20) <br>- When a woman applies specific rules that affect the dating process and the possibility of a relationship (1:16:10) <br>- Searching for someone based on sexual behavior versus those looking for a committed relationship (1:23:40) <br>- Where to find people interested in committed relationships (1:26:05) <br>- Dr. Nancy Kalish research and how people compare what they want in a person to a past love, and realizing the possibility of connecting with that person from their past (1:35:57) <br>- Best way to connect with Duana and learn more about her work (1:47:05) <br>- Top three recommend<br><br>GET MORE: <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-91-practical-rules-love-commitment-duana-welch/">Show Notes &amp; Resources</a>, <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-91-practical-rules-love-commitment-duana-welch/#transcript">Interview Transcript</a> and <a href="https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-91-practical-rules-love-commitment-duana-welch/#comments">Comments</a>. <p> HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! </p><p> Think this episode was Kick-Ass?<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">An iTunes review would be SO appreciated!</a> This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you.<br> <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/itunes/">Click here to review the show</a>. </p><p> FEEDBACK </p><p> Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. </p><p> • Email: <a href="mailto:angel@datingskillsreview.com">angel@datingskillsreview.com</a><br> • Get my newsletter: <a href="http://datingskillsreview.com/newsletter/">Click here to get my Newsletter</a><br> • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 </p><p> MORE FREE STUFF:<br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/fasttrack/">Get the Fast Track Dating System</a><br> • <a href="http://www.datingskillsreview.com/gettop13/">Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time</a><br> </p>