|DSP 72| Casual Hookups vs. Committed Relationships - Justin Lehmiller

DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast) show

Summary: Justin's scientific background (03:05) Self report surveys in social studies used to assess people's sexual interests and their reliability in affecting the quality of sex research (08:05) Verifying external sex related data to validate research (11:55) Justin's confidence in his research results and how research studies are perceived (14:05) Repressing aspects of your sexuality through self-control and how it affects your sexual decisions and actions in other ways related to, for example, online sexual searching, pornography, and physical intimacy (18:30) Sexual fantasies and how much they evolve due to repression or a certain type of lifestyle (22:45) What Justin has and is looking into in the area of sexual fantasies (24:27) Interesting findings in types of relationships (e.g. friends with benefits) (27:20) Secret romantic relationships: those who do it, why, the implications for the quality of the relationship, and for your own personal health and well-being (33:30) Things that have stood out over the course of Justin's research discoveries; regarding the use of smart phone applications for matching and hooking up (38:09) Indicators of commitment when getting into a relationship (45:30) Mate poaching research: stealing someone else's partner (48:20) A view on porn as a desensitizing addiction (51:03) Recommendations for high quality advice in the casual sex area of dating, sex, and relationships (52:45) Top recommendations to help men get results as fast as possible with women (53:27)