|DSP 60| Why Nice Guys Are Actually Nasty Guys - Robert A. Glover

DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast) show

Summary: Robert's background (04:05) Becoming a better 'picker' and 'ender' in dating (05:52) Robert's past dating experiences and becoming aware of his own dating approach (09:30) What has become more important in life in terms of dating and relationships (13:37) Being a nice guy: how it is shaped by your past (18:46) Explanation of the nice guy syndrome (20:25) Unconscious behavior of being a nice guy (24:44) Is there a question you can ask yourself regarding nice guy behavior patterns (26:04) Nice guy character traits are actually negative, even nasty (27:55) Compartmentalizing your desires and interests to validate your actions (29:10) Breaking away from the nice guy syndrome by finding safe people you can reveal yourself to (30:50) When nice guys are manipulative and dishonest (34:10) Understanding passive aggressive behavior (35:27) The Victim Puke: Elliot Rodger, repressed anger, and mental illness (40:05) Are pickup artists fueling the negative side of nice guy syndrome? (48:50) Actionable steps to take to start stepping out of the nice guy syndrome (54:12) The process of consciousness: becoming an accurate and non-judgmental observer of yourself (58:42) Robert's best experience with a woman (1:02:53) Recommendation for high quality advice for life, dating, sex, and relationships (1:06:03) Top three recommendations to help men get better results with women as fast as possible (1:07:26) Current and upcoming projects (1:08:15)