|DSP 51| Accessing the Power of Emotional Transference - David Tian (Asian Rake)
Summary: How David was forced to focus on elements of himself that led him to become a "Rake" during his stay in China. David's relationship stats, background including details on the longer time he's spent in relationships vs many other dating coaches, including a marriage and how his dating lifestyle is today. How David ended up taking the name "The Asian Rake" which he first became well known for as an effective seducer in the year 2007. Comparison of characters in the public eye that David sees as Rakes, versus those that Robert Greene identified when we spoke with him recently. The natural Iranian Rake and the story of how David first came face to face with the results the Rake personality gets and got inspired to investigate it more. Different viewpoints of what the fundamental attributes behind the Rake are - do you have to love women? is there room for any misogyny? The dangers and anti-climax of a long seduction or build up before having sex with a girl, especially when it ends up you both ending up in bed very late at night. More emotional aspects of your character that you may shun, but can actually work well for you with women. Love of deserts, candy and sugar and teddy bears. The proportion of female friends that can help you develop your Rake character. How to balance your Rake feminine side with your masculine through investment of your time in manly activities. A strange Chinese historical story that illustrates some of the advanced mechanics of being a Rake. How men need to learn that they are not just one person, or personality, and access the multiple dimensions beneath them. Truth bombs: "You kind of have to be detached to get good at this.". Where David disagrees with how Robert Greene looks at the obsessive personality of the Rake. Blast from the past: Reminiscing on MrSex4UNYC, one of the earliest successful pickup artists from the 1998 to 2002 years. Digging into the science behind emotional transference, mirror neurons and the studies and research supporting it. The problems with parental investment theory from evolutionary psychology and how women's long term driven sexuality has been put into question by harder data on their physiology captured in studies. The mechanics and a process for taking control of your emotions. What exactly is 'being confident'? How do you actually create confidence and project confidence in the right way? (Not arrogance or bravado). How to build your own self-reliance and confidence though the experiences you pursue in life and David's story of a recent self-reliance building experience he had. David Tian's top 3 recommendations for men to act on to get results with women as fast as possible.