How Not To Chase Your Lover Away!

Summary: People: There are good mates around you everyday unseen to the naked eye that are there for you ripe for the picking! I receive many complaints that there are not enough good mates out her for the People but I have to disagree with that notion as I know many great individuals who are often overlooked. But tonight we will take that argument a bit further and discuss what many people do when they have the ear or attention of a good person but for some reason seem to have a track record of always chasing the good companions away. Let me confirm that I am NOT saying that this is EVERYBODY but from what I’m seeing this is a great MANY people. I don’t think that they have an idea that they are doing something so counterproductive to what they claim that they want but something is wrong and that something needs to change. We have many finger pointers out here who will always refuse to look inward to see if they are at fault for their lives being the epicenter of loneliness, frustration and deadly venom that it is. But when one sees a pattern developing, after a time they must do a double take from within to see if it is something that they are putting out to the universe that repels the person that they have desired more with or just downright chased away that perfect lover that they already had under total lock and key. The attitudes, the insinuations, the unrealistic relationship demands and the impossible projected standards just might leave a single person at middle age saying “WHAT HAPPENED?” as they look back on a life full of world achievements but also infested with those unwanted emotional failures!