The Design You Podcast

This week's topic is right at the top of the list of the most important, most valuable ways you can change your life. I'm going to be helping y'all with a little bit of an attitude adjustment today by exploring how we use our past, current, and future thinking to get the results we want. It's time to get busy getting rid of your belief systems so you can create some new results in your life! Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/26

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Chasing the idea of self-confidence can get pretty exhausting, especially if it's stopping you from going after what you truly desire. This episode is going to highlight how you might be thinking about confidence all wrong and how you might have fallen into the trap of the impostor syndrome. If you've had enough of feeling insecure or that your confidence is "fake" or a "charade," I've got you covered this week.  Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/25

Most of us would rather die than to consider ourselves victims. But let me just throw this out there: Is there anyone you spend a lot of time thinking negative thoughts about? If you do, that's your "villain." If you're still choosing to outsource your happiness to other people, this is going to be a little hard to swallow at first, but changing your mindset around this will impact your life for the better! Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/24

Put on your big girl pants, we're going to emotionally adult today, ya'll! Join me today to find out what really makes people happy (or not) and how feelings really get hurt. This may be a little jarring at first but believe me, when you learn to be 100% responsible for your own happiness, and no one else's, your life will get better and better every day! Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/23

This week on the podcast, I have a very special interview with a woman that has changed my life. She is a Certified Master Coach Suzy Rosenstein. Suzy specializes in helping people to reach their full potential and regret-proof their lives. I’m so lucky to have Suzy as my life and business coach and I cannot wait for y’all to hear the insights she’s given me on age, business, and money. Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/22

If you're anything like me, you love your work but don't necessarily want to sacrifice everything else you value in order to be successful and make lots of money. Unfortunately, that's exactly what many of us do until we do the mindset work. It may seem a bit far-fetched or ridiculous to you at first but I promise, after this episode, you'll have the steps for creating an actionable plan to start making more money in less time. Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/21

Whether you know it or not, your personal beliefs about money carry a lot of weight in your ability to earn and keep (have, not hoard) the amount of money you dream of. Your thoughts and fears about money can keep you in a scarcity mindset that affects not only your happiness but also your bottom line. Join me today as I share how you can notice your beliefs about money that are holding you back from receiving all that you deserve. Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/

Do you often think things like, "I don't have enough time," "I can't afford that," or "I have to?" Scarcity thoughts and the resulting actions or inactions come with huge costs.  It's time to upgrade your thoughts, friends. Scarcity thinking equals suffering. Abundance thinking equals more ease and more joy. Listen in today to hear how you can identify scarcity thoughts and what to do about them.  Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/19

Most of us have stellar integrity when it comes to keeping our word to others: Our word means everything. We would never let anyone else down, right?  So why do so many of us struggle, year after year, to keep our word to ourselves? Learn how to identify how you're benefitting from not following through on your commitments and the stepping stone to showing up for yourself in order to break the habit now! Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/18

Join me as I share my 12 favorite takeaways from This Messy Magnificent Life by Geneen Roth and why I believe they are so important for all of us. When you’re trying to achieve those huge personal results in life or business, I don’t want you falling prey to numbing, okay? So as you listen to me go through the lessons, I want you to be really honest with yourself and ask how you can show up better for yourself today. Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/17

I've realized through my work over the years that every time I'm not where I need to be it's always the same culprit holding me back: I've been making excuses. On this episode, I'm sharing my step-by-step process to move beyond being stuck in our old, less-than-ideal habits and behaviors and move towards the place we want to be in our life. Get full show notes and more information here:  https://tobifairley.com/16

Are you blaming your job, your spouse, your finances, or something else that is outside of your control for making you stuck? If you are, I have some tough news for you, friend: Changing a circumstance without doing the real work will only lead to the same frustration in a new surrounding. Join me today as I share how to question the thoughts that are keeping you stuck and why, no matter what you think about yourself, you're right. Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/

Massive action is absolutely necessary to get big results but few people actually take it. Why?  Because they're missing the key elements of propelling that action: commitment, willpower, and discipline. This week, I show you how to lock in your compelling reason for why you're working so hard for your dreams, where willpower fits in, and how you can be a disciplined person... even if you don't think you can. Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/14

Are you living the life you've always dreamt of? Are you waiting to have what you truly want in life? Do you even know what that is? This week, I highlight the three emotions that truly hold us back in our decision-making and how you can overcome them. Questioning what you believe to be true is the key to achieving your dreams, and I provide a set of questions you can ask yourself to do this! Get full show notes and more information here: https://tobifairley.com/13