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SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford

Summary: Welcome to SelfWork! Do you have things in your life you want to change, but you struggle to know how? If you're struggling with depression or anxiety, Dr. Margaret has a compassionate, common-sense approach to therapy and mental health treatment, and uses her twenty years of experience to guide you in making the changes you want. No psychological jargon here! Rather, she uses a solution-oriented approach to depression or anxiety - what Dr. Margaret calls, "What you can do about it." And she describes the links between perfectionism and depression in her upcoming book, Perfectly Hidden Depression. Subscribe today!

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  • Artist: Dr. Margaret Rutherford Compassionate Common-Sense Therapy
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Podcasts:

 038 SelfWork: Kindness Matters | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 22:42

“When I sat down to record this morning, I could only think of the many tragedies, caused by humans and by nature, that have been occurring for the last few weeks and months. I felt paralyzed. What did what I might have to say matter? Then I remembered a stranger’s kindness, and I smiled.” Dr. Margaret tells […]

 037 SelfWork: How To Parent Well Together | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 21:56

Parenting. It’s hectic, Complicated. Fatiguing. Wonderful. Meaningful. Frightening. One would think that it would be easier with two people doing it, and it is in many ways. But you can get in battles about everything from who’s the better parent to who cares the most to who is the better disciplinarian. Dr. Margaret offers four […]

 037 SelfWork: How To Parent Well Together | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 21:56

Parenting. It’s hectic, Complicated. Fatiguing. Wonderful. Meaningful. Frightening. One would think that it would be easier with two people doing it, and it is in many ways. But you can get in battles about everything from who’s the better parent to who cares the most to who is the better disciplinarian. Dr. Margaret offers four […]

 036 SelfWork: The Shame No One Talks About After Sexual Abuse | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 19:12

In today’s podcast, Dr. Margaret talks about a certain type of shame that’s rarely revealed after sexual abuse. What is that shame? It’s the result of your body responding with arousal during the actual abuse itself. What’s vital to understand is that arousal doesn’t reflect consent — not in any way. Dr. Margaret describes conditions […]

 036 SelfWork: The Shame No One Talks About After Sexual Abuse | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 19:12

In today’s podcast, Dr. Margaret talks about a certain type of shame that’s rarely revealed after sexual abuse. What is that shame? It’s the result of your body responding with arousal during the actual abuse itself. What’s vital to understand is that arousal doesn’t reflect consent — not in any way. Dr. Margaret describes conditions […]

 035 SelfWork: Four Steps To Heal From Parental Abuse | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 20:01

No one has a “say” in the kind of parents we had. Some are lucky, and have parents who loved them deeply and cared for them in a healthy way. Many are not so lucky, and have to deal with very painful memories, the emotions that stem from them, and how their present life may […]

 035 SelfWork: Four Steps To Heal From Parental Abuse | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 20:01

No one has a “say” in the kind of parents we had. Some are lucky, and have parents who loved them deeply and cared for them in a healthy way. Many are not so lucky, and have to deal with very painful memories, the emotions that stem from them, and how their present life may […]

 034 SelfWork : Divorce. How To “Get Along For The Kids’ Sake” | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 19:30

There is a huge difference between divorce with children, and divorce without children. Dr. Margaret offers nine practical and do-able choices to make when living out your divorced life, with shared children. “Getting along for the children’s sake” can lead to your children to survive the divorce and thrive in their lives, whereas a continuation […]

 034 SelfWork : Divorce. How To “Get Along For The Kids’ Sake” | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 19:30

There is a huge difference between divorce with children, and divorce without children. Dr. Margaret offers nine practical and do-able choices to make when living out your divorced life, with shared children. “Getting along for the children’s sake” can lead to your children to survive the divorce and thrive in their lives, whereas a continuation […]

 033 SelfWork: How Self-Esteem And Self-Acceptance Work Together, Even With Depression | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 18:19

What is the relationship between self-esteem and self-acceptance? And how do you manage to hang on to either when you’re experiencing depression? Dr. Margaret gives you her perspective, with the offering that no one fact about you defines you as a person. She also describes the difference between resignation and acceptance, and how the latter […]

 033 SelfWork: How Self-Esteem And Self-Acceptance Work Together, Even With Depression | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 18:19

What is the relationship between self-esteem and self-acceptance? And how do you manage to hang on to either when you’re experiencing depression? Dr. Margaret gives you her perspective, with the offering that no one fact about you defines you as a person. She also describes the difference between resignation and acceptance, and how the latter […]

 032 SelfWork: The Nine Paths To Perfectly Hidden Depression | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 21:14

Hiding or detaching temporarily from emotional pain is a healthy skill. If you have something hurtful happen, but you need to “get your act together” in order to work, or watch children, then knowing you can do that rather than being besieged by your pain, reflects emotional competence. However, people with Perfectly Hidden Depression have […]

 032 SelfWork: The Nine Paths To Perfectly Hidden Depression | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 21:14

Hiding or detaching temporarily from emotional pain is a healthy skill. If you have something hurtful happen, but you need to “get your act together” in order to work, or watch children, then knowing you can do that rather than being besieged by your pain, reflects emotional competence. However, people with Perfectly Hidden Depression have […]

 031 SelfWork: Hiding Depression And Perfectly Hidden Depression – Is There A Difference? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

The Beck Depression Inventory has been used to identify depression for many years. But it will miss those with Perfectly Hidden Depression, due to the fact that they’d rarely allow themselves to reveal their pain, not even to a computer. Even people with more moderate classic depression may discount or deny their symptoms — no […]

 031 SelfWork: Hiding Depression And Perfectly Hidden Depression – Is There A Difference? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: Unknown

The Beck Depression Inventory has been used to identify depression for many years. But it will miss those with Perfectly Hidden Depression, due to the fact that they’d rarely allow themselves to reveal their pain, not even to a computer. Even people with more moderate classic depression may discount or deny their symptoms — no […]

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