DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast)

Chase Amante's dating lifestyle today, his marriage, past relationships and perspective on relationships. The advantages and disadvantages of marriage and different ideas on how beneficial or not it can be for relationships. Why is it important to get women chasing you? What does it do for you in terms of attracting women? How investment works: Emotional feelings to thoughts to actions. "Auto rejection" a reaction that you need to avoid with women which is very common. How to modify the way you speak to increase your presence and the impact you make on people. Preparation - the main factor stopping men from getting good who have been putting a lot of energy and effort into getting better with women for 5 years with little progress. "As soon as you see an opening you have to push and move things forward." Asking for compliance from women: Examples of how to do it and avoiding overdoing it. "Deep Diving": A compliance heavy technique for use in conversation that also builds intimacy. The neurological rule that allows you to get someone to feel like they know very quickly. The top 3 recommendations from Chase Amante for men to get better with women on the Fasttrack.

In this episode Chase Amante gives advice on: - Chase Amante's dating lifestyle today, his marriage, past relationships and perspective on relationships. - The advantages and disadvantages of marriage and different ideas on how beneficial or not it can be for relationships. - Why is it important to get women chasing you? What does it do for you in terms of attracting women? - How investment works: Emotional feelings to thoughts to actions. - "Auto rejection" a reaction that you need to avoid with women which is very common. - How to modify the way you speak to increase your presence and the impact you make on people. - Preparation - the main factor stopping men from getting good who have been putting a lot of energy and effort into getting better with women for 5 years with little progress. - "As soon as you see an opening you have to push and move things forward." - Asking for compliance from women: Examples of how to do it and avoiding overdoing it. - "Deep Diving": A compliance heavy technique for use in conversation that also builds intimacy. - The neurological rule that allows you to get someone to feel like they know very quickly. - The top 3 recommendations from Chase Amante for men to get better with women on the Fasttrack. GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

What is the area of research of lookism and physical attractiveness. The surprisingly young age at which we begin to get judged and affected by our physical appearance (literally at day 1). The prevalence of judgement on looks stretching across every area of society from politics, law, and careers to dating and relationships. Personality and confidence count: How they relate to the impression you make with people. How the lives of men and women are impacted differently by their physical attractiveness. Growing trend: Women judging men more on physical attractiveness and men working on this part of them increasingly to improve it. How a woman's monthly fertility cycle changes what type of men she is attracted to and how important 'looks' are in her decision. Important point: The longer you know someone and the more they know about you, the higher your physical attractiveness will appear to them. The central importance of facial features to your looks. Breaking it down into lips, nose, dimensions of face, eyes, specific wrinkles, eyes, hair and complexion. The role of testosterone for men in forming your facial features - and how boosting it can start changing and improving your facial features within days. Some of the upgrades that improve our physical attractiveness: dentistry, plastic surgery, fitness (and pot bellies) and health. The impact of age on your attractiveness: Specific areas that change and reduce your attractiveness as you age. How what women do (cosmetics, dress, plastic surgery) translates into big consequences in terms of how likely men are to choose her as a mate. Plastic surgery paradox: Artificial modification of your appearance through plastic surgery does enhance your attractiveness - but only if people don't know you've done it. The growing trend of genital rejuvenation in plastic surgery for women and men - Gordon Patzer's views on it. The specific areas you can influence to improve your attractiveness: height, education and status, personality, physical fitness, grooming and fashion. Experience and satisfaction: As we become more experienced the importance of our 'looks' bias declines and we get more conscious choice on which women we select and are attracted to.

In this episode Dr. Gordon Patzer gives advice on: - What is the area of research of lookism and physical attractiveness. - The surprisingly young age at which we begin to get judged and affected by our physical appearance (literally at day 1). - The prevalence of judgement on looks stretching across every area of society from politics, law, and careers to dating and relationships. - Personality and confidence count: How they relate to the impression you make with people. - How the lives of men and women are impacted differently by their physical attractiveness. - Growing trend: Women judging men more on physical attractiveness and men working on this part of them increasingly to improve it. - How a woman's monthly fertility cycle changes what type of men she is attracted to and how important 'looks' are in her decision. - Important point: The longer you know someone and the more they know about you, the higher your physical attractiveness will appear to them. - The central importance of facial features to your looks. Breaking it down into lips, nose, dimensions of face, eyes, specific wrinkles, eyes, hair and complexion. - The role of testosterone for men in forming your facial features - and how boosting it can start changing and improving your facial features within days. - Some of the upgrades that improve our physical attractiveness: dentistry, plastic surgery, fitness (and pot bellies) and health. - The impact of age on your attractiveness: Specific areas that change and reduce your attractiveness as you age. - How what women do (cosmetics, dress, plastic surgery) translates into big consequences in terms of how likely men are to choose her as a mate. - Plastic surgery paradox: Artificial modification of your appearance through plastic surgery does enhance your attractiveness - but only if people don't know you've done it. - The growing trend of genital rejuvenation in plastic surgery for women and men - GordonGET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

Rats, the coolidge effect and having sex literally to the point of death from exhaustion. The stimulatory effects of novelty (e.g. new women) and the related neurotransmitter dopamine. Drug addiction, novelty addiction and Internet Porn addiction result from the same mechanism. "Honey Moon Neurochemistry" can last up to 2 years (AKA the passion at the beginning at the relationship). The list of negative symptoms related to Internet Porn use. How to recognize an Internet Porn addiction you have by assessing signs and how often you're using it. How to test yourself for an Internet Porn addiction and assess how you're getting back to normal. The big upswing in use of Internet Porn starting rom the age of 12 and 13 years. Specific actions that are related to Internet Porn use such as greater promiscuity and lack of condom use. Masturbation isn't the problem, it's the stimulation given to the brain by high-speed Internet porn video. The link between internet porn use and anxiety and lack of self confidence. Desensitization of your life including TV, experiences and food taste. How addictions can shrink your frontal cortex and reduce your willpower and motivation (that's scary stuff if you want to make the most out of life right there). How objectification of women is driven naturally by porn and can lead to difficulties in the field approaching women. The Reboot: How to cut the Internet Porn and retrain your brain to respond to normal stimulation again. Flatlining: What it is, why it happens, when it happens and how long it lasts.

In this episode Gary Wilson gives advice on: - Rats, the coolidge effect and having sex literally to the point of death from exhaustion. - The stimulatory effects of novelty (e.g. new women) and the related neurotransmitter dopamine. - Drug addiction, novelty addiction and Internet Porn addiction result from the same mechanism. - "Honey Moon Neurochemistry" can last up to 2 years (AKA the passion at the beginning at the relationship). - The list of negative symptoms related to Internet Porn use. - How to recognize an Internet Porn addiction you have by assessing signs and how often you're using it. - How to test yourself for an Internet Porn addiction and assess how you're getting back to normal. - The big upswing in use of Internet Porn starting rom the age of 12 and 13 years. - Specific actions that are related to Internet Porn use such as greater promiscuity and lack of condom use. - Masturbation isn't the problem, it's the stimulation given to the brain by high-speed Internet porn video. - The link between internet porn use and anxiety and lack of self confidence. - Desensitization of your life including TV, experiences and food taste. - How addictions can shrink your frontal cortex and reduce your willpower and motivation (that's scary stuff if you want to make the most out of life right there). - How objectification of women is driven naturally by porn and can lead to difficulties in the field approaching women. - The Reboot: How to cut the Internet Porn and retrain your brain to respond to normal stimulation again. - Flatlining: What it is, why it happens, when it happens and how long it lasts. - GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

Marni's personal dating experience, being married and when the relationship learning curve stops. Does the often quoted Pickup Artist saying "Women are driven by emotions, men are driven by logic." always hold true? How well does it reflect reality? The spectrum of emotional vs. logic decision making for both men and women. How women and men seek out advice differently and how as a result you have to modify your communication approach with them. Women tend to have an 'ideal' way that they want to see themselves and prefer to think about it . Getting more effective dating advice from women by talking about situations and being more descriptive. Simple ways to look at how women are different and how this can help you with your approach and communication. The observation game taken from the film "Date Night" that you can make use of when you're out with women. How having a stroke motivated Marni to break out from her socially awkward self to become the confident person she always wanted to be (Hint: Relevant to everyone, what can you leverage to take responsibility for making your life happen?). Exploring the pickup artist concepts of "Shit Tests" and Women testing you from a female perspective. The friend zone should really be called the fake boyfriend zone. How if you miss the 'window of opportunity' with a girl you can fall into a friends-only relationship. How do women feel about men not paying for dinner and drinks or wanting to go 'dutch' ? Marni Kinrys' top 3 recommendations for getting better results as fast as possible.

In this episode Marni Kinrys gives advice on: - Marni's personal dating experience, being married and when the relationship learning curve stops. - - Does the often quoted Pickup Artist saying "Women are driven by emotions, men are driven by logic." always hold true? How well does it reflect reality? - The spectrum of emotional vs. logic decision making for both men and women. - How women and men seek out advice differently and how as a result you have to modify your communication approach with them. - Women tend to have an 'ideal' way that they want to see themselves and prefer to think about it . - Getting more effective dating advice from women by talking about situations and being more descriptive. - Simple ways to look at how women are different and how this can help you with your approach and communication. - The observation game taken from the film "Date Night" that you can make use of when you're out with women. - How having a stroke motivated Marni to break out from her socially awkward self to become the confident person she always wanted to be (Hint: Relevant to everyone, what can you leverage to take responsibility for making your life happen?). - Exploring the pickup artist concepts of "Shit Tests" and Women testing you from a female perspective. - The friend zone should really be called the fake boyfriend zone. - How if you miss the 'window of opportunity' with a girl you can fall into a friends-only relationship. - How do women feel about men not paying for dinner and drinks or wanting to go 'dutch' ? - Marni Kinrys' top 3 recommendations for getting better results as fast as possible. - GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

The 5 reasons men run out of things to say and how to fix them. The few situations where Sinn still uses routines with women today. How Jon starts conversations with women - a few simple examples and how he calibrates to different girls. Trying to do too much or getting too fancy gets you into trouble. The idea of the "perfect pickup" is made up. It doesn't exist. How to decide if a technique isn't working for you and it's time to ditch it and try something new. Routines aren't ideal, but they also aren't 'all bad'. Places where routines are most useful. Case study: A step by step walkthrough of a conversation from starting it, to talking and to getting her engaged and attracted. Jon Sinn's top 3 recommendations on what men should do to improve their results with women ASAP. Win a Copy of the Effortless Conversation System As I said in the podcast we'll be giving away 3 copies of Effortless Conversation System to help some of you get your "Conversation Skills" upgraded. To qualify all you have to do is leave a comment below telling me: what you are going to do or what you already did this WEEK to improve your dating lifestyle and results. I'll select the winner myself and email you to get your copy of Effortless Conversation System to you. Good luck! I liked this quote from today's interview with Jon Sinn. It gets the point across that this stuff isn't super complicated or hard, and that you can make things over complicated if you start trying to do everything at a level of perfection that doesn't exist. It isn't necessary to get results.

In this episode Jon Sinn (Jonathan Lee) gives advice on: - The 5 reasons men run out of things to say and how to fix them. - The few situations where Sinn still uses routines with women today. - How Jon starts conversations with women - a few simple examples and how he calibrates to different girls. - Trying to do too much or getting too fancy gets you into trouble. - The idea of the "perfect pickup" is made up. It doesn't exist. - How to decide if a technique isn't working for you and it's time to ditch it and try something new. - Routines aren't ideal, but they also aren't 'all bad'. Places where routines are most useful. - Case study: A step by step walkthrough of a conversation from starting it, to talking and to getting her engaged and attracted. - Jon Sinn's top 3 recommendations on what men should do to improve their results with women ASAP. - - Win a Copy of the Effortless Conversation System - As I said in the podcast we'll be giving away 3 copies of Effortless Conversation System to help some of you get your "Conversation Skills" upgraded. - - To qualify all you have to do is leave a comment below telling me: what you are going to do or what you already did this WEEK to improve your dating lifestyle and results. - - I'll select the winner myself and email you to get your copy of Effortless Conversation System to you. Good luck! - I liked this quote from today's interview with Jon Sinn. - It gets the point across that this stuff isn't super complicated or hard, and that you can make things over complicated if you start trying to do everything at a level of perfection that doesn't exist. It isn't necessary to get results. GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

Examples of typical unhealthy personal boundaries in men looking to get better with women. An example of poor boundaries: getting upset with someone else for their beliefs or ideas. Identifying women with low self esteem and as a result you are less likely to have a solid healthy relationships wtih. An example of using appropriate boundaries as a tool when you break up with a girl or she breaks up with you. The typical poor boundaries issues men have with their parents. How poor boundaries with your parents related to your career and studies can give you insights into potential problems you have with boundaries in your dating and relationships. Honest living builds self-esteem and boundaries. The importance of sticking to your self-improvement goals (all of them) to attracting women. The essence of vulnerability and using it to build your self esteem. Steps you should take to OWN your dating life and drive it forward. How going out to get reference experiences makes the journey to success easier. Examples of where you need to enforce personal boundaries in dates (many men don't do this). How boundaries are a pre-requisite for maintaining open relationships or dating multiple women. Dissecting a case study of personal boundaries where a woman you are dating is disrespecting you (not respecting your boundaries) and how to deal with it. I took this quote from Mark Manson in the interview. It's about how doing things for the wrong reasons will vastly slow your learning curve down and limit your results.

In this episode Mark Manson (Entropy) gives advice on: - Examples of typical unhealthy personal boundaries in men looking to get better with women. - - - An example of poor boundaries: getting upset with someone else for their beliefs or ideas. - - Identifying women with low self esteem and as a result you are less likely to have a solid healthy relationships wtih. - - An example of using appropriate boundaries as a tool when you break up with a girl or she breaks up with you. - - The typical poor boundaries issues men have with their parents. - - How poor boundaries with your parents related to your career and studies can give you insights into potential problems you have with boundaries in your dating and relationships. - - Honest living builds self-esteem and boundaries. - - The importance of sticking to your self-improvement goals (all of them) to attracting women. - - The essence of vulnerability and using it to build your self esteem. - - Steps you should take to OWN your dating life and drive it forward. - - How going out to get reference experiences makes the journey to success easier. - - Examples of where you need to enforce personal boundaries in dates (many men don't do this). - - How boundaries are a pre-requisite for maintaining open relationships or dating multiple women. - - Dissecting a case study of personal boundaries where a woman you are dating is disrespecting you (not respecting your boundaries) and how to deal with it. - - - I took this quote from Mark Manson in the interview. It's about how doing things for the wrong reasons will vastly slow your learning curve down and limit your resultGET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

Mark's current lifestyle as a Digital Nomad, how that has changed his 'dating lifestyle' and how he ended up with a serious girlfriend in Brazil. What does this definition of Personal Boundaries mean? "Healthy Personal Boundaries = Taking responsibility for your own actions and emotions, while NOT taking responsibility for the actions or emotions of others." Examples of typical unhealthy personal boundaries in men looking to get better with women. What the connection between self esteem, neediness and personal boundaries is. Learn more about your inner game from your personal boundaries. How the strength of your personal boundaries determines in part your attractiveness to women. Personal boundaries when you are in a relationship with a woman: where and how to establish them. Heavy banter, sassy and feisty girls and the link with passion and unstable relationships. The long term impact on relationships of dominance and control and where it comes from. This is Part 1 of a two part interview with Mark Manson talking about Personal Boundaries and their implications for inner game, attracting women and healthy relationships. In podcast episode #37 we get into more practicalities of putting boundaries into practice and some case studies in relationships. I pulled this quote out from something Mark said in the interview. It's simple and an easy reminder to keep in mind.

In this episode Mark Manson (Entropy) gives advice on: - Mark's current lifestyle as a Digital Nomad, how that has changed his 'dating lifestyle' and how he ended up with a serious girlfriend in Brazil. - What does this definition of Personal Boundaries mean? "Healthy Personal Boundaries = Taking responsibility for your own actions and emotions, while NOT taking responsibility for the actions or emotions of others." - Examples of typical unhealthy personal boundaries in men looking to get better with women. - What the connection between self esteem, neediness and personal boundaries is. Learn more about your inner game from your personal boundaries. - How the strength of your personal boundaries determines in part your attractiveness to women. - Personal boundaries when you are in a relationship with a woman: where and how to establish them. - Heavy banter, sassy and feisty girls and the link with passion and unstable relationships. - The long term impact on relationships of dominance and control and where it comes from. - - This is Part 1 of a two part interview with Mark Manson talking about Personal Boundaries and their implications for inner game, attracting women and healthy relationships. In podcast episode #37 we get into more practicalities of putting boundaries into practice and some case studies in relationships. - - I pulled this quote out from something Mark said in the interview. It's simple and an easy reminder to keep in minGET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

Marcus' history and lifestyle with women before and after working as a porn actor and how he end up sleeping with over 1,400 women. Porn star sex vs. real life 'quality' sex - how do they compare? Are they the same or different? What you see a lot in porn films but shouldn't try out in real life. The squirting orgasm and how different women have different squirting abilities and different reactions to it. Myth Busting: Ejaculatory squirting orgasms in porno movies - fake or real? How long does a porn star have to last for shooting porn scenes. Myth busting: How long do you need to last in bed to make a lasting impression on a woman? Marcus London's top 3 recommendations for men to improve their dating and sex lifestyle as fast as possible from scratch.