DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast)

Question 1. (from Richard) "Love what you do and really respect your work. Where there's so much random information and 'guru's' it's great to have an independent, trustable source. Here's my question: I suspect as more guys like myself discover this, there will be more demand for techniques that work for older guys. I look like I'm 40 something and am having difficulty finding information relevant to the older guy." (1:00). The Answers Are the standard techniques and principles taught to young men also relevant for older men? (1:30). The age of some of the senior dating coaches and pick up artists and how it works for them today (3:00). If you're older there are differences in lifestyle that you should go with. How to fit dating and pick up into your lifestyle as an older man with different tastes and habits.(3:30). Question 2. (from Ellieson) "What does it mean when you are chatting with a girl online and she suddenly goes offline, but then returns online a few minutes latter. However, she never futhered the chat." (5:00). The Answers If you just met the girl in question online and have no previous relationship or connection with her what to do (6:40). Should you be talking to her online at all? What you need to do when you first meet her so that this situation doesn't come up (7:15). The 80/20 rule of what you should be thinking about and focusing your attention on when talking to women (8:00). The activities you need to practice and invest your time in instead of worrying about the details of online chat or texting conversations (9:30). A step by step break down of how to approach, attract and set up dates with women from The Sneak (10:00). Question 3. (from Stephen) "How do you break-up with a girl after dating her 6 -7 months?" (13:15). The Answers How to start a relationship with the right 'relationship type' when you first meet her during the seduction (13:30). Some tips when you got very close with a girl and you want to break up with her as smooth as possible (15:00). The dangers of 'back and forth' relationships and what it means to you as a man (16:00). Evolve's personal story about a break up and how they used 'space in the relationship' to bring it to a healthy and logical end (16:45). The more experienced you are in dating skills the further you look ahead in what you are doing and you act differently - anecdotes from Evolve and Angel (17:30). Problems with feeling guilty about ending the relationship and how to deal with them in a healthy and strong way (20:00). Question 4. (from Cole) "My question is how do I understand women and know them better than myself" (21:15) The Answers Demonstration of an exercise you can use to know how well you understand yourself(22:30). How getting women to understand who you are is an important part of the seduction (27:00). How to learn about how women work after you have first learned to understand yourself (28:00). How much time you should spend studying vs. how much time you should spend gaining experience in the field (29:00). Final Discussion The top 3 things The Sneak and Evolve recommend guys do to get good with women as fast as possible (30:00). Links to Coaches, Companies and Products Mentioned in the Podcast David Deida Zan Perrion The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene Stylelife Academy

In this episode Evolve gives advice on: - - - - Are the standard techniques and principles taught to young men also relevant for older men? (1:30). - The age of some of the senior dating coaches and pick up artists and how it works for them today (3:00). - If you're older there are differences in lifestyle that you should go with. How to fit dating and pick up into your lifestyle as an older man with different tastes and habits.(3:30). - - - - - - If you just met the girl in question online and have no previous relationship or connection with her what to do (6:40). - Should you be talking to her online at all? What you need to do when you first meet her so that this situation doesn't come up (7:15). - The 80/20 rule of what you should be thinking about and focusing your attention on when talking to women (8:00). - The activities you need to practice and invest your time in instead of worrying about the details of online chat or texting conversations (9:30). - A step by step break down of how to approach, attract and set up dates with women from The Sneak (10:00). - - - - - - - How to start a relationship with the right 'relationship type' when you first meet her during the seduction (13:30). - Some tips when you got very close with a girl and you want to break up with her as smooth as possible (15:00). - The dangers of 'back and forth' relationships and what it means to you as a man (16:00). - Evolve's personal story about a break up and how they used 'space in the relationship' to bring it to a healthy and logical end (16:45). - The more experienced you are in dating skills the further you look ahead in what you are doing and you act differently - anecdotes from Evolve and Angel (17:30). - Problems with feeling guilty about ending the relationship and how to deal with them in a healthy GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

"Approach Anxiety" is the No.1 reason men don't get success with women (What 7 years of coaching men to meet women showed me) (1:30). How to know what you need to study first is - basic fundamentals or more specific techniques? (4:08). Is Approach Anxiety the same for all men? Do all men have it? Do they have it the same way and have to fix it the same way? (6:30). How do you know that Approach Anxiety is the problem you have to focus to get better results? The hidden barrier to success (9:00). Approach Anxiety is FEAR. Understand how similar it is to other fears in your life in areas such as business, social, career and health (10:15). Using daytime approaching with steady steps to kill your approach anxiety in all situations and the problems men face when they try to get over approach anxiety at night in bars and clubs (12:50). How using new situations and places for your practice field works much better than using places and situations you know (14:30). How to build comfort in specific situations and places so that approach anxiety gradually fades away and disappears (16:00). Take consistency extremely seriously - it is essential to making progress (17:00). Living in smaller towns where you meet the same people a lot and how it can affect you (19:00). A story from the field: A recent potentially 'embarrassing' moment Eric Disco experienced approaching women (21:00). Overcoming typical embarrassing mistakes made when approaching women and not letting it increase your anxiety levels (22:30). Can you use negative emotions like anger to get past your approach anxiety? (23:00). An example of Angel Donovan's approach to overcoming Approach Anxiety and Eric Disco explaining how this can be useful or hurtful to other men trying to overcome their fear and nervousness of approaching women (24:30). Avoiding the same thought process and getting stuck in a loop of constantly dragging yourself down (27:30). Tackling the negative feelings you get when you try to approach or really approach women so they get processed healthily and don't affect your future attempts to approach women(29:00). Summary of Eric Disco's approach to killing off approach anxiety (30:00). How a case study from neuroscience - the Chinese conversion of U.S. military into communist advocates - shows you the effective approach to beating your fears (33:00). A brief introduction into exposure therapy and using it to overcome any fear (not just approaching and talking to women) (37:00). Every improvement you make to yourself relates to the same rule of 'stress' and 'recovery'. Steady exposure. (39:00). You are drawn and attracted to short term rewards. But aiming for the long term rewards is what actually gets the results (41:00). Good marketing is motivational - Marketing has a role in helping people to get motivated to overcome their fears such as approach anxiety, and taking on the challenge of improving their life in general (42:00). She's Six Steps Away reviewed by Jackson Hunter was awarded the Dating Skills Editor's Choice award as best product to help you beat approach anxiety and get good at approaching women (43:00). Not only does everyone get Approach Anxiety? Is it a normal challenge that everyone has to deal with and Why you ACTUALLY need it to become successful with women (43:00).

In this episode Eric Disco gives advice on: - "Approach Anxiety" is the No.1 reason men don't get success with women (What 7 years of coaching men to meet women showed me) (1:30). - How to know what you need to study first is - basic fundamentals or more specific techniques? (4:08). - Is Approach Anxiety the same for all men? Do all men have it? Do they have it the same way and have to fix it the same way? (6:30). - How do you know that Approach Anxiety is the problem you have to focus to get better results? The hidden barrier to success (9:00). - Approach Anxiety is FEAR. Understand how similar it is to other fears in your life in areas such as business, social, career and health (10:15). - Using daytime approaching with steady steps to kill your approach anxiety in all situations and the problems men face when they try to get over approach anxiety at night in bars and clubs (12:50). - How using new situations and places for your practice field works much better than using places and situations you know (14:30). - How to build comfort in specific situations and places so that approach anxiety gradually fades away and disappears (16:00). - Take consistency extremely seriously - it is essential to making progress (17:00). - Living in smaller towns where you meet the same people a lot and how it can affect you (19:00). - A story from the field: A recent potentially 'embarrassing' moment Eric Disco experienced approaching women (21:00). - Overcoming typical embarrassing mistakes made when approaching women and not letting it increase your anxiety levels (22:30). - Can you use negative emotions like anger to get past your approach anxiety? (23:00). - An example of Angel Donovan's approach to overcoming Approach Anxiety and Eric Disco explaining how this can be useful or hurtful to other men trying to overcome their fear and nervousness of approaching women (24:30). - Avoiding the same thought process and getting sGET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

In this interview with DJ Fuji we talk about how "flashy" techniques may look exciting, but often don't deliver results. For anyone struggling with the "learning process" this is a great interview to reset your ideas of what you should be focusing on learning. What are the 'fundamental social skills' you need to attract and date the women you are interested in. (1:20). How to know what you need to study first is - basic fundamentals or more specific techniques? (3:48). Men take between 6 months and 3 years to become successful with women. How to take the 6 month shortcut (5:00). Most men who start studying this drop out. How much drive does it require to become the 'succesful guy' with women? (7:30). Why the fact that most men drop out is actually the best possible situation for you and how to judge your 'drive' based on your fitness and career life (8:30). Have you hit bottom? Have you gone through enough pain to get the drive to become the best? Anecdotal evidence about the men who get most successful studying dating and social skills (9:30). The value of pain - how avoiding pain can sabotage your success and the ideal way to study "getting better with women" (11:10). Are you a pain or pleasure responder? What will keep you on the ball to get your dating life fixed permanently? (13:10). The importance of accountability and how to 'hack your life' to reinforce accountability (15:20). A fatal mistake - losing sight of the 'right goal' or not setting the right goal. Men who succeed focus on... (17:00). The very first basic skills you should focus on mastering first (18:20). You can't fool women - you have to BE attractive. But how? (19:00). "Gym Talk". What really can make a difference to the women you attract from improving your health and fitness (22:00). A "Building Resources" perspective on how to attract more women and live a better life (22:00). Talking about "Self Discipline". Is it essential to getting results? How to use it? Do you have to be militant with yourself? (25:00). The three big things DJ Fuji recommends you start with to get results quickly (28:30).

In this episode DJ Fuji gives advice on:In this interview with DJ Fuji we talk about how "flashy" techniques may look exciting, but often don't deliver results. For anyone struggling with the "learning process" this is a great interview to reset your ideas of what you should be focusing on learning. - - What are the 'fundamental social skills' you need to attract and date the women you are interested in. (1:20). - How to know what you need to study first is - basic fundamentals or more specific techniques? (3:48). - Men take between 6 months and 3 years to become successful with women. How to take the 6 month shortcut (5:00). - Most men who start studying this drop out. How much drive do you need to become the successful guy with women? (7:30). - Why it's great for you that most men drop out and how to judge your 'drive' based on your fitness and career life (8:30). - Have you hit bottom? Have you gone through enough pain to get the drive to become the best? Anecdotal evidence about the men who get most successful studying dating and social skills (9:30). - The value of pain - how avoiding pain can sabotage your success and the ideal way to study "getting better with women" (11:10). - Are you a pain or pleasure responder? What will keep you on the ball to get your dating life fixed permanently? (13:10). - The importance of accountability and how to 'hack your life' to reinforce accountability (15:20). - A fatal mistake - losing sight of the 'right goal' or not setting the right goal. Men who succeed focus on... (17:00). - The very first basic skills you should focus on mastering first (18:20). - You can't fool women - you have to BE attractive. But how? (19:00). - "Gym Talk". What really can make a difference to the women you attract from improving your health and fitness (22:00). - A "Building Resources" perspective on how to attract more women and live a better life (22:00). - Talking about "Self DiscipliGET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

Typical things that men are embarrassed about that hold them back in dating and attracting women (3:30). A recent embarrassing story from Hypnotica himself (5:00). Getting tension out of your body and getting back into the flow (7:00). Everyone has to warm up before approaching - even the top dating gurus (8:10). Shifting perspective with the 'Pretty Clown' view to women (10:25). Helpful experiences that improve your dating skills - and how going to extremes helps you get better faster (13:10). It's a numbers game for everyone - not even the top dating gurus get better than a 1 in 10 hit rate (17:00). Success is hanging out with who you want when you want (19:10). Finding your own 'dating life' balance to find contentment (20:00). Using a combined scale of looks and personality to be more realistic and act congruently (21:00). Different phases of life and using experience to find your unique balance point (24:00). How much pain will you need to go through to get real success and content with women? How to get over it? (28:00). Keeping the 'magic' in a relationship going vs. finding your balance point (30:00). Who you should look to to get experience that will help you improve and evolve as you get older (32:00). Who you should look to to get experience that will help you improve and evolve as you get older (32:00).

In this episode Hypnotica gives advice on: - Typical things that men are embarrassed about that hold them back in dating and attracting women (3:30). - A recent embarrassing story from Hypnotica himself (5:00). - Getting tension out of your body and getting back into the flow (7:00). - Everyone has to warm up before approaching - even the top dating gurus (8:10). - Shifting perspective with the 'Pretty Clown' view to women (10:25). - Helpful experiences that improve your dating skills - and how going to extremes helps you get better faster (13:10). - It's a numbers game for everyone - not even the top dating gurus get better than a 1 in 10 hit rate (17:00). - Success is hanging out with who you want when you want (19:10). - Finding your own 'dating life' balance to find contentment (20:00). - Using a combined scale of looks and personality to be more realistic and act congruently (21:00). - Different phases of life and using experience to find your unique balance point (24:00). - How much pain will you need to go through to get real success and content with women? How to get over it? (28:00). - Keeping the 'magic' in a relationship going vs. finding your balance point (30:00). - Who you should look to to get experience that will help you improve and evolve as you get older (32:00). GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

The first step to getting a dating life that makes you 'happier' (4:00). Avoiding wasting time or getting your goals hijacked (7:30). Changing beliefs as a key step to results (11:00). From approach anxiety to approach addiction (20:00). Going beyond "superficial skills" to get satisfying results (22:00). What I spent too much time learning and practicing that didn't work (26:40). The simple skills that have given me the most success (28:00). How using sophisticated techniques can confuse the women who like you and ruin a date (35:00).

In this episode Jackson Hunter gives advice on: - The first step to getting a dating life that makes you 'happier' (4:00). - Avoiding wasting time or getting your goals hijacked (7:30). - Changing beliefs as a key step to results (11:00). - From approach anxiety to approach addiction (20:00). - Going beyond "superficial skills" to get satisfying results (22:00). - What I spent too much time learning and practicing that didn't work (26:40). - The simple skills that have given me the most success (28:00). - How using sophisticated techniques can confuse the women who like you and ruin a date (35:00). GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

The common ways we misread women and what they are thinking.(00:54). The situations where we think we've been rejected by women - but we actually haven't. (5:10). How to learn how to understand women better - it's not easy (7:00). The advantages and disadvantages of the 'war psychology' for attracting women and the other path (11:00). The importance of 'showing up' - the one sure way to learn to improve over time. The cloud of horny needyness - what it is, how it sabotages your happiness and a less known link with Napoleon Hill's work on the psychology of success. (19:00). The real truth of men - the journey you have to take to get to the point where things are much better (and why self-help books aren't going to help). (21:00). Why women cheat, have affairs and leave their marriages. (24:00). The only path to long lasting relationships with women - what it is and how to get there.

In this episode Zan Perrion gives advice on: - The common ways we misread women and what they are thinking.(00:54). - - The situations where we think we've been rejected by women - but we actually haven't. (5:10). - - How to learn how to understand women better - it's not easy (7:00). - - The advantages and disadvantages of the 'war psychology' for attracting women and the other path - (11:00). - - The importance of 'showing up' - the one sure way to learn to improve over time. - - The cloud of horny needyness - what it is, how it sabotages your happiness and a less known link with Napoleon Hill's work on the psychology of success. - (19:00). - - The real truth of men - the journey you have to take to get to the point where things are much better (and why self-help books aren't going to help). - (21:00). - - Why women cheat, have affairs and leave their marriages. (24:00). - - The only path to long lasting relationships with women - what it is and how to get there. GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

Tips on approaching Japanese women to avoid getting ignored (Hint: When you approach within their social context they feel comfortable talking to you) (4:30). How to avoid a Japanese girl breaking off the interaction with you after 5 minutes (when she seemed initially interested - very common mistake). How important is learning to speak Japanese to dating Japanese women in Japan? When should you invest in learning it and when shouldn't you? (17:00). Debunking Popularized Myths: Japanese girls are either all sweet and innocent or "Yellow Cabs" (33:00). The signals Japanese girls give you to let you know they like you and want you to escalate the relationship romantically/ physically and what is considered the man's responsibility in Japan (39:00). Japanese male host, recruiters and street pick up culture and what you can learn from them. (41:00). What a Japanese girl will do if she isn't interested in you romantically (47:00). Japanese girls in foreign countries and some simple rules to follow to make meeting them easier (1:00:00).

In this episode Johnny Rocket gives advice on: - Tips on approaching Japanese women to avoid getting ignored (Hint: When you approach within their social context they feel comfortable talking to you) (4:30). - - How to avoid a Japanese girl breaking off the interaction with you after 5 minutes (when she seemed initially interested - very common mistake). - - How important is learning to speak Japanese to dating Japanese women in Japan? When should you invest in learning it and when shouldn't you? (17:00). - - Debunking Popularized Myths: Japanese girls are either all sweet and innocent or "Yellow Cabs" (33:00). - - The signals Japanese girls give you to let you know they like you and want you to escalate the relationship romantically/ physically and what is considered the man's responsibility in Japan - (39:00). - - Japanese male host, recruiters and street pick up culture and what you can learn from them. - (41:00). - - What a Japanese girl will do if she isn't interested in you romantically - (47:00). - - Japanese girls in foreign countries and some simple rules to follow to make meeting them easier - (1:00:00). GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: angel@datingskillsreview.com • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time

The difference in approach between hook ups and getting a girlfriend (1:00). The subtle uses of "qualification" to both pick up a girl and get on the path to making her your girlfriend (4:00). How to suspend a girl between hope and doubt, it's timing and it's importance to attracting women (5:25). Calibration - reading her emotional state and how she defines the way you need to communicate with her (13:00). The two types of mis-calibration that can sabotage your progress with a girl (26:00). Live phone game example: Mehow takes a phone call with a girl giving an "in-interview live" demonstration and explains the techniques he used in it afterwards (28:00 - 33:35). Thinking about girlfriend selection - based on their emotional stimulation and fun factor or more serious considerations (38:00). Getting your ex back - the most important factor (unfortunately also the most difficult) (45:00). Dating multiple women - why it's an "obligatory" step to getting high quality girls and how to set this expectation with a girl (without losing her) (47:00). Some of the inside scoop on his upcoming show on MTV merging 'live action' and insights into dating and relationships (1:04:13).