The Overwhelmed Brain show

The Overwhelmed Brain

Summary: Anxiety, depression, fears, obsession, panic, or any relationship, marriage or family issues, this show will help you achieve less stress and more happiness. Become empowered and honor yourself so that you can make decisions that are right for you. Mindfulness, compassion and being in the present moment are only components of a bigger picture. Live authentically and strengthen your emotional intelligence to avoid emotional abuse. Get to the root of emotional issues with solid relationship advice and personal help. If affirmations don't work and you're tired of being told to "think positively!", start listening to this show for a better life.

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  • Artist: Paul Colaianni
  • Copyright: ┬ęThe Overwhelmed Brain 2013 - 2019


 When a dysfunctional upbringing leaves you with nothing but broken tools | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:19:06

Your level of function or dysfunction as an adult is almost always determined by the most unhealthy or toxic people in your family growing up. When you are raised by those who couldn't love and support you as you deserved, you may have developed "broken" tools. When your emotional toolbox has a bunch of broken tools, you keep getting the results you don't want. In this episode, I help you identify those broken tools & what you can do to start utilizing them the right way, or even fixing them altogether.

 People pleasing your way to unhappiness | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:13:44

People pleasing can be exhausting. Spending time and energy trying to be what you believe other people want you to be destroys relationships and wears on your emotional well-being. In this episode, I help you understand just how damaging people pleasing can be.

 Withdrawing love and affection | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:16:47

If you withdraw your emotions or give others the silent treatment, you may not be surprised to hear that this behavior, if repeated over and over again, can drain your relationship of love, affection, and intimacy. Over time, if not addressed, the relationship can perish.

 When you just can't figure out why you're unhappy | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:11:47

What do you do when you've done a lot of work on yourself and feel like you've addressed the toughest issues in your life but still feel as if there is something missing? What's the secret to figuring out what's keeping you from feeling fulfilled? By asking yourself the right questions, you'll get the answers you need.

 Is Your Negative Self-Perception Making You Believe in Lies? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:20:53

When you find yourself throwing away compliments in place of beliefs and self-perceptions that aren't true, you stay in a self-perpetuating cycle of negativity and may never get out until you are ready to give up that sometimes you are just plain wrong. People see us differently than we see ourselves. The problem isn't when we think we're better than others perceive us, it's when we don't believe people who say good things about us.

 Increasing intimacy in your relationships and a comment on obsessive thinking | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:23:19

If you have difficulty being intimate, it might be time to stop looking at all the top ten lists on how to get closer to those you love and listen to this episode. I dive into what you need to do to increase your connection and intimacy with the people you love. During the close, I talk about a way to stop obsessive thoughts. It's a bit unusual which is why it might work.

 Should you leave your partner if the future seems bleak? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:18:46

If you think something is wrong with the relationship but aren't sure if you should leave or if you should work on things, perhaps it's time to get an answer so that you can have some closure. In this episode I help you access the resources you need to make a choice.

 Pulling out of the emotional rut | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:14:24

There is a path out of the rut of depression, feeling unworthy, unlovable, stupid, and any of a number of other thoughts and feelings that can permeate your life. If you're in that miserable, stuck state, this episode may be a path to a door that shines the light on the dark.

 When you can't let go of guilt | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 50:27

If guilt holds you back from enjoying life and making good, healthy choices for yourself, it's time to let it go and gain some forward momentum. Guilt suspends happiness and keeps you from doing what you really want to do in life. Could letting it go completely change your life? It's time to find out.

 The vulnerabiliity of full self-expression | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:07:31

One of the main disadvantages of stuffing negative emotions is that, quite simply, you are probably not happy most of the time. Walking around with so much negativity can lead to mini explosions in your relationships. The key to clearing these obstacles from your system is to express them. But how? And to whom? And will you ever feel safe doing so?

 I don't let anyone get close to me | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:12:40

How much are you willing to risk to have the greatest relationship you can have? How much emotional connection do you want? It seems the more the reward, the higher the risk. In this episode, I talk about how staying emotionally closed up or closed off takes away most of the human experience and keeps everyone you want to love at a distance.

 When your parent doesn't make you feel worthy | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:02:28

Where does your self-worth come from if it isn't instilled in you from your parents or caretakers? There is a path to a higher sense of self-worth and self-esteem. It may not be an easy path, but it does exist.

 Are you capable of emotional abuse? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:08:14

Would you know if you were being emotionally abusive? There is a question you can ask yourself to determine if you are being emotionally abusive or not. Once you know the question, you can change how you communicate with anyone.

 Learning the process of figuring out problems | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:17:31

What are the steps to figuring out the challenges that come into your life? Is there a process? What happens when someone you know is going through a particular challenge, do you know what questions to ask? Join Matthew Bivens and I as we talk about our process of discovering issues and where to dig further.

 What to do about the challenges at work | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 17:29

When work is a challenge, sometimes it takes a bit more than emotional intelligence to get through it. I talk about a podcast I discovered called Safe For Work that helps you through work challenges, along with sharing my own work challenge. Visit


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