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 Why Christians Singles Date Less Due to Anger Issues | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 48:14

It seems like everyone is so angry nowadays. Everyone seems to have a beef. Democrats hate Republicans: Republicans hate Democrats. This anger we see in the culture even permeates into the dating world. Nowadays dating profiles from sites like Tinder to Christian Mingle, often have an edge of anger to them.  Lately, I’ve read more than a few profiles from Christian singles who state on their profiles: “If you are a Trump supporter please don’t contact me!” Really? Has it really come to this? Anger and Christian Singles Dating Dysfunction Let’s be honest, nobody wants to date angry people filled with rage, bitterness or hatred. It’s just not a fun and positive experience to even be around such people.  In the internet dating world I see a lot of dissatisfaction. While some singles do come away with positive experiences, most of the thousands of  comments I receive are from  men and woman who have had horrible stories to tell. What has surprised me about these comments is the extreme views, and the level of jadedness. Responses  like “All men are sexist jerks”, “Guys just wants sex?, “All women are whack jobs”  abound. But is this reality? Today’s Christian podcast from  David Butler at Oasis talks about the roots of anger and how to deal with it. Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Sites      

 How to Find God’s Will for Your Life? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 50:42

Looking to find God’s will for your life? I think most of us would admit that we are a little confused when it comes to finding God’s will for our lives, especially when it comes to finding  Mr. Right or Ms Right. The following podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com examines, the roadblocks that keep Christian singles from discovering God’s will in our lives as both single people and married people. Hope for the Future Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Sites Home

 Christian Dating and Idol Worship: Making an Idol Out of Your Relationships | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 50:42

Christian dating and idol worship. I know what some of you are thinking: What in the world does my dating life have to do with idol worship?  Maybe nothing. But maybe everything. Idol Worship Definition An idol can be can be ANYTHING  in your life that you put before God. That includes your dating life with your boyfriend or girlfriend. It’s something that takes the glory that God alone deserves, including your time, attention, and money, and transfers it to the object of your affection.  Christian Dating and Idol Worship I ask  again. Does your Christian dating relationship amount to idol worship? Are you a Christian dater who has turned your relationship into an idol? The Bible says: You must not have any other god  before my face. You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind or an image of anything in the heavens or on the earth or in the sea. 5 You must not bow down to them or worship them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God who will not tolerate your affection for any other gods.  Exodus 20:4,5a Idol Worship Test for Christian Singles Besides listening to the below podcast on Idol worship, here are three questions to consideras you ponder whether or not you are idolizing your Christian dating relationship. Where do you run for comfort? What do you fear losing the most? What do you make the biggest sacrifices for? Christian Singles Podcasts Christian Dating Sites

 Dealing With Addictions as a Christian Single | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 36:01

It’s a shame but true. Many Christian singles, married and divorced people have addictions and strongholds in their lives that hold them in bondage. Although dealing with addiction is essential if we are to enjoy our relationship experiences and life to the fullest, many are in a pickle over how to exactly conquer this. Dealing with Addiction Podcast If you are in this situation, or you know of a Christian woman or man who struggles with addiction, the following Christian podcast with Pastor Dave Butler  may help. Masturbation: Singles who Masturbate Glee Podcast Week 6 Christian Dating Service

 Dealing with Rejection as Singles | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 41:57

If you are a single Christian waiting on God for your soul mate, dealing with feelings of rejection can be very difficult! In a previous article we already mentioned how difficult it is getting over with unrequited love.  I was recently talking to a young man, who after months of searching for a potential Christian dating partner online using eHarmony and Christian Mingle to no avail, developed strong feelings for a young woman who had recently started going to his church.  They became friends, however, when he told her about his feelings for her, she told him that she can’t see them being more than friends.  This Christian single guy told me that he is having a very difficult time getting the feelings to go away.  The most frustrating part of his situation is that the feeling of rejection is preventing him from connecting with other girls that he meets!  If you have ever had feelings for somebody that didn’t return them to you, then you can probably relate to this guy! Jesus and  OUr Rejection Podcast Nobody on the face of the earth has faced as much rejection as Jesus. Just read Isaiah 53:3 and look at the last few days of His life leading up to cross. Whenever I’m feeling sorry for myself in this area, I simply think about what He went through for me.  There is hope at the cross. The following podcast  this past week  from Pastor Dave Butler at Oasis-Church-NJ.com will help you get over the feeling of rejection, and get back on the right track with God and the opposite sex!  In this podcast, you will  find several tips on how to address the issue of rejection: Forgive Get Your Mind on Others Instead of Yourself Tell Your Heavenly Daddy Where it Hurts Commit Your Future Into His Hands How do you deal with rejection as a single person? How do you deal with bitterness? How do you deal with the feelings of isolation? Feel free to share with us. DEALING WITH REJECTION VIDEO VERSION Singleness And Society Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Sites

 Dealing with Past Relationships as Single Christians | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 41:02

Fact: How people deal with past relationships is a great predictor of future success in other relationships. Many Christian singles I know are in bondage to the past hurts through cheating, disappointments, secret sins and  relationship breakups of the past.  Under the weight The emotional  relationship baggage of the past, many singles gals and guys fail at their attempts to form positive dating relationships How To Deal With Past Relationships The great news about our following Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com in NJ is that just because you failed with relationships in the past, it does not mean you have to fail in the future. Why? If you are a Christ-Follower, understanding your identity in Him give you freedom from past labels and a new beginning in life. Christian Podcasts Christian-Dating Sites Home

 Free Christian Singles Advice on Dating | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 31:37

Did the title Free Christian Singles Advice grab your attention? you know there is a lot of free Christian singles dating advice on dating on the internet today, and most of it is totally unbiblical or just plain sucks.  To counter this problem, each week we search the web for the best free Christian singles podcasts advice out there for our thousands of listeners. Free Christian Singles Advice Podcast This week we have a free Christian singles podcast from Elevation Church, one of the fastest growing churches in the US. In my humble opinion, this is one of the best dating advice podcasts we have ever put on the air. Do you have a free christian singles advice podcast you would like to put on Christian Dating Service Plus? Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Service

 NJ 2019 Easter Sunday Church Services | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 22:53

  Join Oasis church for Easter Sunday Church service on April 21 2019 at 10am and 12 Noon at our great new meeting place at  2 Denman Ave in Clark 2019 NJ Easter Family Friendly Church Services If you reside anywhere in the NY or NJ and are looking for contemporary, non-denominational Easter Church Services, come check out Oasis Church NJ, the creator of this singles blog. We serve the following nearby NJ towns with our  contemporary,non-denominational church  services,  experience:  Mountainside, Union, Westfield, Scotch Plains, Summit, Elizabeth, Plainfield, Fanwood, Cranford, Clark, East Brunswick, Berkeley Heights, Somerville,Rahway, IrvingtonSpringfield, Roselle, North Plainfield, Green Brook, Dunellen, Kenilworth, Woodbridge,  Piscataway, South Plainfield, Plainfield, Edison, Perth Amboy, Metuchen, South Bound Brook, Bound Brook, Manville, Bridgewater, Hillsborough, East Brunswick, New Brunswick, North Brunswick, South Brunswick, Woodbridge, Bernarsdville,  Short hills, Somerville,Rahway, Maplewood, Hillside, Colonia, Fords,  South Orange, Warren, Millburn,Linden, Rahway, Linden, Watchung, Chatham, Irvington, West Orange,  Piscataway, Montclair, Hillside, Maplewood , Newark, Iselin, Sayreville, Perth Amboy, South Amboy, Rutgers, Franklin Township, Somerset,  Basking Ridge Nutley, South River and more. Rutgers Campus Crusade for Christ-CRU   What The Bible Says Happens When You Die? Christian Dating Service  

 Managing Transition-Making the Most of Change as Christian Singles | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 30:34

Making the most of changes and managing transitions in our lives is often a difficult thing to do, but essential if one is to prosper in this life. How do you manage transitions in your life? Life’s transitions and changes can be a great opportunity, but also a threat. Managing Transitions as Singles If you are having a rough go managing transition and making the most of change, you are not alone. The fact is singles go through more life changes and transitions than married folks in the areas that cause the most stress units in a person’s life: relationships, job changes, parenting adjustments and moving residences. We all know the pressure involved in living alone as Christian singles, but what makes managing transitions and making the most of changes is that sometimes the change is not by our choice. It’s much easier to deal with change and transitions if the choice was ours. But how do we manage involuntary transitions like a relationship breakup, debt issues or termination in such a way that we make the most of the changes in our lives? Hope for Managing Transitions and Making the Most of Life’s Changes In our church podcast of the week, Pastor Joseph Velarde, of the Journey Church located in Jersey City, NJ, discusses how to biblically manage transitions while making the most of changes going on all around you. Sounds good? Do you have something to share about managing transitions and making the most of changes in your life? Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

 Living Alone and Lonely as a Single Christian | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 41:22

As a single person, have you discovered the key to living alone without being lonely? If loneliness is a daily struggle, know that many others are going thought he same thing. In fact, according to our ongoing singles survey, one of the worst things Christian singles find about single life are the lonely feelings that go with the territory. Dealing with Living Alone After scouring the web for a church podcast that addresses the subject of being lonely, we came upon “One is the Loneliest Loneliest number, a message from Pastor Nelson Searcy. You’ll definitely be blessed by it. Enjoy! Related Articles: Contentment Living a Christian Single Life Fear of Being Along as Single Christians Fears That Keep Men and Women Single Single Again Tips for the Recently Single Man and Woman Single Dads Dealing With Loss and Grief Where Christian Singles Meet Other Singles Love Shy Singles-How to Overcome Shyness Sickness and Being Single Lonely Women Who Are Single Single Gals and God’s Grace Christian Singles Podcasts  Christian Dating Service

 Signs of Physical Attraction | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 53:33

Do you know the signs of physical attraction? Experts tell us that there are certain signs of physical attraction that gives away a girl likes a guy, or  when a dude is attracted to girl. In fact, if you were to go and Google “signs of physical attraction”, you would find a whole boatload of relationship advice on how to tell when there is a spark. Signs of Physical Attraction Podcast This week’s church podcast on signs of physical attraction comes directly from the Book of Solomon. Pastor Steven Furtick (this dude is something else) gives us some straight talk from God’s word about dating relationships and the signs of physical attraction. Hopefully, this message will help you gain some self confidence in dating as you look at physical attraction from God’s perspective. Feel free to share any thoughts you may have on signs of physical attraction. Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Sites

 Christian Dating Tips Podcast | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 55:17

Our Christian dating church pod-cast of the week takes us to Bloomington, Minnesota (MN). Here pastor Chris Reinertson, of the River Church at Mall of America, speaks about the journey of Christian dating. If you are a Christian single presenting in a Christian dating relationship, or simply interested in dating, this message covers it all. If your church, Christian singles group or college ministry has a singles related message they would like pod-casted to thousands of singles for free, please contact us, and we’ll be glad to put it on the web with a link back to your site. Are you a single Christian with a comment about Christian dating? Related Christian Dating Articles for this Message: How not to Attract a Single Guy Contentment Living a Christian Single Life Good Christian Dating Relationship Signs Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

 Information on Single Parenting Hood | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 24:21

Need information on single parenting hood?  Many single parents are seeking information on how to balance their Christian dating lives with raising their kids properly.   There is a lot of information on single parenting hood  on the web. However, not all that info is good for Christian single parents. Information on Single Parenting  Hood Tips Raising kids in a single parenting hood environment is very difficult. However, if you are even thinking of dating as a single parent we recommend u check out this of single parenting hood dating info. Additionally, this week’s following podcast  at Oasis on how to discipline  kids will be very useful as well. Oasis-Church-NJ.com, a New Jersey contemporary church, is a sponsor of this singles blog, and meets sundays at 11am at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside. If you have additional information on single parenting hood, you can share it below. Single Hood and Discouragement Podcast Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

 Christian Dating Tips for Men and Women | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 29:28

Are you looking for Christian dating tips for men or women? I have to say the following Christian dating podcast for guys and girls is probably the best and practical  we have put on air. Pastor Marc Driscoll  gives out dating tips for men and women in terms that are both funny and informative Christian Dating Tips for Men and Women Huh? Yeah, I thought so too, but here is what happens: During his message on Christian dating people were allowed to text message questions about dating tips for men or women directly to Pastor Mark. The dating tips questions were then flashed on a screen in real time, and he answered them as they came in. The following Christian podcast on dating tips for men and women is the result. I think you’ll enjoy it.Share dating advice for men? Women? Dating During Separation Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

 Best Sex Tips for Christian Singles | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 19:44

Sex tips and tricks for Christians? Well, okay, maybe the words in the title “Sex Tips and Tricks” is a little bit over the top, but but I happen to know Christian singles are desperately looking for some straight talk on how they can balance the fact that God created them to be both sexual and holy beings. Best Sex Tips  Christian Podcast Without a doubt our Christian podcast of the week from Pastor Tim of Liquid Church is the most straight talkin’ Biblical message on sex and dating that you will ever hear. If you are a single Christian who is a little confused about where to “draw the line” when it comes to your feelings and behavior regarding sex and living godly in this world, the following sex tip and trick will help. If real talk about sex and living out the Christian life is too much information for you to bear, you may want to change the station. Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

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