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 Dealing With Corona Fears and Social Distancing as Singles | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 20:39

Single people are used to being alone. But adding in Corona virus fears and social distancing could put a lot of us over the edge. Let’s face it, Zoom dating during a pandemic quarantine can only go so far.   For many singles who are not in a dating relationship, social groups and church involvement  are the primary places to get support and love. Dealing with Corona Fears Podcast What are singles’ major anxieties about COVID-19? After polling numerous singles, it turns out major concerns include finances, health, loneliness and fears that Jesus is gonna come back before the get married. In the following Christian singles podcast, Pastor Dave Butler at Oasis Church addresses this relevant issue.    

 Learning How to Argue and Fight | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 42:27

The best dating tip we could give Christian singles is learning how to  argue and fight. That may sound like whacky dating advice unless you know that the top reason both dating and married couples break up is a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution. This is very important, so let me reiterate this dating advice a different way: Learning how to fight and argue successully is the best way to a lasting and happy dating and/or married relationship. Why? Because conflict in this life is inevitable, so you better learn how to deal with it. Single Christians who never learn the art of fighting and arguing will most likely fail in any romantic dating relationship they enter. This is true whether they seek a soulmate through an online Christian dating service such as eHarmony, or any other way. Additionally, ever meet that dating perfect match who looked so good together, and claim they never argue or fight? Don’t believe it. That romance made in heaven will be headed south soon unless they acknowledge the reality of conflict and arguments, and learn how to fight. Whether you are a single person already dating or only hoping to, the following dating tips on learning how to argue and fight will be helpful: Learning How to Argue and Fight Dating Tip 1: Honestly and lovingly confront the problem, but leave out the personal attacks on your dating mate. If the argument or fight devolves into attacks on personhood, the battle (and possibly the dating relationship) has been lost. Adam did this in the Garden after God confronted him with the problem of eating forbidden fruit. Instead of honestly acknowledging the problem, he put personal blame on both Eve and God: “This woman you put here with me-she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate.” (Gen. 3:12) Honestly addressing conflict sometimes means swallowing our pride by admitting we are part of the problem. Ever wonder what God would have done if Adam honestly admitted his part? Dating Tip 2: Listen to what the other person is actually trying to communicate. That means having earnest eye to eye contact as you open up your ears and heart, because communication can take place verbally, by action or body language. So, it’s important that you understand all these forms. Many dating singles have a lack of communication in the area of conflict-resolution because they’re too busy thinking about their argument response rather than listening from the heart. Don’t forget there was a reason God (James 1:19) told us to be quick to listen,

 Why Christians Singles Date Less Due to Anger Issues | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 48:14

It seems like everyone is so angry nowadays. Everyone seems to have a beef. Democrats hate Republicans: Republicans hate Democrats. This anger we see in the culture even permeates into the dating world. Nowadays dating profiles from sites like Tinder to Christian Mingle, often have an edge of anger to them.  Lately, I’ve read more than a few profiles from Christian singles who state on their profiles: “If you are a Trump supporter please don’t contact me!” Really? Has it really come to this? Anger and Christian Singles Dating Dysfunction Let’s be honest, nobody wants to date angry people filled with rage, bitterness or hatred. It’s just not a fun and positive experience to even be around such people.  In the internet dating world I see a lot of dissatisfaction. While some singles do come away with positive experiences, most of the thousands of  comments I receive are from  men and woman who have had horrible stories to tell. What has surprised me about these comments is the extreme views, and the level of jadedness. Responses  like “All men are sexist jerks”, “Guys just wants sex?, “All women are whack jobs”  abound. But is this reality? Today’s Christian podcast from  David Butler at Oasis talks about the roots of anger and how to deal with it. Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Sites      

 How to Find God’s Will for Your Life? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 50:42

Looking to find God’s will for your life? I think most of us would admit that we are a little confused when it comes to finding God’s will for our lives, especially when it comes to finding  Mr. Right or Ms Right. The following podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com examines, the roadblocks that keep Christian singles from discovering God’s will in our lives as both single people and married people. Hope for the Future Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Sites Home

 Christian Dating and Idol Worship: Making an Idol Out of Your Relationships | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 50:42

Christian dating and idol worship. I know what some of you are thinking: What in the world does my dating life have to do with idol worship?  Maybe nothing. But maybe everything. Idol Worship Definition An idol can be can be ANYTHING  in your life that you put before God. That includes your dating life with your boyfriend or girlfriend. It’s something that takes the glory that God alone deserves, including your time, attention, and money, and transfers it to the object of your affection.  Christian Dating and Idol Worship I ask  again. Does your Christian dating relationship amount to idol worship? Are you a Christian dater who has turned your relationship into an idol? The Bible says: You must not have any other god  before my face. You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind or an image of anything in the heavens or on the earth or in the sea. 5 You must not bow down to them or worship them, for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God who will not tolerate your affection for any other gods.  Exodus 20:4,5a Idol Worship Test for Christian Singles Besides listening to the below podcast on Idol worship, here are three questions to consideras you ponder whether or not you are idolizing your Christian dating relationship. Where do you run for comfort? What do you fear losing the most? What do you make the biggest sacrifices for? Christian Singles Podcasts Christian Dating Sites

 Free Online Dating Advice Podcast | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 37:48

Getting into a dating relationship is easier than ever since there are so many decent  free online dating advice sites out there, including, Christian dating advice sites like Oasis Singles.  However, keeping that dating relationship growing will be almost impossible without good conversation starter skills. Free Online Dating Advice On Listening Skills In fact, most couples, whether they are married or in a dating relationship, give lack of communication and listening as the major reason for breaking up. These relationships break down because the parties have forgotten or never learned how to listen to the each other. As someone who has done quite a bit of relationship mediation, the truth of the above staement can’t be overstated.That’s why our church podcast for this week centers on improving your dating relationship chances by learning how to listen to your partner. Pastor Bret Avlakeotes, of Spring Hills Community Church in Santa Rosa, California (CA), speaks from the James 1 on this topic sure to interest all Christian singles looking  for free online dating advice for a great Christian dating relationship. Related to Online Free Dating Advice: Dating Advice-Learning How to Argue and Fight Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

 How to Deal with Bitterness as a Christian Single | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 45:29

Today we’re going to deal with bitterness as a Christian single. Many of us today are hiding a bitter spirit. Maybe some of us feel bitter because we are still single. If you came here today feeling bitter because you are still single, you’re in good company. People are bitter about many things. The good news is that whatever junk is in your hearts Jesus can change all that if you really want Him to. How to Deal With Bitterness as the ROOT Cause of All Sin   I believe the root cause of all evil  is bitter heart. I believe you could trace all sin, we’re going to see in scripture today  that right from the  the big very beginning bitterness was there. What destroys relationships if not bitterness. It’s also bitterness that  causes people to walk into a synagogue or a church or a movie theater and shoot up a joint it’s not anything else but bitterness in the heart. Bitterness causes divorce and adultery. Why you can trace a root of bitterness to absolutely ever sin under creation. Dealing With Bitterness and Your Past A bitter person has a difficult time dealing with the past. I hear bitter people say things like this all the time: “Lord why did this person leave me?” “I can’t believe how my “ex” treated me. Now he’s found someone new, and I’m just stuck reliving  what went wrong. It’s not fair!” “Why did I get such a raw deal?!” How many of us have a hard time letting go over a past hurts, rejections and relationship issues? We are tortured by past hurts, and it makes us bitter. Why I still remember what that sixth grade kid did to me. The Different Types of Bitterness Singles Face Just as there are many types of fruit, there are types of manifestations of  bitterness,. With that let me just say this: You can’t help what happens in your life, but you CAN help how you react. The Characteristics of Bitterness “Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord:  looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled…” In our podcast that’s from Hebrews 12:14-15 we will see that: A BITTER PERSON IS A DECEIVED PERSON A BITTER PERSON IS A DEFILED PERSON A BITTER PERSON DUPLICATES HIS BITTERNESS TO OTHERS But how do these processes occur? Bitterness is Deceptive. It’s deceptive on so many different levels. First of all, it’s hard to spot. We may be bitter and not even know it. Or others may be bitter against us, but we will not be able to spot it. Why? Because as the Scripture states, it’s a “ROOT of Bitterness that we must be careful to avoid. We can’t always see everything that meets the eye, even when it comes to our own heart. A bitter person ultimately is a person who holds a grudge against God. This was actually the devil’s first sin. He was self deceived. A bitter person feels he or she deserves better that what God is offering to them. That somehow God is holding back His best from them.  This is deception, and it’s exactly the form of deception the devil used on Eve in Genesis. Bitterness is Defiling.  If we refuse to deal with bitterness that has taken root deep in our souls, and perpetuated by a grudge holding, unforgiving spirit, we can ruin any hope for a joyful life and future successful relationships, romantic or platonic. Bitterness is really a form a pride, and that is why it’s so destructive. In fact, if you think carefully about it, it’s the same root of bitterness Satan had that caused him to challenge God. Bitterness is Duplicating. What do we mean by that? People who can’t deal with bitterness by rooting it out from their hearts,

 Dealing With Addictions as a Christian Single | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 36:01

It’s a shame but true. Many Christian singles, married and divorced people have addictions and strongholds in their lives that hold them in bondage. Although dealing with addiction is essential if we are to enjoy our relationship experiences and life to the fullest, many are in a pickle over how to exactly conquer drug and alcohol use and abuse addiction. Dealing with Addiction Podcast If you are in this situation, or you know of a Christian woman or man who struggles with addiction, the following Christian podcast with Pastor Dave Butler at Oasis-Church-NJ.com may help. Oasis is a new New Jersey church with a vision for reaching hurting and hungry people for Jesus. GLEE Week 6 – “Living Or Existing?” Glee Podcast Week 6 Christian Dating Service

 Dealing with Rejection as Singles | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 41:57

If you are a single Christian waiting on God for your soul mate, dealing with feelings of rejection can be very difficult! In a previous article we already mentioned how difficult it is getting over with unrequited love.  I was recently talking to a young man, who after months of searching for a potential Christian dating partner online using eHarmony and Christian Mingle to no avail, developed strong feelings for a young woman who had recently started going to his church.  They became friends, however, when he told her about his feelings for her, she told him that she can’t see them being more than friends.  This Christian single guy told me that he is having a very difficult time getting the feelings to go away.  The most frustrating part of his situation is that the feeling of rejection is preventing him from connecting with other girls that he meets!  If you have ever had feelings for somebody that didn’t return them to you, then you can probably relate to this guy! Jesus and  OUr Rejection Podcast Nobody on the face of the earth has faced as much rejection as Jesus. Just read Isaiah 53:3 and look at the last few days of His life leading up to cross. Whenever I’m feeling sorry for myself in this area, I simply think about what He went through for me.  There is hope at the cross. The following podcast  this past week  from Pastor Dave Butler at Oasis-Church-NJ.com will help you get over the feeling of rejection, and get back on the right track with God and the opposite sex!  In this podcast, you will  find several tips on how to address the issue of rejection: Forgive Get Your Mind on Others Instead of Yourself Tell Your Heavenly Daddy Where it Hurts Commit Your Future Into His Hands How do you deal with rejection as a single person? How do you deal with bitterness? How do you deal with the feelings of isolation? Feel free to share with us. DEALING WITH REJECTION VIDEO VERSION Singleness And Society Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Sites

 Dealing with Past Relationships as Single Christians | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 41:02

Fact: How people deal with past relationships is a great predictor of future success in other relationships. Many Christian singles I know are in bondage to the past hurts through cheating, disappointments, secret sins and  relationship breakups of the past.  Under the weight The emotional  relationship baggage of the past, many singles gals and guys fail at their attempts to form positive dating relationships How To Deal With Past Relationships The great news about our following Christian podcast from Oasis-Church-NJ.com in NJ is that just because you failed with relationships in the past, it does not mean you have to fail in the future. Why? If you are a Christ-Follower, understanding your identity in Him give you freedom from past labels and a new beginning in life. Christian Podcasts Christian-Dating Sites Home

 Free Christian Singles Advice on Dating | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 31:37

Did the title Free Christian Singles Advice grab your attention? you know there is a lot of free Christian singles dating advice on dating on the internet today, and most of it is totally unbiblical or just plain sucks.  To counter this problem, each week we search the web for the best free Christian singles podcasts advice out there for our thousands of listeners. Free Christian Singles Advice Podcast This week we have a free Christian singles podcast from Elevation Church, one of the fastest growing churches in the US. In my humble opinion, this is one of the best dating advice podcasts we have ever put on the air. Do you have a free christian singles advice podcast you would like to put on Christian Dating Service Plus? Christian Dating Podcasts Christian Dating Service

 NJ 2019 Easter Sunday Church Services | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 22:53

  Join Oasis church for Easter Sunday Church service on April 21 2019 at 10am and 12 Noon at our great new meeting place at  2 Denman Ave in Clark 2019 NJ Easter Family Friendly Church Services If you reside anywhere in the NY or NJ and are looking for contemporary, non-denominational Easter Church Services, come check out Oasis Church NJ, the creator of this singles blog. We serve the following nearby NJ towns with our  contemporary,non-denominational church  services,  experience:  Mountainside, Union, Westfield, Scotch Plains, Summit, Elizabeth, Plainfield, Fanwood, Cranford, Clark, East Brunswick, Berkeley Heights, Somerville,Rahway, IrvingtonSpringfield, Roselle, North Plainfield, Green Brook, Dunellen, Kenilworth, Woodbridge,  Piscataway, South Plainfield, Plainfield, Edison, Perth Amboy, Metuchen, South Bound Brook, Bound Brook, Manville, Bridgewater, Hillsborough, East Brunswick, New Brunswick, North Brunswick, South Brunswick, Woodbridge, Bernarsdville,  Short hills, Somerville,Rahway, Maplewood, Hillside, Colonia, Fords,  South Orange, Warren, Millburn,Linden, Rahway, Linden, Watchung, Chatham, Irvington, West Orange,  Piscataway, Montclair, Hillside, Maplewood , Newark, Iselin, Sayreville, Perth Amboy, South Amboy, Rutgers, Franklin Township, Somerset,  Basking Ridge Nutley, South River and more. Rutgers Campus Crusade for Christ-CRU   What The Bible Says Happens When You Die? Christian Dating Service  

 Managing Transition-Making the Most of Change as Christian Singles | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 30:34

Making the most of changes and managing transitions in our lives is often a difficult thing to do, but essential if one is to prosper in this life. How do you manage transitions in your life? Life’s transitions and changes can be a great opportunity, but also a threat. Managing Transitions as Singles If you are having a rough go managing transition and making the most of change, you are not alone. The fact is singles go through more life changes and transitions than married folks in the areas that cause the most stress units in a person’s life: relationships, job changes, parenting adjustments and moving residences. We all know the pressure involved in living alone as Christian singles, but what makes managing transitions and making the most of changes is that sometimes the change is not by our choice. It’s much easier to deal with change and transitions if the choice was ours. But how do we manage involuntary transitions like a relationship breakup, debt issues or termination in such a way that we make the most of the changes in our lives? Hope for Managing Transitions and Making the Most of Life’s Changes In our church podcast of the week, Pastor Joseph Velarde, of the Journey Church located in Jersey City, NJ, discusses how to biblically manage transitions while making the most of changes going on all around you. Sounds good? Do you have something to share about managing transitions and making the most of changes in your life? Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

 Living Alone and Lonely as a Single Christian | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 41:22

As a single person, have you discovered the key to living alone without being lonely? If loneliness is a daily struggle, know that many others are going thought he same thing. In fact, according to our ongoing singles survey, one of the worst things Christian singles find about single life are the lonely feelings that go with the territory. Dealing with Living Alone After scouring the web for a church podcast that addresses the subject of being lonely, we came upon “One is the Loneliest Loneliest number, a message from Pastor Nelson Searcy. You’ll definitely be blessed by it. Enjoy! Related Articles: Contentment Living a Christian Single Life Fear of Being Along as Single Christians Fears That Keep Men and Women Single Single Again Tips for the Recently Single Man and Woman Single Dads Dealing With Loss and Grief Where Christian Singles Meet Other Singles Love Shy Singles-How to Overcome Shyness Sickness and Being Single Lonely Women Who Are Single Single Gals and God’s Grace Christian Singles Podcasts  Christian Dating Service

 Signs of Physical Attraction | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 53:33

Do you know the signs of physical attraction? Experts tell us that there are certain signs of physical attraction that gives away a girl likes a guy, or  when a dude is attracted to girl. In fact, if you were to go and Google “signs of physical attraction”, you would find a whole boatload of relationship advice on how to tell when there is a spark. Signs of Physical Attraction Podcast This week’s church podcast on signs of physical attraction comes directly from the Book of Solomon. Pastor Steven Furtick (this dude is something else) gives us some straight talk from God’s word about dating relationships and the signs of physical attraction. Hopefully, this message will help you gain some self confidence in dating as you look at physical attraction from God’s perspective. Feel free to share any thoughts you may have on signs of physical attraction. Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Sites

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