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Summary: Lance Scurvin is a Social Media Activist who takes pride in tackling the current issues of the day head on that the mainstream media are deathly afraid to touch.

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 Is It Right For A Woman To Use Her Body To Earn Money? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:00:00

The economy is tight. Times are hard. People are losing their jobs and it has been stated that we are living in the worst economic period since the depression. Some say that things have gotten better but those feelings are far and few between. Bills still have to be paid. Opportunities to actually earn money in the conventional sense while still there for some, have diminished for others. A silent sense of desperation has infiltrated many a household and many of us have considered doing things to earn money that we may not have thought of doing a short time ago in our lives. Some will steal, others will sell drugs while some just sit on the sidelines and let fate determine the outcome of their lives. .......and then their are some who will sell their body on different levels to earn the precious dollars that they need. Some will say that this is wrong but others will say that they are merely doing what they have to do to put food on the table and keep a roof over their heads. And don't forget that the babies have to eat! There are many out here in the world who have dipped into a life of prostitution and others who may not have gone as far and maybe only danced at a strip joint to fatten their bank accounts. But whatever the actual activity indulged in to get that money the topic we are discussing is is it right for a woman to use her body to earn money? We want to hear from you and want to hear YOUR story and opinions! Do NOT miss this episode of The LanceScurv Talk Show!

 The LanceScurv Show All Night Off The Chain After Party # 4 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 02:59:00

This is the All Night After Party for the LanceScurv Talk Show as well as all who need to place to chill, vibe, relax, talk smack, laugh and have a good old time like we used to back in the day. We flow and talk about everything and anything, but no matter WHAT we speak on it's always a beautiful thing! Come out and join us to participate or just listen in. As always, It's guaranteed to be OFF THE CHAIN!

 Is Monogamy A Realistic Relationship Expectation In 2012? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 02:54:00

While we many of us may profess monogamy as the ultimate relationship standard, how many of us when we look back over the actual facts of what has transpired in our lives can say that we have truly lived up to that ideal? How many of us have experienced the emotional and physical overlap that happens when one relationship is the process of ending while something exciting and new has undeniably already begun to set up shop in our hearts where you know that there is "no turning away from it now?" Is this potential for the non monogamous overlap a result of having access to so many countless individuals who we may find desirable due to the technological advances of cyberspace, the ease in which we can communicate our thoughts to a potential like minded kindred spirit or merely the close proximity that we enjoy with one another in the artificial living environment called the Big Cities? Maybe it could be the fault of these external factors just as well as it could also be a crack in our moral armors. Is it that our collective characters have eroded and we have become merely these hedonistic entities who are hellbent on receiving as much pleasure as we can handle as we abandon every relationship when the going gets rough? Marriage or not, what happened to this thing called commitment? And even in the case of marriages, what happened to death do you part? Do we claim these words only to look good on the surface to the world but use those same well thought out words to split the hairs to support our cause when we merely want to dump the entire relationship that we are in because we want to sample something that appears to be better? Many of us claim to be monogamous, but the short stay motel businesses are booming and the divorces rates are as high as they ever been! What gives people?  

 Trayvon Martin: How Do We Really Feel About His Murder? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 02:59:00

It's a tragedy that has gripped not only the nation but the entire world! The ruthless unnecessary demonically driven murder of young Trayvon Martin - as he quietly went about his way after coming from a local convenience store in his neighborhood of Sanford, Florida with nothing more than an Iced Tea Beverage and a bag of Skittles - by the self appointed Neighborhood Watch Captain George Zimmerman who was obviously hellbent on causing mayhem by inflicting his twisted hate, racist mentality and need for power and control on someone who just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. This special episode of the LanceScurv Show is dedicated to the people who need a raw uncut forum to express what the other major media networks won't allow to be expressed. Let us share our feelings and facts, perspectives and projected plans with each other so that the twisted Amerikkkan tradition of killing young Black men wholesale will cease and desist. All are welcome here to speak and everyone will be accommodated. Let the revolution begin.......

 The LanceScurv Show All Night Off The Chain After Party #3 | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:00:00

This is the All Night After Party for the LanceScurv Talk Show as well as all who need to place to chill, vibe, relax, talk smack, laugh and have a good old time like we used to back in the day. We flow and talk about everything and anything, but no matter WHAT we speak on it's always a beautiful thing! Come out and join us to participate or just listen in. As always, It's guaranteed to be OFF THE CHAIN!

 Open Relationships, Swingers & Friends With Benefits! | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 02:59:00

Tonight we delve into an often misunderstood group of lifestyles that possess a commonality yet are as different in their identity as night and day. Open relationships, swingers and friends with benefits! Many individuals feel that once one steps out of what is generally accepted in society as morally right that these labels pretty much cover a lifestyle that is all the same but many who are looking from the inside out will beg to differ. Most would ask why would anyone in their right mind willingly enter into an open relationship knowing that they are not the only one who is sleeping with their so called significant other. Many who consider themselves to be open minded might say that there detractors often fantasize during masturbation about the activities that they regularly indulge themselves in and the only difference is that they had the courage to step up and pursue their desires. But is it really just all about the sex? What about those who call themselves swingers? What is it about that lifestyle choice that they prefer? How do they feel participating in the most intimate sexual acts with others right alongside their mate and how do they deal with it emotionally? Is there really any advantage to being considered a friend who also can supply the benefits of casual non committed sexual release? Are these lifestyle choices the next level in advanced human development or are they all just plain crazy? And for those who abhor these practices what if you are in an open relationship with a cheating spouse and don't even know it? Wouldn't it be better to have everything out in the open and in plain view? Tune in and let us answer the hard questions that not only will reveal to us about the preferences of others but how honest are we about those dirty little secrets in our own closets!  

 The LanceScurv Show All Night Off The Chain After Party #2! | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:00:00

This is the All Night After Party for the LanceScurv Talk Show as well as all who need to place to chill, vibe, relax, talk smack, laugh and have a good old time like we used to back in the day. We flow and talk about everything and anything, but no matter WHAT we speak on it's always a beautiful thing! Come out and join us to participate or just listen in. As always, It's guaranteed to be OFF THE CHAIN!

 Is Family The Most Prostituted Word In The English Language? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:00:00

Family. Blood. Kin. Relatives. In-Laws. These are words that will bring such a strong reaction from just about anyone and everyone once spoken. While the reaction may not be as visible, but it will definitely cause a strong feeling within one who thinks of their family positive or negative whether you can see it or not. But the fact of the matter is that this word carries so much weight because of the emotions behind it good or bad. You see, when we grew up that word was supposed to mean something, and as we got older we realized that in too many cases it didn't mean a damn thing at all to those who shared our same genes and D.N.A! Let me be the first to say that there ARE some families who have stuck together on a positive level as they should but..... .....some do not want anything to DO with their family and for good reason! It's no wonder that most kin reluctantly happen to bump into each other at a funeral of a loved one as this is the only way they would ever see each other because of the resentments and misunderstandings that have sauteed in their hearts and morphed into a special hate more intense than for any stranger for each other over the years. The backstabbing, the gossipers, the schemers, the unpaid loans, the envious, the freeloaders, the users and manipulators that many have come to know as family makes them see the word on the same level of something profane! Tonight on the LanceScurv Show we ask the question: "Is The Word "Family" The Most Prostituted Word In The English Language?" That being said we will share some of most incredible "Family" stories so be prepared to really hear some aired out dirty laundry as well as a few tales that will make YOUR particular family episode seem like loving reunion! Be ready for the unexpected. Be ready for the BEST Friday night LanceScurv Show EVER!

 The LanceScurv Show All Night Off The Chain After Party! | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:00:00

This is the All Night After Party for the LanceScurv Talk Show as well as all who need to place to chill, vibe, relax, talk smack, laugh and have a good old time like we used to back in the day. Come out and join us to participate or just listen in. It's guaranteed to be OFF THE CHAIN!

 Is Flirting While In A Relationship Acceptable? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:00:00

Relationships these days are more complicated than ever before. What is written in stone as law for one couple may be a negotiable standard for the next. Behavioral relationship expectations vary from one individual to another. What is acceptable to one couple is a major violation to another! Let's take the seemingly innocent act of flirting while in a relationship. So called innocent flirting for many of us is how we got involved with the person that we are presently with, there are exceptions to the rule but for the most part, we who are involved and have a significant other can remember the playful times when we have gone through the motions of the human mating ritual called flirting. While it seems to be something for many that is a harmless endeavor, it can possibly spell disaster when already engaged in a relationship as the temptation to take things to the next level become too strong. With our modern society having access to many high tech discreet forms of communication (Text messaging & Photo sharing, Facebook messaging etc.), the advanced level of seduction that usually comes right after a few seemingly innocent flirting encounters has been taken up to a whole new dangerous level usually with disastrous results! How can most who have no control simply flirt without wondering how good the forbidden fruit tastes? Can we resist the temptation to take things to the next level after tensions have mounted to unbearable levels? With infidelity levels rapidly increasing to record numbers, is flirting with someone other than your mate a cancer that plays a role in the initial breakdown or slow burn of a relationship? If this is the case can we safely ask "is flirting while in a relationship acceptable" if the results are usually distrastrous? Is flirting a precursor to cheating?

 Abusive Predatory Controlling Men & The Women Who Love Them! | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:00:00

Some people are givers and some individuals are takers. Everyone brings a different energy into your life and many times what they bring is not what you thought it was in the first place. Some will portray themselves as a savior to you in your time of need only to be revealed that they all along wanted only to drain you of your resources. Many feel as though the resources that can be pilfered are the financial variety only, but many guard their hard earned funds quite well while leaving their emotional nest egg out in the open and ripe for the taking. It's not always about money with a spiritual vampire, it's about your essence, your spirit, your soul. Sure, most romantic leeches will gladly help you to drain you of the digits in your bank account but it seems to me from my experience that they want so much more. It is as though they are not happy until you are totally run down, drained and good for nothing and ruined for life. For every happily ever after Cinderella story, there are dozens of tales of horror from a dream turned into a living hell of a nightmare. Tonight we will focus on the men who use women and the tricks they employ to get in the position to do so. Yes, there are some women who have the same agenda, but I choose to focus on the men because their approach and tactics can entail so many different factors unlike their female counterparts. But we will subsequently focus on the Jezebels specifically on another dedicated program. But we will share our darkest deepest tales of pain and betrayal to hopefully wisen and empower each other and the listeners who might not understand that they are on the scope of a destructive rifle of a predatory entity who came into their life to kill, steal and destroy. Let's come together in the trenches of life to embolden each other against the attacks on our lives during this episode of The LanceScurv Talk show!

 Are You Stuck In An Unfulfilling Dead End Relationship? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:01:00

If you ask most people this question directly to their face their knee-jerk reaction would be to tell you no. They would say that they were in the most wonderful union with their dream mate and they just might admit that there were a few minor issues that needed to be addressed at worst. But when you look at the divorce rates as well as well as the ever growing and widely accepted rate of infidelities committed, it is obvious that something is not going well with the overall health of our marriages and relationships in the society today. Well what is it that makes us stray from being faithful to our mates? Is the problem a matter of something lacking that we can correct with better communication? Did we just get involved too quickly with our current mate without taking the time to get to know them on other levels other than the sexual plane? Why do we stay in the relationship if the union is not bringing us the satisfaction that we thought it would deliver? What are the other factors involved that make us fearful of leaving? Why are many of those who are unhappy afraid to confront their mate about their feelings instead of cheating on them? Do you know what it is that you need to be happy and if you did would you have the courage to even speak up about it? The list goes on and on and we hope to answer these and so many other questions that many have but just wouldn't admit to having publicly. Tune in for a very introspective soul searching program that just might answer a few questions that YOU may have about your personal situation!

 Unpardonable Relationship Sins: What Won't You Tolerate? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 02:59:00

Let's face it, we all have a breaking point on what we will and will not tolerate within the confines of our relationships. It's just that most individuals are different from one another in what they WILL tolerate. One woman or man's comfort zone is another person's breaking point. This in itself is a very interesting observation because there are many factors that go into making us the individuals that we are and therefore what we will settle for in our personal lives. Some people will abandon a romantic union at the first hint of foul play while others will hold on to the illusion of what could be far to long and sometimes bring themselves into an early demise merely because they wouldn't let go! Tonight we will share our personal limits of what we will allow to happen and why and pretty much debate on what a mate will do that is considered going a bit too far in crossing that line into the forbidden zone. Stealing? Bad manners? Domineering personalities? Infidelity? Irresponsibility and laziness? Poor personal hygiene? Inconsiderate ways? Some will quickly and boldly say hit the door while others will merely take it on the chin for the "good" of the relationship without a fight and hope for a better day to come! While every situation is different, one woman may have a cheating man who adds nothing to the pot as she may be independent of him and is empowered to quickly tell him to leave while another woman may be dependent on her philanderer and be intimidated by the outside world and choose to stay for the luxury of the lifestyle he provides. So as you can see, it is not as simple as you think as far as having a one size fits all answer to this controversial issue. What are the Unpardonable Relationship sins and what might we do when they are committed? Do tune in to this program Friday night without fail and let the fireworks begin!

 We Share Our Tales On The Joys & Euphoria Of Being In Love | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 02:41:00

Tonight is a Valentine's Day special of The LanceScurv Talk Show where we delve into the joys of this mighty thing that we just can't seem to live without called love! While for the most part too many of us focus on the negative aspects of this very powerful emotion, I feel not enough time is given to the bliss that is acheived when two people walk in agreement in the matters of the heart to forge forward to live their lives together as one. I want us to share those moments in which we ran after love with a sense of urgency and reckless abandon that made so much sense to us while we were under the intoxicating spell of passion! Those classic late night trips to see your lover and the "Mission Impossible" obstacles that you had to endure to enjoy their presence. The risks involved when you both may have been involved with other people and the broken rules that you couldn't ever obey  that have have enabled you to be in the arms of your loved one once again. We will let it all hang out tonight and even share some things that we have never ever told a soul but will tonight because we are totally into jump starting this show to the utmost so feel free to speak your mind!

 Does Fame & Fortune Manifest The Worst Traits In Our Stars? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 03:00:00

Is it me or is it that just as soon as the overwhelming shock of losing the King Of Pop Michael Jackson and the compelling & timeless talent of Amy Winehouse just became disgestible to my emotions, here we have yet another loss of immense talent in the musical icon that is Whitney Houston that seems to be now a bit too much to assimilate! While it is just too early to say what the cause of her death is, in actuality it really doesn't matter at this point as it won't bring her back. But this unexpected episode of a severe tragedy simply makes one think of the deadly forces behind the Colgate smiles and engineered Hollywood appearances that drive a person to a lifestyle that quickly takes them out of this life. What is it about being a celebrity in today's world that always almost seems to bring on tragic consequences when rising past the glass ceiling of Hollywood mediocrity? We do know that the hectic travel schedules, the rushed meals, the medicated emotional highs as well as the pressure to perform in machine like fashion day in and day out just might have something to do with their eventual demise. The human mind, body and spirit was not made to handle the demanding schedule, lifestyle and isolation of celebrity life. Some fall victim to these invisible imbalances faster than others while some seem to brush it off as though it were nothing. Those I might add are definitely in the minority and I believe it is safe to say, that another Whitney Houston type of tragedy is really not to far off from the horizon and almost guaranteed to happen again. When will we ever learn that life is too fragile and too short and we need to get back to the basics of self preservation.


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