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He might have found his way deep into your heart swept you off your feet at one time but you found out some things that won't keep him there for long. I may not have been that he put his hands on you but you know deep down in your soul that you can't live with your realization for very long. Maybe there is a child that he conceived a while back while the both of you were together officially. Maybe there was a very revealing text message from another woman that you saw come in on his phone while he was asleep that you happen to see. The things that he mumbles in his sleep consistently always seems to point to his possible philandering and the gaps of unexplained time that he spends on a consistent basis screams at you and raises those dreaded red flags that you swore that you would never see while being with him. It may be that he never really told you the full reason why he got fired off of his job and how his up and down mood swings and inconsistent demeanor as of recent point to a possible substance abuse problem. Yes, you still feel as though you love this man but even after you discover that what you thought was true and every gory painful detail of his indiscretions come to light, how long do you allow him to hang around and at what point should you leave a certified no good man? Tonight we will ask some hard questions and even come to the point where we will unearth some even harder answers. Truth will reign in this episode of the LanceScurv Show tonight. Be there.

Every Monday evening we always enjoy an open yet laid back mature adult conversation on the various issues and topics that are on our mind at this time. The conversation can and will flow in many directions as there is no set topic to speak on. The beauty of the program is that it will manifest in a truly unexpected manner. Politics, religion, life experiences, sports, relationships, health, current events, sexuality and the full range of the human experience good and bad, accepted and taboo will be welcomed and embraced on this special night! You are invited to join us to buckle your seats belt and get ready for the cerebral ride of your life! Once you get a taste of it, you WILL be addicted!

This particular late night verbal gumbo flowed so nicely as we touched on many deep issues in a brutally honest fashion. As always, at this time of the morning there will always be new guests that chime in on the discussion and it was no different and I suggest that you check out where we went and the topics we touched to find out how special a morning it was with the swirl of intelligent passionate energies that went where most are afraid to tread! I we had more honest dialogue in our world such as this, having Heaven on Earth would only be just a matter of time!

This is another age old question that has baffled the scholars and self appointed psychologists the world over due to the many men who just can't seem to keep their focus on one love interest at a time in a committed relationship. Now let me clarify that this particular show will include ALL combinations of romantic pairings, I just worded it this way for brevity purposes as it would not have been space efficient to list every lifestyle preference under the sun! So that being said, it is NOT just about philandering men, but anyone who can't keep their passions for one person, this mentality isn't relegated to one sex, but to everyone who wants to have their cake and eat it too! But since the show title was written in this manner, I will continue to speak it this way but you know now that I am including all! First of all, I am going play the devil's advocate in this show more than in any other show I've participated in, the reason being is that many will claim that all men are dogs and this will merely end the show within minutes if we accept this type of falsehood. To say that all men are dogs will only relieve those people have given up on looking within themselves to try and understand why they have chosen the wrong type of man in their lives repeatedly. This statement will lift the "burden" off of their shoulders that forces them to do a gut check of what character flaw "might" exist from within that has these dog-like men coming to them time and time again. In other words, it might not always be the man who is the problem. Think about it. But to be honest, there are many men out here in the world who are nothing but dyed in the wool womanizers who care not about the feelings of the women that they hurt as long as they have that next conquest of a potential new sex fling to bed down at all costs.

Every Monday evening we always enjoy an open yet laid back mature adult conversation on the various issues and topics that are on our mind at this time. The conversation can and will flow in many directions as there is no set topic to speak on. The beauty of the program is that it will manifest in a truly unexpected manner. Politics, religion, life experiences, sports, relationships, health, current events, sexuality and the full range of the human experience good and bad, accepted and taboo will be welcomed and embraced on this special night! You are invited to join us to buckle your seats belt and get ready for the cerebral ride of your life! Once you get a taste of it, you WILL be addicted!

You see, this is much more of a complicated issue than we think and one that we need to get a grasp on if we are in a relationship that we have invested heavily into and want to keep forever or are intending one day to find ourselves deep in that "everlasting thing" that is ours and ours exclusively. Either way, we need to understand human nature at its grimiest in order to manifest that same nature into displaying itself at its BEST! But you and I have heard of the complaints and maybe we were the originator of a few of them: "She used to sex me down everyday and now all she does is nag me about the bills and how I don't pick up after myself!" "He used to take me on shopping sprees every weekend and wine and dine me but all he wants to do is stay at home and watch football while drinking beer!" "Once she said "I DO" to me, that fine pretty young "thang" that stole my heart because of the way she took care of herself let herself go and blew up to somebody that doesn't even LOOK like the person I married! " He waited on me hand and foot at first, but after a few years all he wants to do is stay locked up in the office late at night rubbing off and watching nasty flicks like I don't know what he is in their doing! And when I want some lovin' from him he is too tired to stand up because he beats it down so much! what happened?" Trust me everyone, I can go on forever in sharing the things that I hear about that disgruntled and frustatrated mate that feels as though their so called significant other has pulled the "bait and swith" on their heart once they knew that they were at the point of no return! Tune in at showtime and let's explore and expose the TRUTH! ....and maybe you can share a story or two about what YOU'VE had to go through! See you there!  

On Monday evenings we always enjoy an open yet laid back mature adult conversation on the various issues and topics that are on our mind at this time. The conversation can and will flow in many directions as there is no set topic to speak on. The beauty of the program is that it will manifest in a truly unexpected manner. Politics, religion, life experiences, sports, relationships, health, current events, sexuality and the full range of the human experience good and bad, accepted and taboo will be welcomed and embraced on this special night! You are invited to join us to buckle your seats belt and get ready for the cerebral ride of your life! Once you get a taste of it, you WILL be addicted!

Once again the energy is at an all time high and the spillover of such an explosive blast must be caught right here on the LanceScurv Aftershow # 14! Call in at 760 259 2310 and if you are up in the wee hours like we are, then maybe you want to pass on through with us to enjoy a free flowing conversation, vibes and jokes!

But the things that my sisters do to themselves in the name of beauty can sometimes border not only on the absurd but qualify some of them to be inducted into the Hall Of Fame for Buffoonery! Although it all started all over again earlier this month with the negative comments made on 16 year old Gold Medal winning Olympic Gymnast Gabby Douglas hairstyle on the various social media networks like Twitter and Facebook by mostly African American women who felt that her hair looked terrible, this has been an ongoing issue in the Black community as far as what looks good in the standard of beauty. The comments on the beautiful and talented Gabby Douglas' hair only shows that too many Black women are caught up in something that is really irrelevent when it comes to the character traits of the heart. There is no other race of people on the face of the earth whose women are hellbent on changing the natural beauty that they were born with. What is at the root of this perpetual unhappiness with the way they look? Why is it that the so called beauty rituals that Black women put themselves through are so timely and so costly for something that is so temporary? What is driving this addiction? Why is it that a haircare industry that is owned by other races of people yet doesn't benefit us one iota makes billions of dollars off of the Black woman yet it is those same communities that are suffering from poverty, lack of proper healthcare, unemployment, illiteracy, teen pregnancy, crime, incarceration and homelessness? Wouldnt Black women be better off saving the overwhelming amount of money spent of the frivolous endeavors spent on doing their nails, straightening, coloring and applying their weaves and doing the ultimate form of self hate in bleaching their skin with these dangerous over the counter chemicals to lighten their skin?  

On Monday evenings we always enjoy an open yet laid back mature adult conversation on the various issues and topics that are on our mind at this time. The conversation can and will flow in many directions as there is no set topic to speak on. The beauty of the program is that it will manifest in a truly unexpected manner. Politics, religion, life experiences, sports, relationships, health, current events, sexuality and the full range of the human experience good and bad, accepted and taboo will be welcomed and embraced on this special night! You are invited to join us to buckle your seats belt and get ready for the cerebral ride of your life! Once you get a taste of it, you WILL be addicted!

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Tonight we are going to speak about those step children who are usually of middle school to high school age, feel as though they are already grown up and have an agenda to reject that new step father at all costs no matter how good of a man he is! We are going in surgically on these types who are hellbent on running their Mother’s new man away for good without giving peace a try and embracing drama with every breath that they take! Yes! There are many teenagers like this and they can appear just as normal and engaging in order to fool their Mother into thinking that it is her new mate that has an issue with them! This scenario is even MORE compounded when you have more than one child and becomes even more difficult for the man to stay if they work together as a team to bring him misery. We will speak about the tactics of these hell-raisers and we will speak on how to neutralize their aggressions to the point of being nonexistent forevermore! (Yes, there ARE ways of dealing with them but you first must understand that this battle can rage on for years and sometimes will only cease when those same children have moved out of the house! We will discuss what must be done to maintain a strong loving relationship in the midst of the internal attacks and deceptions as well as the roles that each adult must play and what tasks the Mother has to complete in order to bring peace back into the household. Hopefully we can gain precious insight by our shared wisdom and help keep a romance alive because everyone deserves to be loved and no one, not even your children has the right to deny you that basic God given right! Be warned everyone, we are going to go in on this topic DEEP! It might be so deep that we may have to go into extra hours on an after-show if the ebb and flow of energy call for it! You KNOW I will! DON’T MISS THIS SHOW FOR THE WORLD!

On Monday evenings we always enjoy an open yet laid back mature adult conversation on the various issues and topics that are on our mind at this time. The conversation can and will flow in many directions as there is no set topic to speak on. The beauty of the program is that it will manifest in a truly unexpected manner. Politics, religion, life experiences, sports, relationships, health, current events, sexuality and the full range of the human experience good and bad, accepted and taboo will be welcomed and embraced on this special night! You are invited to join us to buckle your seat belt and get ready for the cerebral ride of your life!  

It happens all the time and has probably happened or is happening to you! I'm speaking about those toxic people who are unfortunately a part of our lives that we call friends! Whether we know it or not, these people have more of a say so in our lives than we even realize. Some of our friendships - good and bad - have lasted through the multiple relationships that we have experienced through the years. Not only that have they been there as friends through those relationships but because of their close proximity to your deepest periods of thought while in the valley of decision, they had a great influence on how those very relationships turn out because it is THEY to whom you go to when a word of advice is needed! This puts these covert "Judases in a very strategic position to wreck your lives up when you are the most vulnerable. It's funny, but many of these undercover deceitful entities will wait literally for YEARS to make their move to bring drama and mayhem into your life and relationships! Has this ever happened to you? Others will elect to deceive you as a friend and siphon away your joy slowly and consistently in order to give your relationships the slow death treatment only to be the one "that is there" for you to "lift your spirits" up after THEY were the hidden reason for your failed marriages and breakups in the first place! They are there when you meet a potential lover and if they do NOT approve of them or have access into your every move behind closed bedroom door or interpersonal transactions then WATCH OUT! Is it because these types are miserable and can't keep a mate for themselves? They do say that misery loves company and as long as they can keep the drama and heartache going in yours it makes their pain that much more bearable! Call in and share YOUR stories of that deceitful friend who is a happiness DESTROYER!

Tonight we will have an open yet laid back mature adult conversation on the various issues and topics that are on our mind at this time. The conversation can and will flow in many directions as there is no set topic to speak on. The beauty of the program is that it will manifest in a truly unexpected manner. Politics, religion, life experiences, sports, relationships, health, current events, sexuality and the full range of the human experience good and bad, accepted and taboo will be welcomed and embraced on this special night! Buckle your seat belt and get ready for the cerebral ride of your life!