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Have you ever wondered what it's like to wear many hats while fostering meaningful relationships with kids? Meet Debbie Ausburn, a Georgia Peach, who's been a social worker, lawyer, foster parent, and step-parent. With a blend of Southern charm and city savvy, she's mastered the art of nurturing children and has fascinating tales to share from her journey in the South.Our candid chat with Debbie spans from her redneck-city upbringing to her experience raising children, including seven kids and 10 grandkids. We navigate through her dynamic family history, discussing the impact of her parents' roles, her father's influence and alcoholism's effects. We also explore her faith, including her belief in past lives, making for an enlightening conversation. This episode will make you chuckle as Debbie shares her memories as the 'scary lawyer grandma' and recounts her misadventures from childhood.As we immerse ourselves in Debbie's life, we delve deeper into the societal influences on family dynamics and identity. We discuss the implications of social media on identity formation and the urgent need to build lives based on substantial values. If you've ever been curious about the world of foster and step-parenting, Debbie's insights prove invaluable. Plus, she invites you to explore her book and blog that chronicle her experiences and offer support for fellow foster and step-parents. Tune in for an intriguing, heartfelt conversation with Debbie Ausburn.(0:00:02) - Exploring Life and ConnectionsDebbie Ausburn and I discussed her Georgia upbringing, her redneck-city duality, and her parents' presence at her birth.(0:09:38) - Working With Kids and Fostering RelationshipsDebbie shares her experiences raising children, her work as a social worker, lawyer, foster parent, and step-parent, and the power of going after things that inspire us.(0:24:19) - Exploring Childhood and Parenting ExperiencesDebbie reflects on her dad's influence, alcoholism's impact, past lives, faith, and a hypnotist's description of a previous life.(0:31:30) - Introverts and Extroverts Discuss Finding PeopleThe Ausburn family dynamic shaped Debbie's views on communication, team work, introversion, and her granddaughter's perception of her.(0:44:51) - Influence of Family and Society TodayDebbie and I discussed family influence, relationships, Southern charm, society's values, and social media's effect on identity.(0:56:24) - Supporting Foster and Step ParentsDebbie Ausburn offers services, a book, blogs, and mentoring programs for single men to help single mothers.To learn more about Debbie Ausburn, please visit: https://www.debbieausburn.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Immerse yourself in the remarkable journey of Jesse Gibbs, born to a young military mother in Spain, brought up under the shadow of narcissism and abuse. Follow as Jesse, armed with a stash of court documents, doctor’s notes, and FBI files, paints for us a complex portrait of life with a narcissistic mother. Join us for a deep dive into the psychology of narcissism and its effects on the human psyche, seen through the lens of Jesse's experiences.Take the ride with Jesse as she recounts her daring escape from an abusive home, and her subsequent struggle to overcome the challenges of growing up in a purity culture. Witness her growth, from shouldering adult responsibilities at the tender age of five to battling a violent stepfather. Jesse’s story is a testament to the indomitable spirit of resilience and survival, a beacon of hope that shines a light on the path to freedom and healing.In the latter part of our conversation, Jesse opens up about her life in an inner-city commune in Chicago, the turbulent years in her first marriage, and herj ourney to find love anew. She talks about the healing power of therapy and the crucial role of safe spaces for those who have survived abusive families. Her relationship with her mother, even today, underscores the power of healing and self-growth. Don't miss her inspiring episode, laden with lessons of courage, resilience, and the human capacity for love and growth.(0:00:02) - Surviving Childhood With a Narcissistic MotherJesse Gibbs' journey reveals the psychology of narcissists and the depths of a narcissistic mother's story.(0:10:31) - Escape From Abusive Family SituationAt five, Jesse Gibbs became the "mini mom" of her family, escaping with her grandmother's help and attending a private Christian school before her mother joined a violent pro-life group.(0:22:42) - Journey to Freedom and Overcoming ChallengesJesse Gibbs shares her experience of growing up in a purity culture, homeschooling, eleven pregnancies, and her stepfather's treatment.(0:35:32) - Journey of Healing and Self-DiscoveryJesse left home, found freedom in a commune, married an unhealthy partner, and found solace in a supportive friend and a new relationship.(0:43:55) - Healing, Relationships, and Personal GrowthJesse Gibbs shares her story of finding love, openness about past failings, importance of therapy and connecting with safe people, and power of healing and grief.(0:56:17) - Motorcycles and Overcoming Narcissistic AbuseJesse Gibbs shares her journey of personal growth, discussing her relationship with her mother, the empowering experience of dangerous activities, and the unique challenges of a purity culture.(1:04:36) - Thank and Promote the PodcastJesse Gibbs shares her journey of finding love, meaningful conversations with her partner, and her relationship with her father.To learn more about Jesse Gibbs, please visit: https://www.girlhidden.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join Todd Murat and special guest Mo Cooper from Houston, Texas as we journey through a nostalgia-filled episode covering everything from childhood experiences to personal growth. From youthful trips to NASA and run-ins with creepy-crawlies to hilarious weed stories and adventures in Amsterdam, we share it all in this heartwarming and insightful episode.We also dive into the importance of self-acceptance, growing up in diverse communities, and the impact of our parents' health on our own lives. With laughter and sincerity, we discuss our adventures, misadventures, and the lessons learned from them all. Mo and I wrap up by emphasizing the significance of self-care and self-love in leading a healthy life – both physically and mentally.Throughout this conversation, you'll discover the power of prioritizing your own health and well-being and the courage it takes to truly look at ourselves in the mirror and love who we are. Tune in to this unforgettable episode where we explore life, love, and growth with Mo Cooper, and find inspiration in our shared experiences.--------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ---------(0:00:03) - Childhood Memories and FearsWe share experiences with spiders and natural disasters, discussing our fears and funny stories.(0:08:57) - Family, Memories, and Self-AcceptanceMy family's struggles with cancer, my Mom's strength, my siblings' support, my mother-in-law's health, and my Catholic high school experience are discussed.(0:16:10) - Growing Up in a Diverse CommunityWe reflect on Afrikville Monument, my 88% Scots-Irish heritage, and humorous tales of diversity and acceptance in Halifax, Nova Scotia.(0:24:49) - Amsterdam Adventures and Weed MemoriesWe share stories of marijuana use, reminisce about using an apple as a pipe, and explore perceptions of intelligence, wit, and humour.(0:30:24) - Life, Travel, and Personal GrowthWe discussed gay bars, trans bars, marijuana use, dressing up, and recognizing lady boys.(0:43:45) - Starting Health Coaching Business With Self-CareWomen prioritize their own health, loving themselves first, and celebrating being themselves, with therapy to reinforce this message.(0:56:48) - Love Yourself for a Healthy LifeLoving ourselves, physical and mental health, investing in our future, tapping into unique gifts and talents, and having courage to look in the mirror.(1:09:44) - Life, Love, and LocationMo and I discuss transitioning, loving oneself, health, and energy efficiency.(1:23:34) - Surviving and Embracing Gun LifestyleMo and I discuss transitioning, untraceability, marijuana business, dating someone younger, and the power of storytelling.(1:31:16) - Farewell and GratitudeMo and I discussed self-care, loving ourselves, embracing who we are, and fear of transitioning.To read full summary, please visit https://toddcastshow.com To learn more about Mo Cooper, please visit: https://www.momindbodysoul.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We are joined by Constantin Morun from Halifax, Canada to discuss his life story and the spiritual path he has led.Growing up in communist Romania during the 1980s was a vastly different experience than the lives many of us know today. In this episode, I chatted with Constantin Morun about his fascinating upbringing under a repressive regime and the powerful impact his childhood experiences had on his personal growth. We explored life before the internet, the restrictions and fears of living under communism, and the amazing journey his family took to immigrate to Canada in pursuit of a brighter future.Constantin shared insights from his grandparents who lived through the Great Depression and World War II, and the invaluable lessons he learned from their experiences. We talked about the importance of appreciation, gratitude, and understanding the power of communication in relationships. We even delved into the intriguing world of artificial intelligence, discussing its incredible potential as a tool for creatives and the pitfalls that may come with it.Lastly, we touched on the power of setting intentions, pursuing passions, and embracing a growth mindset. Konstantin shared the story behind his podcast, Unleash Thyself, and the magic that can happen when we open ourselves to altruism and connection. Join us as we discuss the significance of rational logic in goal-setting and how responding to life's circumstances with love can lead to a cycle of positive outcomes. Don't miss this captivating episode!To learn more about Constantin Morun and check out his podcast Unleash Thyself -Please visit https://unleashthyself.com/ Episode KeywordsCommunism, Romania, Childhood, Great Depression, World War II, Appreciation, Gratitude, Communication, Artificial Intelligence, Creatives, Setting Intentions, Passion, Growth Mindset, Podcast, Unleash Thyself, Rational Logic, Goal-Setting, Love, Karma, Cycle of Positive Outcomes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Marc Paisant joins us from Alpharetta, Georgia. Born in New Orleans, Marc shares his story of growing up and how he became the mental fitness success story he is today. Marc grew up with a twin brother and sister with their mother and father. He shares stories from his early childhood in New Orleans. He recalls time spent with his grandparents during the summers and what it was like to move at age 4. The house they grew up in is the same one Old Dirty Bastard's (the music star) widow lives in today. Looking back on his childhood, Marc recalls not being influenced by drugs, crime, or other things that some kids were doing. He grew up with excellent role models who taught him to be responsible, honest, and kind. His father is still alive and they talk often. He realized how much of an influence his father had on him when he raised his children.Ironically as a twin, Marc finds he has more in common with his sister than his fraternal twin brother. He shares a story of growing up with ADHD in a black household, which doubted anything was wrong with him. He feels that by missing the treatment of medication, he lost an opportunity to overcome the challenges of living with ADHD. We discuss the struggles of being a student with ADHD and how Marc overcame his challenges. Growing up with a twin, his mother fought to keep him in all the same classes as his brother and was always compared to his brother. He wishes that they knew he just learned differently. We talk about why gifted students get bored and do not perform up to their full potential.Marc recalls how he met his wife and the beauty of their story. His personality won her over. Using humor to mask his true emotions, Marc remembers a time after high school when he felt alone and isolated. Our discussion shifts to the topic of love and the importance of self-love before having the ability to love another person. He ended up eating and drinking too much and became severely overweight. Working in a toxic environment, he shares how he had an epiphany one night while driving home. He considered committing suicide and was just seconds away from doing it, but felt responsible for the vehicle he was driving that did not belong to him. His care for another person's property was more important to him than the desire to end his life.Through counseling, Marc found a struggle to find the right therapist for his needs. Once he found the right therapist, he received the help he needed. He learned that there was nothing wrong with him and that he wanted to help him. we talk about the importance of finding the right therapist that aligns with you. Sometimes you need to ask for another person if the one you are with is not fitting for you. Therapy can be an awesome, liberating experience and we discuss the benefit of working with a good therapist. He shares the importance of being yourself and not working to please other people.Marc Hosts a podcast called Relatively Normal, which is about mental health issues and how to overcome them. He encourages people to communicate openly about their feelings and to learn to express their feelings openly. It's important to reach out and let someone know when you need to talk. Men and women express this need differently and it's important to learn to recognize the signs. Vulnerability is among the most powerful things, a true display of strength. Marc believes we can make talking about our feelings a societal norm. Managing anxiety is a challenge for him, but he diligently works at it and does his best in every situation. Change just one thing today. Find something that makes you happy and do it. Anything. Just do it. For you. This is an act of self-care.To learn more about Marc Paisant, please visit: https://paisantfitness.issacertifiedtrainer.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ruth Fearnow joins us today from Fort Wayne, Indiana to discuss mindfulness for life and how her life led to her purpose. Born in Pacifica, California Ruth has vague memories of her early childhood. Her father was an FBI, CIA, NSA, and intelligence professional. Her earliest memory as a child was chasing her cat around the house. Ruth grew up with 5 siblings, being the 4th born. She remembers feeling alone, despite having a family around her. As a therapist, Ruth believes in diving deep into the root cause or the why of experiences.Todd shares his experience with Landmark Education and The Landmark Forum, as well as one of his favorite books "Your Erroneous Zones" by Wayne Dyer. He recalls learning integrity and the amazing experiences he had while there. Ruth shares how some people can experience struggle by comparing themselves to others. This is not a healthy choice. Ruth is about responsibility and compassion in her therapy with clients.Ruth's parents were divorced when she was 14. She recalls her father being a principle-based man who was authentic and imperfect in the most beautiful ways. After several years her father tried to get back with her mom, but the timing was not right. He ended up meeting and marrying someone else, who unfortunately passed away. While he was grieving, Ruth went for a visit and found out her father has already engaged again - to her mother. They remarried and re-discovered the spark that originally brought them together so many years ago. She recalls her father sharing that what saddened him most is the thought of not growing old with his original wife (her mom). Her father passed away but left a legacy of humor, wisdom, and practical jokes - right up till the very end of his life. He was an amazing man.She comments that men in later life who do not remarry have a higher suicide rate, while women who do not remarry later in life end up starting a bridge club. Men tend to take being alone harder than women.Ruth shares a wild story from her teen years. She innocently went along with a friend off-roading and ended up getting stuck in the middle of nowhere. The guy she was with ended up climbing the fence of a local military base and ended up stealing a military vehicle. He ended up crashing through the gate in a stolen military vehicle. Not knowing what to do, she got in and they used the truck to free their stuck vehicle...and they put the stolen truck back inside the gate. They both got arrested for a slew of charges by MPs from the military base.Looking at the core of what causes issues, Ruth helps people practice mindfulness, grounding, and other forms of emotional regulation. As a therapist, she strives to find what makes people tick, heal and learn to understand mindfulness. We discuss avoidance and delaying emotional reactions in certain circumstances. Through her innovative techniques, she experiences complete transformation with her clients in a remarkably short period. She helps people get out of their "story", which feeds the drama. She comments that people sometimes don't even seem to recognize their transformation, it happens in a very natural way. To do this type of work requires an ability to experience discomfort and work through it. Her latest book, "Therapeutic Mindfulness, A Healing Skill Not A Coping Skill" is available on Amazon.To learn more about Ruth Fearnow, please visit: https://ruthfearnow.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we are talking with Anne Metz from Tause, New Mexico about her life and how she became a psychedelic therapy practitioner. Born in Virginia, Anne recently relocated to the West. She grew up with her older sister and remembers going to church in early childhood where she was told “people who drink alcohol are going to hell”. This upset her as she thought of her father who innocently had a beer after work. She recalls this as the first time she began thinking about spirituality and how things worked. Anne used to regret the time passing during her school years, feeling melancholy about those changes. As she grew into life, she felt hesitant about herself due to social norms. She recalls how special an opportunity it was when she met new friends. She was a good student and took life seriously at a fairly early age.Anne explains how through a carefully controlled and supervised process, the use of psychedelics in treating mental, emotional, and even spiritual challenges. By experiencing a proper dose of LSD, Psilocybin Mushrooms, MDMA, or Ketamine a patient can experience a sort of "shortcut" to get to the root of any issue and discover an intrinsic, actionable resolution and change. This experience for some has provided results equivalent to years in therapy and treatment - in an almost instantaneous manner. For example, those suffering from PTSD, Depression, or overwhelming Anxiety could, in theory, address, identify, and resolve the issues at the core of their struggle. Sometimes it can be difficult for the human mind to rationalize certain changes and possibilities, but the system behind the brain can interpret and solve virtually on its own. The trick is to access this system and influence it for positive change. That's where the use of psychedelics comes into play. Through a guided therapy session, one learns to better understand themselves, and when ready, a therapeutic dose of the chosen method is administered. Once the patient begins to experience the effects of the chosen method, the process is underway and the therapy continues until the effects of the medicine have subsided. Through the use of medicinal psychedelics, a person can get to the root of a problem and eliminate it to enjoy a more healthy and meaningful life. Suffering is a normal part of the human experience, but suffering can be something we overcome. A person can discover new freedom and spiritual awakening with a supervised and carefully applied medicinal dosage.If you'd like to learn more about Anne Metz, please visit: https://nomorebadtrips.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today we are joined by Alan Cox of Christchurch, New Zealand. Born in London, Alan shares his story of early childhood trauma and how he overcame obstacles and evolved into who he is today. He grew up with both parents and a younger brother but doesn't recall much of his childhood years. This time in his life got naturally blocked out from his memory. Alan shares the story of his father as a double-decker bus driver in London on the famous Route 15 and his memories as a child. He shares his journey of moving to New Zealand, as well as how he met his wife. A true love story, his wife started out as a friendship and became a romantic engagement over time. He describes knowing she was the one and how real it was for him. We learn about his sense of destiny and the things that happened along the way that defined their relationship.We learn about the birth of Alan's first child, George who struggled with challenges at birth. His son used to cry more than normal and had other signs of distress that were finally resolved by cranial osteopathy, which was a subtle treatment unlike any other. Once treated, George was sleeping more, crying less, and struggling much less. The treatment worked like a miracle. Along the way, Alan brought two more little ones into the world while pursuing his career path. Alan found himself working to provide a mental well-being app called Ever Yellow. After discovering the vast ineffectiveness of so-called mental health apps, Alan decided to create something that was indeed effective. Based on science, psychology and knowledge of human conditioning this app seeks to provide a way to overcome grief, trauma, stress and more. Alan became obsessed with this project and was consumed with it completely.Realizing the struggle people have with mental health, depression, and suicide, this app is intended to help people find peace and escape the mental and emotional things that often slow us down in life. We wrap up by discussing the theoretical reasons behind music and frequency being effective in human conditioning. Todd shares his theory about how frequency works and the response of the human body. Todd shares the story of the water experiments and the rice experiment in the context of how the human body operates based on frequency.The Ever Yellow App is truly remarkable in what it delivers and the possibilities for users. If you are seeking to improve your life, rise above a challenge, reach higher, and escape depression, the Ever Yellow App is completely customized around each individual's needs. Alan remarks that our mental conditioning determines our thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and more - much like an operating system. The App helps to deconstruct bad input from the past (memories, thoughts, stories, feelings) and replace it with healthy information.If you want to change something in your life for the better, check this app out!!To learn more about Alan Cox and get the Free Ever Yellow App: https://everyellow.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Peter Benedicto joins us from Henderson, Nevada to talk about his life and what it's like living in Las Vegas, Nevada. Born in Birmingham, England, Peter shares his story of growing up in an abusive home with his alcoholic father and biological mother who he has little memory of. After his mother died at the age of 7, Peter went into foster care at the age of 12 which was the first time in his life he really experienced unconditional love from his elders.He discusses living in an abusive situation with his father and brother who has cerebral palsy. His father used to physically abuse both siblings and Peter remembers trying to protect his helpless brother from their father. He remembers blaming himself for the trauma he experienced and used to play soccer to release his stress. It wasn't until his good friend Mark from the UK noticed bruises on Peter and invited him to his home for dinner. That night, the family stepped in and provided a safe and healthy home for Peter to escape his abusive home life. This was the beginning of his new life and realization of his value to others as a human being. After 3 months, Mark's parents contacted social services to help Peter find a foster home and foster parents. This was the turning point in his life.Peter recalls the love and support he received from his foster parents and how they supported him as their own child. This helped him evolve from his introverted nature to a more extroverted and balanced individual. He remembers going on vacations with his foster family and the wonderful memories created together. During his teen years, he played soccer and enjoyed pop music, including Robbie Williams in the UK. Before he met his wife, Peter shares the story of how he came to the United States. He recalls meeting his wife on a Philippino dating website. Ironically, Peter didn't want to move to Las Vegas and his wife (then girlfriend) didn't want to move to the UK. They started out as friends and enjoyed getting acquainted, which quickly progressed to a more serious relationship. He knew she was the one. We talk about Peter's career in real estate and how he helps people relocate to the Las Vegas area. He enjoys assisting others in learning the ins and outs of living in the Las Vegas area. Todd discovered Peter on YouTube by watching his channel Living in Las Vegas Info. He helped Todd find and acquire a beautiful home in Henderson, Nevada where he now resides. Finally, for those who have suffered abuse as a child, Peter is available to talk about the process of escaping the abuse, as well as reprogramming the trauma with a healthy emotional and psychological paradigm. Peter is living proof of overcoming challenges that could have held him back. Because of the love he received from his foster parents and eventually his wife and now 5 children, Peter became a completely different person. He is eager to pay it forward with the support and kindness he has received. He believes anything is possible when you set your mind to it and offers a level of service that seems rare in today's world. If you are considering the Las Vegas area in your future, Peter will help you in ways others in the industry simply don't. He is a class act and produces results based on each individual's specifications. Most of all, he is a man of integrity and a heart for others which is rare indeed.To contact Peter Benedicto, please email: peter@livinginlasvegasinfo.com or on YouTube @Livinginvegasnv Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tonight we are joined by Manuj Aggarwal from Vancouver, Canada to discuss his upbringing and life path. Born in India near the Himalayas, he recounts the social fabric of Indian culture and how it brings people together in a community. We discuss the differences in Indian culture socially with United States social norms. Manuj discusses the cutthroat, competitive world in India, describing it as a jungle-like atmosphere. Coming from a broken home, he recounts his childhood as a survival process. He lived in an isolationist paradigm and became quite introverted. Manuj shares his earliest childhood memory of being at his Father’s factory at the age of 6-7 and how it was a traumatic experience being around such heavy machinery and loud noises. In India, it is common for young people to work in various roles. As he grew, he wanted to be freed from the dark world of the factory world. Working 12 hours a day, 6 days a week as a young person taught him to understand how business works and how to manufacture things on a large scale. At the age of 8, meditation opened up a sense of self-awareness and a deeper understanding of the patterns in the mind and how to change them for Manuj. He discovered his love of computers and technology which led him to a lifelong passion to serve others.We learn how he learned from his parents and the regret not communicating more with his mother before she passed away. His father still lives in India and works around the clock at the age of 80. Conversely, Manuj believes in the balance of work and enjoying freedom from work during retirement years. Manuj shares his perspectives on meditation and how it engages self-awareness, personal responsibility for what is happening in your life, and realizing the power you have to make the changes in your life that you desire. As he continued to explore working with computers and technology, Manuj found a calling in the sphere of Artificial Intelligence. Around 2007, Manuj began working with AI and discovered a plethora of parallels between AI and the human mind. We discuss how the definitions of work, collaboration, and other concepts will change due to AI. AI and data are the powerful tools that big companies are leveraging to generate wealth and influence long-term change in society.Manuj believes AI will strengthen human relationships through enhanced communication. The best way to build relationships is to be a good communicator. AI makes this possible. This could make a positive change in online dating, social interactions, and other avenues for people to come together. As a problem solver, Manuj utilizes neuroscience and technology to help others achieve goals. He helps people find solutions within, based on the individual. At the core of Manuj’s talents is the ability to identify the how and who related to the solutions he creates to achieve results. To learn more about Manuj, please visit: https://manujaggarwal.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tonight we deviate from the norm and will take a journey into the sounds of Electric Sex. Todd Murat, founder of Electric Sex shares his innermost feelings and perspectives through his unique and evocative musical expression. Sit back, relax, and enjoy!ELECTRIC SEX TRACKLIST Children of the Storm Opulence Forever The Trip Boom Boom Baby 21 For Fun Finally I'm Free Jupiter Dreams Operator Error Ninety Three House of Amber Light Want to hear more? Check out Electric Sex Official on SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/electricsexofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

PLEASE SEE WEBSITE FOR FULL SHOW SUMMARYI am so grateful for the opportunity to share with all the wonderful people on The ToddCast Show. This show has been revealing and inspirational in ways I never would have imagined. We began this journey together on June 9th, 2022, and over the weeks and months have heard from unique people all around the planet.In this episode, we will review the past 39 episodes and discuss key takeaways from individual episodes and an overall consensus between all the guests collectively. So let's sit back and enjoy this special episode and share the important life lessons learned.What do all these people share in common?Faith, Hope, Strong Values, Purpose, Passion, Integrity, Love, Perseverance, Happiness, Truth, Healthy Relationships, Avoiding Negativity, and Focus.How can you use these life lessons to better your life?We can make positive changes at any point in life, it's a choice and not always easy. In my life, many lessons come from within and are directly related to relationships with others. Sometimes the harsher the experience, the bigger the lesson learned. Sometimes it's just a small seemingly random thing too that teaches us the lessons we need in life. The important thing to remember is we are never too old to learn, never too smart to be wrong, and never too wise to be humble. I think it's natural as we age to believe we have all the answers, but we don't. It's the age-old lesson of knowing what you know, knowing what you don't know, and learning what you don't know you don't know...sometimes we simply don't know we aren't aware of something.A wise man once told me over and over that "baby steps" will get you to your goals. It's true. While there are many shortcuts in life, the truly meaningful and valuable things in life tend to take time. Time, patience, perseverance, and a sense of purpose make us take that first step, then the next, and so on...IMPORTANT LIFE LESSONS LEARNEDLive in true integrity - meaning, always do what you say you will do and when you say you will do it,and the moment you realize you cannot do it, let the other person know. Tell the truth, always.Always Believe In Yourself - But Learn To Know When You Are Wrong & Own It.Never underestimate your potential. You have the potential for greatness.Never be self-seeking in business. Always maintain the attitude of being in service to others.Never undervalue yourself as a person. You have value just as God created you.Never compare yourself to others. They are not living your life, you are.Never choose hate over love. The energy of hate can hurt our minds and destroy our health.And never say never...because amazing things do happen, seeming miracles.Remember, one step first, then the next, and so on. Take it one day at a time, while keeping your eye on the long-range picture and timeline of your actions and achievements...even your setbacks. Believe it or not, a setback can be part of the bigger plan and might actually help you.WHAT CAN YOU DO RIGHT NOW?Get out there and be the best you possible. Learn to love yourself and others even more. Make a new friend, say hello to a stranger. Give of yourself in an altruistic manner.Create goals that help and serve others.Stay true to your course and be patient.Humans can do anything we set our minds to, and I encourage you to pursue what sets your heart on fire. Find that thing and do it in a way that helps others, it will reward you and provide fulfillment and inspiration to further fuel the pursuit of your goals. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Keith Steincamp joins us today from Stigler, Oklahoma to share the story of how he grew up and found his calling in life. Born in Midwest City, Oklahoma Keith reflects on having lived close to his birthplace for his entire life. He talks about the passing of his late father, just before going to college. Todd shares a story about his late father and how he passed unexpectedly as well. Todd shares a song by Mike and The Mechanics called The Living Years, which tells the tale of regret associated with loved ones who pass on. Keith's earliest childhood memory revolves around Christmas time and a pair of cowboy boots and a lantern that made him feel like a big shot for a 4-year-old. One day he went out for a walk alone in the dark with his boots and lantern, much further than he ever ventured before. Todd shares that when he got boots as a child, he kicked people in the shins a couple of times and soon his boots were no more. Keith interprets his childhood as interior and exterior.He felt good about things throughout life - externally. Internally, he describes things going downhill. He became less optimistic and depressed, which took its toll on his psyche. He recalls abuse as a child and somehow interpreted the experience as "not being good enough", even though he was. The disrespect he experienced in this trauma became confidence issues inwardly. The strain on friendships was related to his feelings of inferiority and lack of hope. Keith shed his negative thinking over time by exploring religion. He thought God was a rules person and something he did not need in his life. In high school, he played lead guitar and singer in a rock band and recorded and published his music publicly. His wife was completely supportive of this and helped him fulfill this goal.As someone into rock and metal music, he received an album (vinyl) from a friend from a Christian Rock band called Resurrection Band. He found the stories in the lyrics interesting since they revolved around real-world experiences. He went to a concert for this band and began to discover his relationship with God. He became a Christian that night, which changed him forever. He felt a sense of morality and humility in the ways he displayed musical expression. He discovered God loved him and has a purpose for his life.We discuss how we sometimes compare ourselves to others and create the illusion that we are somehow not as good as we could be. We sometimes are hard on ourselves and criticize ourselves, which seems to stem from the bad things that happen, rather than the good ones. We always seem to compare our bad selves, rather than compare the good self. Over time, his thinking changed and he discovered hope in relationships. His confidence got better with practice and time. He forced himself to be open in relational connection with everyone.Keith recalls running from God in his early days and how he realized later in life how much it could have helped him. He was grateful to have had both parents together for most of his life. He recalls that his parents did not communicate openly, which had an impact on him. His sister was older and wasn't around as much later in his teen years. He learned from his sister's relationships and always remembered the one who would play catch with him as a child.Keith works with business owners to help them take their businesses to the next level. He helps them realize their focus and purpose to increase profitability and value. He helps them to achieve what they want out of their business and in life. With his help, a business owner can make dramatic changes over time.To learn more about Keith Steincamp and connect with him, please visit: https://achievebusinessadvisory.com or reach out on Linked In. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Brigitta Hoeferle joins us from Atlanta, Georgia to discuss relationships and how to have healthy ones. Born in South Germany, she grew up in a small village between two vineyards. Both parents stayed together until her father passed 10 years ago. She grew up (the youngest) with two sisters. She recalls how she was inspired by Molly Ringwald as a young German person. Both Todd and Brigitta reflect on being bullied as a child in public school and the outcome of those experiences. The earliest childhood memory for Brigitta was picking strawberries with her pet Great Dane and walking around the villages. She recalls having a very happy and protective childhood but recalling the narrow-minded thinking of some in the same area where she grew up. Brigitta remembers being the leader of the pack in her friend group and didn't realize her interest in boys until she was 16. It wasn't until she was 17 that she started to realize what else was out in the world and that was when she had her first long-term relationship of 3 years.Brigitta discusses the feeling of being stuck and how that motivated her to make changes. We discuss cultural diversity and the need for some to travel and others who are content at home. Brigitta believes there are individual preferences within each and every one of us that we cannot put in a box. Brigitta loves to travel, and Todd hates to fly and is content on the ground. Coming to live in the USA from Germany was a huge achievement in her life. She appreciates the Land of Opportunity that America offers. In Germany, she shares that it is much more difficult and bureaucratic to start a business..." they will bury you in paperwork", she recalls.Even with the stark differences between countries, Brigitta feels that one is not necessarily better than the other. Every place presents different pros and cons. When you understand the environment you are in, you are in a position to keep yourself safe, even in a perceived dangerous area. Todd shares his thoughts on being a responsible gun-carrying citizen and the dread of ever having to think of fending off a criminal with deadly force. We talk about the changes in society over the decades, increasing prices, and things we cannot control. Brigitta does not take hate as part of her portfolio, Todd, and she agrees that love is the way. Brigitta believes in living outside the box and helps others to find their limitations, communication, and behavior are holding them back from what they want.The results you receive is in direct relationship to the quality of your inner and outer communication. She helps people look at themselves honestly and find what they want in life. She works with individuals, corporate trainers, and anyone who wants to change for the better. Brigitta helps people uncover the truths in what often play out as unproductive cycles in life. Her focus is to work to help others to create a win-win-win situation. It's important to practice "I" statements, rather than "you" statements. Owning our behavior and circumstances starts with I statements. It is not about the other person, it is you. We must learn to differentiate between you and I statements and own the outcomes.To learn more about Brigitta Hoeferle, please visit: https://brigittahoeferle.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Bob LeMent (56), Host of Static Radio, joins us from St. Louis, Missouri. Born in Decatur, Illinois, he recalls growing up in the late 70s and 80s with both parents married. He recounts that all of his relatives are divorced, except for his parents, who stayed together until his father died not too long ago. He has an older brother. Bob's earliest childhood memory is with his Grandfather on the boat dock on the lake at age 3, fishing from his Grandparent's property. He remembers using a stick, a string, and a bent pen his Grandfather made for him. He remembers enjoying working in the garden and playing cards and games with his Grandparents. We explore some of his fondest memories of this time in his life.As a youngster, Bob was sickly and often stayed with his Grandparents by design. He struggled with asthma at this time. He had Chihuahuas growing up, which did not affect his asthma. Todd shares that Chihuahuas come from a crossbreed of a sewer rat and a Doberman Pincher. Bob shares that his Mother still inhabits his childhood home. He reflects that a stable home life helped keep him from harder-edged life experiences. We discuss drug addiction and the issues of choosing this path. His family was always there for him.Bob reminds Todd he is likely not the reason for all this and that an issue has many components. Depression is a version serious situation that needs to be addressed. Todd misses his family and his inability to compromise and close with them. He would enjoy talking with his estranged family members but realizes they think differently. Bob reflects on his relationships in high school and when he gets into dating around age 17, the same age he graduated high school. He used to have long, curly hair and was constantly mistaken for a heavy metal musician, but he never practiced an instrument. If he were to, he would sing by choice. Bob didn't find his direction in life until age 28. As a 20+-year veteran of broadcasting, Bob is exploring the Podcast world to enjoy communicating with others. He enjoys working alone and is very technically minded. He shares the air currently with his co-host Miles on his radio show of 24 years. Bob currently works at a non-profit helping people and enjoys being in the background, enabling others to do their thing. Bob reminds us that moderation is key in all things. Knowing your limits and staying within them is vital to stay on track. Todd talks about how he discovered marijuana at age 11 and the positive impact of that experience throughout life. He continues with a story about his first LSD trip on a Halloween night in Southern California in High School. That changed his life in truly amazing ways, changing many things in ways that seemed genuinely magical. He talks about how he became a vegetarian and what acid did to resolve issues in astounding ways.We discuss Timothy Leary and the potential to broaden thought with LSD. Bob ends with a funny story about being sober and dealing with two girlfriends on LSD. Todd talks about how he used to ride around on his bicycle in the forests of Humboldt county in college on LSD without lights and the adventures of his earlier years along those lines.The best advice in life Bob shares is to believe in yourself. You don't have to be the best at anything; you just have to do something you like. What matters is that you enjoy it, not that you become something. Never compare yourself to others. Be there for yourself. No one else will. Don't be afraid or ashamed to ask for and seek help when you need it.Bob has no agenda and nothing to promote. Go check him out!To learn more about Bob LeMent, please visit: https://staticradio.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.